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Hey! I started finding out what being trans actually means about half a year ago, and as I look into it more and more, I am realizing just how much of that stuff relates to me, or sounds like what I want to be, and I really wanna look further into it.

I was wondering what are some good resources, stories of trans people or other possible signs, that would help me answer my question.

My main issue is that I do not like my body. I always thought it was because I am fat, but now that it could be something else, I have no idea where to look and see which one it is, which is something that has really been bothering me lately. I also don't like quite a few aspects of "male" society, but again, that could just be normal.

I just want to know who I am, I wanna be able to question myself and find out things about myself I would've not found on my own

Please don't reply with "you are trans" or "you aren't trans", I want the only person that answers that question to be myself.

I'd just appreciate some help, some resources, something to read up on to find out what's wrong with me

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[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 year ago (2 children)

If games are your thing, ‘What’s Your Gender?’ is a really beautifully made resource. There’s not really any mechanics, just walking and clicking interact.

https://store.steampowered.com/app/1761630/Whats_Your_Gender/

[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

I enjoyed playing this with my partner!

It's also available on Itch: https://purplesloth.itch.io/whats-your-gender

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Yeah, I got it in a queer games bundle on itch.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 year ago

Ah nice! Probably the same bundle I got it in.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 year ago (1 children)

This game helped me realize I really like they/them pronouns for myself - which started my discovery that I'm non-binary.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago

The room with all the pronoun doors is awesome!