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[–] [email protected] 34 points 7 months ago (3 children)

if both are consenting adults it shouldn't be illegal. maybe there's benefit to genetic counseling if there's intent or possibility to have children, but it shouldn't be illegal with or without that.

[–] [email protected] 31 points 7 months ago (5 children)

There are 8 billion people on this planet now. Surely you can find someone other than your cousin.

It really shouldn't need to be illegal, but I guess residents of the volunteer state require a little more incentive to find dates before the holidays, rather than during them.

[–] [email protected] 11 points 7 months ago

wasn't talking about myself, which shouldn't need to be pointed out, but here we are.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 7 months ago (1 children)

It's shouldn't be the role of government to regulate who you want to marry.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 7 months ago

But also don't do that

[–] [email protected] 3 points 7 months ago* (last edited 7 months ago) (1 children)

Most on Lemmy and other lefty spaces are of the "two consenting adults can do what they want" mind but take an inconsistent turn on this, seemingly because it's "icky" to them.

How is that any different than conservatives being anti-gay because it's "icky" to them?

[–] [email protected] 2 points 7 months ago (1 children)

It's not because it's "icky", it's because if you both have the same grandma then you only have one snickerdoodle recipe for Christmas cookies, genetically speaking.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 7 months ago (1 children)

As stated several times in this thread, the risk of genetic issues is akin to that of a 40+ year old woman having kids.

It would seem consistent to also ban that if that is your actual issue, right? So, is that what you’re suggesting?

[–] [email protected] 1 points 7 months ago (1 children)

I never called for a ban. I said maybe go out and explore the forest before climbing up the family tree. And it's my understanding that most women understand the risk of procreating after 40 and typically avoid it.

But I'm not your daddy. You don't need my approval to fuck your uncle's kids.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 7 months ago

You said,

It really shouldn’t need to be illegal, but I guess residents of the volunteer state require a little more incentive to find dates before the holidays, rather than during them.

I took this to mean that those who don't voluntarily choose to not marry/have sex with their cousins need to be forced not to by law (a ban). Did I misread that?

[–] [email protected] 1 points 7 months ago* (last edited 7 months ago) (1 children)

There are 8 billion people on this planet now. Surely you can find someone

Not really.

Speaking from a virgin, and not a cousinfucker, perspective.

'There's someone for everyone' is such a fucking bullshit platitude.

[–] [email protected] -4 points 7 months ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 1 points 7 months ago (2 children)

Sure buddy. Ever heard of 'Just World Fallacy'?

[–] [email protected] 3 points 7 months ago* (last edited 7 months ago) (1 children)

The just world fallacy is about people getting what they deserve.

That doesn't seem to really apply to the statistical argument that there are enough people out there, the chance for any given individual to not have any shot is effectively (if perhaps not precisely) zero. Small enough to not be worth considering.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 7 months ago (1 children)

Relationships are subject to much more than just statistics.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 7 months ago (1 children)

Sure. But I don't think anyone else is suggesting everyone deserves a relationship.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 7 months ago

Really? Then why the fuck everyone keeps saying you'll find someone?

Fuck it. I'm not going to argue with ingenious morons anymore, who are either pretending to be dumb or are actually dumb to understand what I am saying. Bye.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 7 months ago (1 children)

I don't see how that fallacy is relevant here though

[–] [email protected] 1 points 7 months ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 0 points 7 months ago* (last edited 7 months ago) (1 children)

...?

do you have anything actually to say?

[–] [email protected] 0 points 7 months ago (1 children)

Yes I do. I just don't know how to dumb it down enough for you to understand.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 7 months ago (1 children)

I mean you're just crying about the world being unfair because you're a virgin. I'd calm the pretentiousness here. I'll give you a hint: that behavior is a cause as to why you feel that way. Does this need to be dumbed down more? Or do you need to ask a few more wastefully empty replies that add absolutely nothing?

[–] [email protected] -1 points 7 months ago (1 children)

Absolute reddit tier reply. Have some empathy jackass.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 7 months ago

The irony here is astounding. You started off insulting me, and in multiple comments now. The original statement of there being someone for everyone still remains true.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 7 months ago* (last edited 7 months ago)

Genetically, first cousins are fine. It does slightly increase some risks, I think doubles at most for some very low likelihood cases. I don't know that it's any more irresponsible than reproducing with someone that has a family history of genetically passed diseases.

Humans were tribal until very recently, and reproducing with non-immediate relatives was normal. If it were that detrimental, we would not have survived as a species.

And no, my wife is not remotely related to me.