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Getting matches on dating app Hinge but 98% of people don’t respond to messages (hexbear.net)

submitted 2 weeks ago by [email protected] to c/[email protected]

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Yeah I know dating apps bad etc

I paid 17 dollars for the week pass allowing me unlimited likes 💀 of course because I’m desperate and they force you into that choice because using it for free you only get 5 free likes a day lmao. The problem is NOBODY fucking responds back to my messages, I’ve had 2 conversations out of 20 matches, one of the convos died after I asked them out, the other convo just ended abruptly for no apparent reason. It’s really demoralizing to say the least but I just don’t understand, if they don’t like me and accidentally sent a like they should just unmatch right away but they don’t.

The future is grim. How does anyone meet anyone anymore?

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[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

dating apps offer such an incestuous pool of people who have all met and had sex

I always hear this, but then why can't I seem to get in on it?

I'd be happy if I could just find a FWB or casual sex or anything like that. But I can't even get that, and it just seems like either all the dating apps/sites are dead or I'm just not good enough for anyone's standards.