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Basically a repost pf things I said in the mega, but anecdotally I'm hearing that sales of fiction read by men are dropping precipitously, and English and literature classes in colleges are now dominated by women. It seems like young men are not being exposed to literature in the same way that they used to. Like, when I was in high school and college, you could be a "bro" kind of guy and read Chuck Palahniuk, or Hunter S. Thompson, or David Foster Wallace. For decades, authors like Hemmingway and Bukowski found receptive audiences in young men, not to mention all the crime fiction, horror, sci-fi, and fantasy that men have traditionally consumed. The "guy in your English class who loves David Foster Wallace" was a stereotype for a reason. I read in another thread that music is less culturally important to young men than it used to be. It seems like younger men just straight up see no value in reading literature or fiction, or exposing themselves or critically engaging with art and music, because the algorithms just railroad them into Alpha Gridset world.

Am I wrong about this? Am I being condescending and out of touch, or is this a real thing that's happening, where the whole "male" culture is turning into grindset podcasts and streamers?

Edit: Okay, so the impression I'm getting is that everything is worse but also kind of the same as it ever was, which sounds right.

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[–] [email protected] 16 points 1 month ago (1 children)

I'm not OP but I think the reason the gender divide is particularly relevant is that, without a focus on the humanities, alienated men largely will just turn into fascists because that's the endpoint of shallow populism that would be born in current poor material conditions. Women in the same position are less likely to go that direction (although obviously still often do so you have a point) even if they aren't exposed to any academic conversations or whatever. Empathy is critical for men to develop because we gotta learn to see ourselves as part of a whole, if you're marginalized because of your gender then you'd already understand this system by virtue of being excluded from it.

[–] [email protected] 10 points 1 month ago (1 children)

I see, that woulda been good to have laid out. It seems odd to me that A) there's an idea that the humanities have always developed empathy in men? Like dudes will only understand the system if... universities teach them about it? Which they apparently do? and B) this is new, Idk.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 month ago (1 children)

You don't need to go to a university to read Hemingway or Hunter S. Thompson, even if they are also taught at universities.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Yeah, the idea that this backslide is happening because guys aren't in university classes is just odd to me Idk. Dudes could always just read stuff?

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 month ago (1 children)

I don't think it's taken as a primary cause, the primary cause is whatever is making them not read. Furthermore, yeah, they could read stuff, and yet they don't. That's OP's point, not there being a lack of English majors.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 month ago

Then the focus on academia seems weird...