I ended up chosing "other" for question #3 because of the whole politics around "binary trans woman" being a bit of a transmisogynistic dog whistle. it would have been weird to put myself down as binary but also put myself down as nonbinary since it is also kind of like that internally for me? especially when you're a girl and also a doll. such are the complexities.
I think it would have been more useful to break it down as man/woman/third gender for that question instead of an 'binary/nonbinary/third gender/etc'
I respect that, but like to me being a woman is kind of the first and foremost important gender thing for me