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[–] [email protected] 1 points 13 minutes ago

Go to work, then panick that all the shops are closed and all I brought to eat is dry crackers...

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 hour ago (2 children)
[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 hour ago (1 children)

Same. I hope you have an easy shift

[–] [email protected] 1 points 55 minutes ago* (last edited 51 minutes ago)
[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 hour ago (1 children)

Work at a drive thru Christmas light park.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 55 minutes ago

Nope. At a plastics manufacturer

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 hour ago

I will cook some Cornish game hens, asparagus with garlic, mashed potatoes with garlic, maybe bread rolls. Dessert will be eggnog and chocolate peppermint cookies.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 hour ago

Play XIV Online and Geat Circle with the wife.

Game pass promo expires in 3 months

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 hours ago

Spending this year more or less alone. Parents live far away and unfortunately I don’t have anyone to watch my kitty (plus I’ve traveled a bunch recently). It’s been a very hard year for them and a tough fall for me, so it’s difficult not being there to share time together. At the same time, I’m trying not to become enveloped in sorrow and guilt and will be making lamb stew, Icelandic cookies and having some delicious spiced mead. Hope you all have a pleasant holiday o<|:)

[–] [email protected] 8 points 8 hours ago (1 children)

Xanax and wish it was 2020 again

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 hour ago (2 children)
[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 hour ago

Well we got to see the nations lowest forms of life throw a largely ineffective temper tantrum. What's not to enjoy?

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 hour ago

My partner and I were laid off December 2019. In February 2020 my government started giving us both a lot of money every month. We were not working from 2020 until 2022, and made money anyway. We spent all of our time together, at home, going out as little as possible, doing everything we loved (we have all of the same hobbies and are homebodies).

Best years of our lives.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 9 hours ago

Psychedelic mushrooms. They're legal here (Oakland, CA).

[–] [email protected] 3 points 8 hours ago* (last edited 8 hours ago)

It's my first ever Christmas alone. Still making an 8 lb ham and a nice spread of food for dinner. Will be making sandwiches and bean soup with the leftover ham. Otherwise just wallowing in self pity and doom swiping on dating sites in hopes that I won't be alone next year.

[–] [email protected] 10 points 11 hours ago

I'll be alone. I lost my mother in August, so i'm an orphan now (my dad died 5 years ago)

I'm not sad or in need of pitty though. I just need my alone time to think things over. Christmas is as good a time as any :)

[–] [email protected] 7 points 11 hours ago

My wife and I pick a country each year and plan our Christmas Eve dinner to make of food from that country. This year we picked The Gambia so it is going to be domoda (peanut stew) and thiakry (millet couscous pudding).

[–] [email protected] 31 points 16 hours ago (5 children)

I plan to go to work like it's any other day, including not getting any holiday pay. I will try not to roll my eyes as customers tell me it sucks I have to work, even while they themselves are the reason I have to work.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 12 hours ago (1 children)

Was in retail for 24 years. Holidays aren’t nearly as fun for those keeping things going.

However, I did learn a lesson about gas stations (at least the brand I was going to) where I had forgotten to get gas prior to Christmas and had to travel to see family that day. I stopped at the gas station, the pumps weren’t accepting cards and I had to go in. I apologized to the attendant and she said, “don’t apologize. I’m getting triple time and this one day will pay for all of Christmas for my kids.” She was happy as hell to be getting paid what she felt she was worth and it was a quiet day for her.

Not worth it for me personally, and a lot of us I’m sure, but not everyone hates it.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 12 hours ago* (last edited 11 hours ago)

Yeah and don't forget that some people (although not necessarily a ton in the western world) don't celebrate Christmas either. It was interesting to me because I met a young person the other day born in the US but to immigrant parents. Despite being born and raised in the US, he (and his family) don't celebrate Christmas or anything.

In line with yours, I remember always being happy to work certain holidays like new years or memorial day or whatever because they aren't holidays to me and I would get extra pay for being there.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 10 hours ago* (last edited 10 hours ago)

I mean, I guess it is indirectly the customers fault but the ~~store~~ hotel owner is the one that's making the explicit decision. Don't hate the player, hate the game, etc.

Edit: that does really suck though

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[–] [email protected] 0 points 12 hours ago (1 children)

Bro capitalism isn’t gonna end because of Christmas Eve. You have to work because that’s the job you currently have.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 11 hours ago (1 children)

Fortunately I absolutely get to refuse service to anyone giving me that kind of condescending attitude.

[–] [email protected] -3 points 7 hours ago

Sounds like you don’t or you wouldn’t be working…

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[–] [email protected] 9 points 13 hours ago (1 children)

More 12+ hour shifts to appease the blood gods my bosses worship known to us mortals as "the shareholders"

[–] [email protected] 7 points 12 hours ago

12+ hour shifts

Wow, you must be making a lot of ~~surplus value~~ money for yourself, your ~~Ted Lasso fascist PMC Neoliberal masters~~ bosses, and ~~finance capital~~ the shareholders

[–] [email protected] 13 points 15 hours ago (1 children)

I’ve taken my partner and kids interstate to see family we haven’t seen in 2 1/2 years, whilst bushfires are burning not far from our home.

