Wearing clothes of the opposite gender.
this post was submitted on 05 Aug 2023
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Hopefully people's weird hang up about gender all together won't be around in 100 years.
Yes, my husband is sooo cute wearing a dress even though he is 76 yo. Its time to change!
I can see this happening in the future
True. We should just get rid of gender because it's all just a social construct anyways so it's not even real. The world would be better off if we just got rid of gender and then you can wear whatever clothing you want without it being "closed off" because you don't identify as that gender.
Prostitution and drugs being illegal.
I have a hard time seeing a proper utopia driven society penalizing these. Everyone should be able to fuck. Everyone should be able to put whatever they want in their bodies too. Dicks or drugs, doesn't matter.
Total agree with prostitution, Drugs on the other hand are tricky. I like Portugals approach. Decriminalize it for individuals, prosecute the distributors and get those addicted help to get off of it. Seems to work quite good for them.
But I love drugs.
Some drugs are fine, others not so much. And some people can form bad habits and dependencies on good drugs. Its a tricky situation all around. But yes, thats the best approach imho
I've recently read it isn't going so well for them. People aren't being diverted to rehab as much anymore. The country is attracting addicts that want to get high with no repercussions.
Prostitution is already legal in a number of countries, as is cannabis and some other drugs in some places eg Portugal
I'm in general agreement with you but would make an exception for some extremely high harm drugs such as meth
Drugs are not legal in Portugal. It's decriminalised up to small amounts (ie personal use), which is different.
My understanding is that:
If you get caught with a couple of joints (or any drugs), they are confiscated, you are identified and you might have to pay a fine, do community service or go to an addiction consultation.
If you're over that limit, but not overly, you get the above + go to court and will likely receive suspended sentence and will have a criminal record.
If you get caught with a truckload (obviously for distribution), if it's your first offence you'll likely also get suspended sentence, such is the state of our justice. If it's not your first offence, you'll likely do jail time.
Thanks, that's a great explanation
What benefit does making 'extremely harmful drugs such as meth' illegal provide? In the US meth is illegal. In the US meth use is an epidemic. Prohibition doesn't stop people from accessing or using drugs. It just puts a legal constraint that adds fear of repercussion and social stigma on users that is another barrier to overcome when attempting to seek help and treatment. Not to mention illegal drug trades mean potentially dangerous, unregulated products and the crime that drug trade is often associated with.
i would not, if you want to do hard drugs you can. in a controlled environment with a doctor nearby. of course you will have to pay for that.
if you ban it, people that want it no matter what will crate an illegal market for it.
Free-the-nipple hopefully.
I know there's a lot of humor over this campaign but the fact that it is illegal for one gender to do something and not the other gender and the length that media and social go to to censor only female nipples is kind of mindblowing.
Sounds like a simple and easy thing that will eventually pass into absurdity but with the whole "save the children" crackdown going on, I'm not optimistic that this is a freedom women will enjoy in a 100 years.
I don't know that it'll happen in time for me to benefit from it, but if free the nipple becomes more normalized, I'm hoping my nipples being visible beneath my shirt stops being so taboo (I mean bumps, not sheer shirt). I am sick of deciding I am not going to the store because I don't want to put a bra on. I feel uncomfortable answering my door without a bra or hoodie. Forget going to family functions or work without extra padding in my bra. I hate it. They're normal. They're natural. Stop sexualizing the fact that women have nipples.
Be the change you want to see in the world. I am old enough to remember a time before this ridiculous insistence on round lumps instead of boob-shaped boobs and am noticing FINALLY the chokehold that thick padding and "modesty pads" is waning. Around here I am seeing more ladies braless, and in bras but with a more natural look.
It's not even remotely immodest to have nipples, boobs come standard with them. I am not sure why the trend of the too smooth profile held on so stubbornly, but it is just a trend. I hate it and always have.
Yeah 2023 and theres still some for real Scarlet Letter shit going on if women leave the house in taboo mode apparently.
Human genetic modifications for improved physical/mental/emotional performance and aesthetics reasons. I'm sure furries will get what they want someday.
As long as it doesn't lead to the eugenics wars.
It will.
People need to stop seeing history as something we get to design.
God I hope to wag a tail in my lifetime.
Access to abortions, I hope, sh!t is getting long.
Being overweight. It's a matter of years before a magic pill cures obesity.
