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[–] [email protected] 93 points 3 days ago (3 children)

Something along the lines of "don't ever go to bed angry at each other." Like, yeah, you should try to work it out, but if you fucked up real bad, don't push it. Sleep on the couch.

[–] [email protected] 11 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago) (1 children)

Alternatively, sometimes a good night’s sleep is good for everyone to clear heads and calmly tackle their issues the next day with fresh perspectives.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 3 days ago (1 children)

Also helps with work emails...

[–] [email protected] 4 points 3 days ago

Never send an angry email the same day, and always send it to someone else for reviews. Also never put the recipients in the box until you're ready to hit send.

[–] [email protected] 26 points 3 days ago (2 children)

Sleeping on the couch isnt gping to bed, though...

[–] [email protected] 31 points 3 days ago

So, they technically didn't go to bed angry

[–] [email protected] 9 points 3 days ago

Correct, it's going to couch.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 3 days ago (2 children)

Besides couch is superior to bed, those nights when I can't get sleep in the bed the couch provides. Couch best. Even the cushions are for some reason nicer than pillows. Should definitely consider moving to the livingroom.

[–] [email protected] 10 points 3 days ago

Or getting a better bed

[–] [email protected] 12 points 3 days ago

Start an argument. Live your dream.