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just being in the midwest, thats what i mostly date, and theyre nothing special.

Theyre just people like any other woman.

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[โ€“] [email protected] 8 points 2 months ago (1 children)

People, especially family members, get even weirder about interracial relationships when you have a child. The amount of weird inappropriate racial oriented comments my partner and I get about our relationship or our young child's appearance/behavior is super exhausting

[โ€“] [email protected] 7 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

Don't worry the comments in my family started before I even got into a serious relationship, yet alone had a child! It's so disturbing, I (am a white guy) brought up casually dating a black woman and family members (especially my mom and grandmother) immediately jumped to weird comments about the appearance of my hypothetical future children. The comments gave me the creeps. I know they were trying to be endearing in some messed up way, but it still gave me the ick.