here’s what you’re gonna do. you’re gonna go into the thread where you’re being called out and say “I didn’t know about the content of the game. I don’t mean to come across as such. I apologize for the misunderstanding, I don’t mean to defend the developer or the game or the content within it, I just wanted to infodump about the subject itself.” and then you’re gonna say the words “I don’t want to talk about this topic anymore, I don’t have anything more to say about it beyond what I’ve already said” to the people who egg you on about it, and then you’re gonna stand up from your computer and get some fresh air.
You are still holding the line at this moment 
Then… just say that, take the L, acknowledge you can’t speak for it and move on, instead of continuing to fervently hold the line past that
I have ADHD as well and also know about the yandere subculture and also know not to reflexively jump in to clarify the nuances of the fetish of the man being accused of pedophilia. If I did do that and people called me out on it, I would simply back down and say “I know nothing about the game, so I don’t want to comment further here.” Not to minimize your experiences; sounds like a skill issue though 
I would say defending to me encompasses doubling down on a game you’ve never heard of until now being non-sexual because you feel compelled to repackage a stalker fetish as non-fetishistic 
where in undertale do you torture then kill schoolgirls and then hide their bodies. Did I miss that part 
I simply would not reflexively defend the game I know absolutely nothing about 
I’m gonna give you all at least one hour to pile onto this persnickety rapscallion, folks. Maybe less, but I’m feeling generous tonight—I’m feeling generous. Don’t say I don’t give you nice things! 
@[email protected] is the shadowboxing middleweight champion, folks. I was doing a purge sweep of [email protected] earlier and I found that they’d convinced themselves that me purging users who participated in it meant that I was spending precious hours of my life banning accounts native to sh.itjust.sucks, post-defederation.
You do know other instances are federated with both you and us, right? And some of those users on those instances post/comment in your comm. I’m banning those users. I’m fascinated that was not immediately implied. I want to know how you convinced yourself otherwise 
Imagine being so anti-Marxist as a self-titled anarchist that you start riding for ancaps 
lmao this user got banned from this community on dbzer0's end, get fucked 
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quick question: are you Richard Lee Rogers of Youngstown State University. please tell me you are. it would be so funny 