We’re due to fly back on Boxing Day, and not sure what we’re going back to yet.

I’m putting on a brave face for our kiddos, especially our 4 year old who is really into Christmas this year, but we’re terrified what things look like in a couple days.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 10 minutes ago

I'm sorry to hear this. Hope you come home to an unblemished home!

[–] [email protected] 4 points 12 hours ago

We're gonna be eating lots and lots of delicious food!

[–] [email protected] 4 points 12 hours ago

Today we're not doing anything, and it will be glorious. Tomorrow we're exchanging gifts (my wife, the dog*, and I) cooking up a ham with beans and asparagus, and watching Christmas movies.

*she didn't get us anything, but we still love her

[–] [email protected] 1 points 9 hours ago

Going to see the parents for Christmas dinner and Wallace and gromit, followed by going home, smoking a fat joint, and watching the greatest chris- uh, Life Day movie of all time, the Star Wars Holiday Special.

[–] [email protected] 11 points 16 hours ago

Here in Germany, we celebrate mostly on Christmas Eve. I have a couple of hours left to get ready before my stepdad picks me up. We'll visit my grandma who sadly has to spend the holidays in hospital because she fell and hurt her knee. After that, Christmas dinner at my mom's and stepdad's house with most of the family, gifts and a relaxed evening. I'll stay over night, have breakfast and then go home to finish packing everything I need for my winter vacation which starts on the 26th.

It's been an exhausting year and I can really use the downtime.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 14 hours ago

A quiet evening with my wife. We're making a Sichuan-style hot pot.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 13 hours ago

I just did a little work, my wife is setting the table for dinner and then we will drink and watch movies together.

I’ve been looking forward to it all week.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 13 hours ago

Traditional family Christmas: Tonight we have my mother in law and her husband over for Christmas dinner and a ton of gifts for the kids. Tomorrow on Christmas day we will have the traditional "food hangover" and total relaxation day while the kids play with their presents. Yesterday we went for dinner and presents at my father in law's house and the day before that we had my parents over for presents and sweets. On boxing day we go to a combined family lunch and my mother in law's birthday which usually involves sizable amounts of smoked fish.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 15 hours ago

Going to a nursing home to visit my grandmother today, then preparing some of the dinner for tomorrow. Tomorrow doing the whole Santa gifts routine, preparing the dinner and moving furniture around to prepare for guests. Have dinner, have some fun with the guests, then relax the rest of the day and watch TV.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 14 hours ago* (last edited 14 hours ago)

~~selling stolen fissile materials~~ hey wait a second...

I almost fell for it, you won't catch me this easy MI5.

I'll be visiting family to give them presents and nothing else!

Oh and watching that Wallace and Gromit film that's gonna be on BBC One

[–] [email protected] 3 points 13 hours ago

Currently we are decorating the tree then when everyone is here we will eat Hochzeitssuppe and Zungenragout (literal translation would be wedding soup and tongue ragout) which are traditional christmas dishes in our family. Then we open the presents (in Germany you open them usually on Christmas Eve). Tomorrow we will eat roast goose with braised red cabbage and potato dumplings.

So overall just hanging out with family and eating.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 16 hours ago

For me personally, I'm gonna stay up for Christmas Eve and watch NORAD Tracks Santa.

Always is a great pass time to watch Santa's journey across the world, and is also a great tool to know his location and to know when he will arrive in your location/area. It's one of the best things of the Christmas season for sure!

[–] [email protected] 2 points 12 hours ago

Working and then my cousin's house later for some food. That's about it.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 15 hours ago

Do some blow and shag underage hookers. I want to be a famous politician.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 16 hours ago* (last edited 15 hours ago) (1 children)

Already did the family thing on Sunday and survived.

My partner and I will be celebrating with friends, they are also not Christmas and especially family Christmas fans. We are just going playing jack box, baldur's gate and probably some board games. So I'm a bit excited for first Christmas day, but we will not do anything traditional Christmasy.

It's for me one of the most stressful time's of the year.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 16 hours ago (1 children)

Wow I thought panthers were dangerous

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[–] [email protected] 3 points 14 hours ago

just try to help my family. give them love and joy.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 16 hours ago

Rest, relax, family and beer 🍻 🍻

[–] [email protected] 3 points 14 hours ago

Today i helped the hostel owner make a Christmas tree. It was fun. He did most of the work but I sat back and supervised, regaling him of tales of all the times I've been really drunk in Christmas eve.

Were going out to a bar later to try and emulate the experience.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 14 hours ago

I had to drive to rural mexico, 'we' are making pazole and tamales.

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