Obesity will no longer be seen as a social taboo, but as a disease than can be cured.
I hope you’re right. I hope soon. If there’s any way to fix obesity it will make a very noticeable impact on life expectancy, and health expectancy.
As a personal note, my Mom is approaching 80 with serious health issues and lack of mobility. She would be so much better off if one of those was not obesity
It's worth considering that obesity was far, far less common 40-50 years ago than it is now. I don't know exactly why. It could have to do with something in the food supply, or some other environmental or cultural factor.
How do you see that manifesting?
Hunger suppressant? Prevention of food breakdown? Some meth like energy burning? Some test like muscle growth?
All have dangers.
I suppose you could have some sort of fat camp where you are monitored by doctors and lose like 1kg a week for a couple of months.
Why not a fashion choice?
Because it's extremely unhealthy?
Hasn't stopped fashion before
If you can already be any size you want I'm sure you can make sure to keep the fat out of your organs.
I suspect that some degree of polyamory may be more socially acceptable in 100 years than it is now.
Don't worry too much, Kojima will make a game about it eventually.
I am going to operate under the following assumptions:
-the current global trend towards authoritarian governments will continue and become more prevalent
-balkanization will be the new norm: an atlas will show more numerous and smaller countries
-climate change (extreme heat, extreme humidity and sea level rise) will make large regions functionally unfit for human habitation by reasons of lethal heat and/or humidity, loss of coastal access, lack of potable water and/or loss of sustainable agriculture.
-we'll be well into the technological curve for AI and robotics. We'll have gone past the early stage where people over-estimate technological capabilities and far into the later stages where people will under-estimate technological capabilities
-if cash is still legal, it will be useless for all legitimate transactions because no institution wants it. If it still exists, it will only be useful for peer-to-peer illegitimate transactions: crime, drugs and sex.
-whatever is bad now will be worse
So: social taboos that exist today that will not be taboo in 100 years?
-slavery: we already see slavery in all but name in the form of privatized prisons and wage-slavery (work a soul-killing minimum wage job, or die/be homeless). What if the cost of being able to emigrate from a country or region that is uninhabitable is slavery, whether real or de facto? It's the cheapest form of labor.
-murder: being deemed outlaw will make a comeback. An outlaw is outside the protection of the law, so killing an outlaw is not a crime.
-extortion: governments and government proxies (militias, death squads, religious sects) will exercise sanctioned extortion
-hoarding: if you are living in an unstable balkan state or are an unpopular minority in one, hoarding will not be pathologic
-civilian ownership of firearms
-racism and nationalism; best way to keep out undesirable climate refugees is to de-humanize them
-corporations being into every piece of the pie: a logical extension of the trend to privatization or "wanting government to be run like a business" is the replacement of nation-states by corporations or zaibatsu-like alliances of multiple corporations
No offense intended, but I sincerely hope you are wrong on all accounts. I doubt it, but one can hope...
balkanization will be the new norm: an atlas will show more numerous and smaller countries
How is this not more of a thing? All these countries that didn't exist until Europe organised them have grown and matured (in a way). But plenty of countries complain about how the boarders were made, why don't they sort them out and change things?
Like nothing is stopping them from doing it. Blaming it on someone 100 years ago that is long dead isn't stopping anything from happening.
I'd be surprised if in 100 years there's not at least one place in the world where wearing a pet collar is considered socially acceptable.
It's already here, and has been for decades. Goth clubs, yo.
Is that not just a choker?
vegan diets will be more prevalent, it's more environmentally & economically sufficient, and lab grown meat will eventually be held to higher standards & be more widely available than the farming industry
I would presume that in 100 years, if humanity still exists, we'll be deep into a dark age, so there likely won't be much in the way of widespread taboos at all. Individual clans and tribes will undoubtedly have their own taboos, but there's no telling what they might be.
Being completely naked in public. At least in West Europe.
The movie called "Gataka" in some way is about this.
I am blessed, in that I tan easily to become quite dark, and so I don't burn often.
...but no amount of sunscreen protects my bald head from eventually burning. Luckily, hats!
Every comment here is happily describing a descent into a degenerate hellworld.
Every single generation has said that about every generation after them. Let's break the cycle, yeah? We'll be just fine with sexual liberation and zero judgement over personal expression, which seem to be the main things here.
Being conservative.