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Reading Antifragile by Nassim Taleb was eye-opening for me. I turn to the concepts of the book whenever I feel unsure about a decision or opinion.

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[–] [email protected] 47 points 11 months ago (1 children)

Hitchhikers guide. 42 for the win always know where your towel is and don't panic

[–] [email protected] 9 points 11 months ago (1 children)

The amount of times we answer 42 in our family... we just can't help ourselves

[–] [email protected] 3 points 11 months ago (1 children)

How many roads must a man walk down?

[–] [email protected] 3 points 11 months ago (4 children)

Wait I know this one, is it ... 42?

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[–] [email protected] 21 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago) (4 children)

Walkaway by Cory Doctorow. I was interested in anarchism in my college years, but turned away from it because of what I perceived as the strongman problem. What happens when the psychopaths come for what you have?

Walkaway solved that. In a post scarcity society, you walk away. Let them have your shit. You can build new shit, better shit, avoiding the mistakes you made and making grander mistakes forever into the future.

This book brought me back into the fold. It was transformative, and in a really big way

[–] [email protected] 8 points 11 months ago (4 children)

You wouldn't have post scarcity society in anarchism, though. And if that has been achieved before, it would be what they attack first.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 11 months ago

There's different flavors of anarchism just like there's different flavors of anything. Saying they'd all "attack x first" is very far beyond what any person can reasonably predict. Particularly given how chaotic anarchy can be.

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[–] [email protected] 17 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago) (1 children)

Shigley's Mechanical Engineering Design 10th edition

Sigh.... kind of wish it wasn't.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 11 months ago (1 children)

Why? Shigley's is awesome. I still refer to my heavily tabbed copy at work on occasion.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago)

I agree that its a fantastic resource. But the only times that book gets opened is when I'm about to make my brain hurt bigly and it makes me regret choosing mechanical eng just a liiiiiitle bit.

[–] [email protected] 15 points 11 months ago

The Lord of the Rings trilogy, by Tolkien

I return to it ever couple of years, always in bad times and often in good times too. Everyone is trying to do the best they can, contributing what they can. Only few characters are at all malicious. Emotions are deep and powerful, portrayed lightly. The whole story is a great collaboration where wildly different people overcome their differences to reach a single, all-encompassing goal.

[–] [email protected] 12 points 11 months ago (1 children)

I have a version of The More Than Complete Hitchhikers Guide to the Galaxy that's genuine leather bonded with gold leaf page edges and builtin bookmark. It's on display on a special shelf. Everyone who visits thinks it's a bible, and in a way it is as it does have a lot of good advice about life, the universe and everything.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 11 months ago

Protect me from knowing what I don't need to know. Protect me from even knowing that there are things to know that I don't know. Protect me from knowing that I decided not to know about the things that I decided not to know about. Amen.

Lord, lord, lord. Protect me from the consequences of the above prayer. Amen.

[–] [email protected] 12 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago)

The Jedi Code: A Manual for Students of the Force. I am lucky enough to have a copy which been passed from master to student, and many annotations have been added to enrich, update or contest the material in the book, which really widens the perspective. Sadly, a section near the front of the book has been ripped out, I’m guessing that one of my predecessors wanted to scan the section regarding the Prophecy of the Chosen One - probably to email a PDF of it to Master Windu!

[–] [email protected] 9 points 11 months ago

The Joy of Cooking

[–] [email protected] 9 points 11 months ago (1 children)

Some of my favorites:

Thinking fast and slow, Daniel Kahneman
Truly a great book that has been influential in how I approach presenting material to other people and in making sense of the world. Daniel and his long standing research partner received the Nobel prize in economics with there work in behavioral psychology. The book teaches you how people think, make decisions, and process information.

Antifragile, nassim taleb.
I won't say much other than to make a counterpoint. As much as I enjoyed the book and his presentation and arguments around making systems antifragile, his witing can be summarized by a quote from Dr. Tetlock: "His witing is like a fine French meal, gently dusted with shit." Taleb is a bit up his own ass at times, but antifragile is imo his best work.

Superforcasting, Phillip Tetlock.
Great book on how to quantify the chance of future events. Famously feuding with nassim taleb, though really it's more taleb feuding with anyone who has different ideas than him.

Man's search for meaning, Victor frankl.
One of the most interesting, heart wrenching and warming books. Whether you subscribe to his exact philosophies, frankl is a wonderful read.

The better angels of our nature, Steven pinker.
Probably the most exhaustively assembled academic book I've ever read on the trends of progress.

