This sounds kinda lame, but I create a list of things that absolutely must be done that day to stay on track with my projects. I leave when I'm done (early if I'm fast, late if I'm slow). It creates motivation to do my work efficiently and effectively (don't want to have to redo anything tomorrow!).
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Oh, that's interesting. Could be a family thing. Could also be just a good host thing.
Is that even an option? I do not currently, but it seems like a good n thing to enable on your spouse's phone...
Kudos for weaving in the toxic trait of infantilizing women.
I think the first trait is worse than the second. Waiting to do a chore knowing (1) it needs to be done, and (2) the other person will do it if you hold out long enough is such a jerk move. Although the second isn't awesome either. I think it is safe to say, don't do either of these things.
Agree about it not always being explicitly thought about. Weaponed also seemed to imply some sort of thought to me, but I couldn't land on a good word.
"Guys don't give a fuck."
That's it. That's the toxic trait right there.
Not a guy, but the one that really gets me is willfully incompetence - particularly around household or family chores (and the mental load associated with them).
Nevermind the ordering and triangle shaped bread. What the f*** is the white stuff?!? Absolutely nothing on a PB&J should be white.
So I know it is just semantics, but for some reason I don't label your description as a "woke mob" but rather just decent humans.
Yet, I do have an image of "woke mob" that is full of college-aged people who haven't experienced any adversity, but have a desire to make a mark on the world and have chosen a really irritating way to do it. And unfortunately that very small segment of the population gives the right something to latch onto that demonstrates how unhinged the left is (even though the left is how you describe it).
I have an under desk treadmill and it is easily the best investment I've made for my fitness.
I feel like this is a good read of the situation. Chalk it up to a missed social cue and file it away as a learning. For what it's worth, lots of people (autistic and not) have difficulty navigating this type of situation, particularly when in their teen years.