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In the unironic way. I expected it to exist in some form, but being this formalized? wow.
Anyway it's apparently still a thing https://inspirationalwomenseries.com/mail-order-bride-sites/ yikes-2

And you used to be able to get them from Ukraine! https://www.imdb.com/title/tt3249478/

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[–] [email protected] 64 points 1 week ago (2 children)

It's kinda weird how this was a normalized joke in TV/movies

Because this is just like, slavery right

[–] [email protected] 46 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 26 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

I got into a spirited debate with someone who was saying that it's basically a transaction that benefits both parties

Actually, it benefits the women more because they get to move to a nice country, and her kids will be set up for success.

[–] [email protected] 28 points 1 week ago

I was there at the time (the 90s). It was a very common “joke” and no one ever made the connection that hey, that’s weird how we just destroyed the Soviet economy and now all these women from the former USSR are available to be purchased…

[–] [email protected] 53 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I saw an ad from the like 1930s for buying "healthy" indigenous children from those residential schools to do farm/house work and "raise" until adulthood.

settler colonial states and their affection for slave labor are inseparable.

[–] [email protected] 35 points 1 week ago

not just slavery, not just child labor

[–] [email protected] 45 points 1 week ago (2 children)

In the unironic way. I expected it to exist in some form, but being this formalized? wow.

The image you posted is fake. It's using a modern typeface. The photo is taken from the internet. Mail order brides are and were definitely a thing but this is a joke.

http://tinyurl.com/28bo9lcr

[–] [email protected] 21 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

I was gonna say the text for the "ad" looks way too clean and straight, and doesn't match the artifacting of the rest of the image.

[–] [email protected] 10 points 1 week ago
[–] [email protected] 41 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)
[–] [email protected] 33 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I went to college with a russian girl whose mom was a mail order bride.

[–] [email protected] 24 points 1 week ago (1 children)

What did she tell you about it?

[–] [email protected] 11 points 1 week ago

Not much, other than they both wanted to go back. They were from Novosibirsk.

[–] [email protected] 26 points 1 week ago

Oh man yeah. Did you know literal bride selling (as in selling a wife you didn't want) was a thing in England until the 1800s (admittedly often used as a way of mutual divorce)

[–] [email protected] 21 points 1 week ago

Actually makes me feel physically ill

[–] [email protected] 18 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Pretty sure this still is a thing

[–] [email protected] 11 points 1 week ago

Yeah I write that in the body text

[–] [email protected] 15 points 1 week ago

Forget everything you think you know about "mail-order" brides and get ready for an outrageously funny, touching and unforgettable look at the extreme lengths people travel for love.

Sex trafficking, how quirky!

[–] [email protected] 14 points 1 week ago
[–] [email protected] 10 points 1 week ago

before the invasion ukraine was the sex trafficking capital of europe

uh, unfun fact, i guess

[–] [email protected] 10 points 1 week ago

inspirationalwomenseries.com

ranked list of sex trafficking websites

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