Origin story, David Christian.
An excellent history of everything with a focus on the repeating patterns of humanity trending towards more complex social interactions. Am easy and enjoyable read.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 11 months ago

I loved Thinking, Fast and Slow. I really enjoyed how he included a lot of the questions and tests he used so you could answer them as you read the book.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 11 months ago

Oh, the Places You’ll Go! by Dr. Seuss

[–] [email protected] 8 points 11 months ago

Man’s Search for Meaning by Dr. Victor Frankl. Saved me in so many ways.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 11 months ago (7 children)
[–] [email protected] 8 points 11 months ago

I don't think you deserve the downvotes and attacks. I believe they're from people who think everyone who reads the bible is a right wing religious fanatic. Same as the people who think everyone who reads the Koran is a jihadist, which ironically tends to be...

[–] [email protected] 7 points 11 months ago

I came here to say that. Sorry about the abuse you're about to take. But we deserve it apparently. Sins of the fathers or "people like us" or something, I guess.

You literally only said "The Bible" and I already saw some frothing.

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[–] [email protected] 6 points 11 months ago

When I was in my 20s, definitely Principia Discordia.

Now... maybe Brecht's Threepenny Opera?

Or Zamyatin's We.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 11 months ago (1 children)

Radical Compassion by Tara Brach.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 11 months ago (1 children)

Have kept for decades now a guided metta meditation by her. :)

[–] [email protected] 2 points 11 months ago

Her podcast is excellent.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 11 months ago (1 children)

Probably the Gateless Gate, the Eiichi ShimomissΓ© translation. I'm actually a Discordian, but I find the Principia best for introduction. It devotes a lot of space to silly rules you're supposed to violate and other introductory concepts and practices. And Illuminatus! is plagued by a masculine confidence and aggression that both the writers and Hagbard were aware of and tried to minimize. The Gateless Gate is, to me, much better for staying deep in the untethered state of pure Discordian existence. It talks a little much of patriarchs, but it's not thematically essential. And it isn't rooted in and doesn't reference modern western theology and philosophy like the Principia because it was never intended to stand in contrast to or lead people out of modern western theology. Both the Principia and Illuminatus! reference it in some way because secular zen is important to the development of Discordianism. Maybe no book has ever changed my life as much as Illuminatus! but the Mumonkan is one of my primary tools for staying rooted in this way of being. It's with me all the time. One of the first things I do when I get a new phone is make sure my Mumonkan made it over or go download it again. I read it whenever I'm feeling lost or confused and uncertain about a decision or life change. It always leads me back to me.

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[–] [email protected] 4 points 11 months ago (1 children)

Can't Hurt Me by David Goggins

Not for most people but very much how I see the world and helps me get the best out of me.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 11 months ago

Second this

[–] [email protected] 4 points 11 months ago

The Art of UNIX Programming by ESR

Not saying this book is 100% correct and perfect, but most parts of it is still relevant and refreshingly insightful even after 20 years. I sure learned a lot about great engineering and generally how to approch and tackle difficult problems from it.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 11 months ago

Meditations by Marcus Aurelius

[–] [email protected] 3 points 11 months ago

The Four Agreements. It's short. Go read it.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 11 months ago (1 children)

Pulling Your Own Strings by Wayne Dyer gave me a lot of confidence. His other books have a spiritual bent to them, I believe (I haven't read them), but the above book is just straightfoward advice.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 11 months ago

The one before, Your Erroneous Zones, has a similar vibe, more oriented to your own inner motivations.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 11 months ago (1 children)

Thich Naht Hahn - The Heart of the Buddha's Teaching

[–] [email protected] 2 points 11 months ago (1 children)

This book is notable for me for making Buddhist philosophy and practices accessible to a western audience, fostering a deeper understanding of mindfulness, compassion, and the path to spiritual awakening. It has been an invaluable resource for my interests in Buddhism, meditation, and personal growth.

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[–] [email protected] 3 points 11 months ago

Lao Tzu's Tao Te Ching I like the D.C. Lau translation https://terebess.hu/english/tao/lau.html

[–] [email protected] 3 points 11 months ago

The Daily Stoic: 366 Meditations on Wisdom, Perseverance, and the Art of Living

[–] [email protected] 2 points 11 months ago

Shakespeare's complete work. Preferably
the first folio.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago) (3 children)

Kahlil Gibrain - The Prophet

Your pain is the breaking of the shell that encloses your understanding. As the stone of the fruit must break so that it's heart may stand in the sun, so must you feel pain...It is the bitter potion by which the physician inside you heals your sick self. Trust the physician, and drink his remedy in silence and tranquility.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 11 months ago

First heard that in The Boondocks. Lol

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[–] [email protected] 2 points 11 months ago

Being Digital by Nicholas Negroponte.

It's a collection of his writings from the early nineties, edited into a book. In it, he fairly accurately predicts the rise of what we now know as Google, YouTube, smartphones, on-demand, streaming, curated content, social media, multitouch, ditigal television, digital Aristotle, remote working and so on...

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