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[–] [email protected] 27 points 1 week ago (5 children)

I've never understood why anyone would actively seek out that kind of content, but maybe I've just seen too much actual gore firsthand

[–] [email protected] 17 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I've seen no gore firsthand and I don't understand either.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 week ago

I sincerely hope you never do, seeing gore does something to you that you can't take back and needs to be respected

[–] [email protected] 14 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

it's a curiosity thing. i think there's a value to seeing it, although not regularly seeing it.

humans are capable of some horrifying brutality. we live in nice little perfect bubbles and we don't even realize it.

for example, it's very easy to catch yourself cheering for war in the name of idealism. but see a couple dozen war videos and you realize what it really means. i think your statement honestly holds true for any type of morbid type of content. for example Crime and Punishment- dissecting the psychology of a double homicide. you could say "why would you read 500 pages of dense literature about someone murdering two innocent people?"

it's because that's part of the human experience, for better or worse.

similar to interrogation videos on YouTube. Even poetry like Suicide in the Trenches


I knew a simple soldier boy

Who grinned at life in empty joy,

Slept soundly through the lonesome dark,

And whistled early with the lark.

In winter trenches, cowed and glum,

With crumps and lice and lack of rum,

He put a bullet through his brain.

No one spoke of him again.

You smug-faced crowds with kindling eye

Who cheer when soldier lads march by,

Sneak home and pray you'll never know

The hell where youth and laughter go.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 week ago

I was a morbidly curious teen, so I can understand it.

But having seen it, I must also caution against it. Shit can fuck you up.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 week ago (1 children)

r/watchpeopledie was a good way to desensitize yourself, like a way to stop fearing death

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 week ago

The kind of nightmarish stuff that I can only see as useful to make yourself prepared for potentially traumatic situation, but to only watch when in a good mindset and with proper support.. it's definitely not for everyone.

[–] stoy 5 points 1 week ago

Twenty or so year ago, when the internet was new and exciting, it was interesting to try and find the worst gore you could online.

I remember seeing some gore back then when I was 17 or so, but that period quickly faded from my interests.

The last violent thing I actively looked up was the execution of Saddam, I have no relation to Iraq or MENA, but after years of fighting in Iraq, I just wanted to get confirmation for myself that he was dead when it was reported on the news.

[–] [email protected] 23 points 1 week ago (1 children)

In the book "the road" the protagonist gives the following advice to his young son. "once you put something in your head, it's there forever. You should think about that".

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 week ago

Meh, I'll decompose.

[–] otherbarry 13 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (2 children)

Haven't heard of any, but I imagine something like that would be on its own Lemmy instance that may end up getting blocked by tons of other instances.

If you're referring to watchpeopledie (?) that community migrated to their own image posting website after leaving Reddit.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 week ago (1 children)

None of us want to host it, and simply federating with it is "hosting it" in the eyes of the government. No interest in being in the cross hairs of the government for hosting fucked up content

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 week ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 0 points 1 week ago

Which is why I'll defederate quickly for unmoderated instances

[–] [email protected] -4 points 1 week ago

Oh, that's unfortunate.

I really wish they would've chosen lemmy instead of making their own website.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 week ago (1 children)
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[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 week ago

I'd suggest trying your luck finding guro communities and asking them.

[–] stoy 5 points 1 week ago

While I hope not, I would not be surprised.

And no, I am not going to help you find them.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 week ago

There might be fediverse instances that are and can be accessed from lemmy. Take a look at the blocked instance list and you'll probably find a few.