mental health, physical health, i don't even need a third thing those two would likely fix all my problems...
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.... I have a problem with my sleep schedule
Yeah, I think if I could get sleep sorted everything else would just fall out
This question is super timely for me so I'll be lurking with great anticipation π€«
I think learning a language. Specifically Chinese as it is the language with the most native speakers on the planet. There is nothing really stopping me from doing this so I don't know what kind of magic would help me focus on this task.
Parenting. I get so overwhelmed by my kids.
I'm proud of you. Just by the fact that you're acknowledging it. Thankyou for being a good parent by heart β€οΈ
Learning a coding language, learning a spoken language and motivation.
I started DuoLingo a couple of years ago and slowly started learning German just for fun. Itβs like 5-15 minutes a day and Iβve gotten decent at the language without a whole lot of effort. Itβs no Rosetta Stone but they keep it fun and interesting.
Du schaffst das! Ich glaubβ an dich :)
I am learning C# and Japanese my problem is the third one the motivation lol. Itβs hard to find it most of the time.
Social skills, fashion and getting better at programming.
I think I have ok social skills but I'd like to hone them and be more outgoing. Ideally I would like to be comfortable talking to new people in any group setting.
Fashion - sweat pants and a t shirt is comfy but it isn't cutting it anymore. Every time I search men's fashion I get rich guys wearing shirts that are to small.
Totally depends on your age and style, but check out streetwear communities. Its super flashy but the basics of proportions and colours can be applied to any casual outfit.
Get some jeans that fit and some neutral (not graphic) t-shirts and you'll be ahead of a lot of people.
- Voice training (trans things)
- Caloric budget management
- Physical fitness
I have a goal in mind of how I want to present for myself and to the world, and those 3 things are the biggest hurdles to overcome by FAR