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[–] [email protected] 18 points 11 months ago (6 children)

I am digged out. One garden bed has been filled, and the base of where the second one is going has been filled too. There is still a bit of soil I need to bring around in the morning before the next load is delivered, but I'm done for the day. Shower, dinner and collapse on the couch is the plan for the evening.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 11 months ago

Wow. Serious hard yakka there.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 11 months ago (1 children)

Here U go 🍺 well deserved

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[–] [email protected] 14 points 11 months ago

Just between us, I have been killing it at work since I got back from holiday. I haven't overdone it or underdone it, I've just done what I needed to do and kept what I believe to be a good balance. This feels like how this role should be performed and I'm feeling like I'm providing value.

I've provided some great input in areas both within my specialisation and outside of it, seeding ideas and generating high level technical discussions. I've collaborated with internal and external stakeholders. Progressed activities and provided valuable updates to the team on current and upcoming technologies and solutions.

Now I just need to bring that kind of energy to my personal life.. which I've started on by getting my apartment in order. Took the cardboard box pile down to recycling today and just gave my air fryer a deep clean so I can use that again without it making my apartment smell like old grease.

I know what I should do now but it's a matter of getting up and doing it. I should go for a walk or something. Go Go Gadget lifestyle changes to promote better mental health!

[–] [email protected] 11 points 11 months ago

azaleas going

Don't eat these ones.

I'm doing chips for dins.

[–] [email protected] 11 points 11 months ago (6 children)

My old lady (mum) has become a cooker. She sent me silver bullion for my birthday emblazoned with " the currency after the reset", this has been building for years but holy fuck.

Has anyone else had this? What are you doing/who are you talking to?

[–] [email protected] 6 points 11 months ago (2 children)

I wouldn't care what the fuck is written on it. It's silver bullion mate. Does she need a middle aged daughter?

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[–] [email protected] 6 points 11 months ago

The other place has qanoncasualties if that might be any help?

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[–] [email protected] 11 points 11 months ago (5 children)

unexpected giggle of the day: Boss entered a bunch of peninsula sites into the worksheet. Cut and pasted most of them. Didn't realise he'd missed the second N

yes I am a four year old.

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[–] [email protected] 11 points 11 months ago (2 children)

🐟 Just keep digging. 🐟 Just keep digging...🐟

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[–] [email protected] 10 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago) (5 children)

Today's coffee. I think I need to just buy a bunch of milk and practice my milk/foam technique but honestly, it doesn't need to be pretty to be delicious and this very much was that. As good as or better than the cafes around here.

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[–] [email protected] 9 points 11 months ago (4 children)

You know how when you feel physically sick and the meds or the hot drink kicks in and you feel momentarily relieved? That's me right now and getting the odd text from a friend and having that moment of connection and safety. Can feel the mind and heart lightening for a second like nurofen for the soul.

I wish this kind of ill feeling was better supported... get a prescription and time off for promoting healthy social connection. Whatever it is I think my next job as an employee will need more of that, either in terms of more time outside of work to foster that or better connections in the workplace.

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[–] [email protected] 9 points 11 months ago (10 children)

Please give me your positive stories about your cats being spayed. I'm taking Gibson in on Friday and I'm really nervous...

[–] [email protected] 7 points 11 months ago (2 children)

Only problem I had with a spay was Topie: she suddenly became Little Climbing Bastard.
And having had a cat go on heat before we could get her fixed - you don't want that.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 11 months ago (1 children)

Cats in heat are an absolute nightmare. Having handled a cat who was spayed but behaved like she was in heat anyway a couple of times... aaaaaaaaaaa.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 11 months ago (1 children)

Yes I've had quite a few instances of Gibson in heat and holy shit is it annoying! She acts so different too. Very snuggly and loving. Wish she was like that normally lol

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[–] [email protected] 6 points 11 months ago (1 children)

The only issue I’ve ever had with a spayed cat was a No belly snorgles sensitive scar. Be vigilant about your cone/padded ring/onesie while stitches are in. It’s a super common procedure. 👍🏻

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[–] [email protected] 6 points 11 months ago

Had male and female siblings done last year at 6 months old. Male had just started to turn into slightly stinky male cat and was giving his sister a bit of a hard time. They both did just fine, charmed the pants off everyone in the vet clinic. Declined the cone of shame, was prepared to cut socks into bodysuits if needed. Was told to keep them quiet and confined for at least a week, but a moth didn't get the memo and they were both climbing from the pendant light the next morning to get to the moth. The change in boy cat was quick, and he turned back into a sweet heart. We have another kitten in the house now who is just hitting the 5 month mark, and I'll book her in as soon as my vet allows.

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[–] [email protected] 9 points 11 months ago

Fortunately I did not join the no sleep gang last night (the joys of being at the start of a break from work!) so I'm nicely rested for my day of digging. I have 3 tons of soil to move (which sounds more dramatic than 2m for some reason) so should burn off some of the excess calories from last night's pizza indiscretion.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 11 months ago

Portuguese custard tarts at the work caf today.

This must be compensation for sitting opposite The Noisiest Oblivious Bitch In The World all morning

[–] [email protected] 9 points 11 months ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 6 points 11 months ago (1 children)
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[–] [email protected] 9 points 11 months ago

Voted earlier this afternoon. Took longer to find a park than to actually do the deed.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 11 months ago (6 children)

I’m still upset my boss is leaving and I’m not sure why I’m having such a strong reaction :(

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[–] [email protected] 8 points 11 months ago (1 children)

Exercises completed. I missed my bus! I hate that feeling when you're standing helplessly waiting for lights to change and the bus you need just breezes through the intersection. Pizza day today!

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[–] [email protected] 8 points 11 months ago

So to read there were no chips tonight was heart breaking. I is offering chips

[–] [email protected] 8 points 11 months ago (7 children)

Someone please send help. The magpies have decided to adopt the tree near my window as their nest. The new baby squawks from sunrise until sunset all day every day

Also I can't go anywhere fucking near it cause mumma Maggie has decided to permanently stand guard on the fence post. Which is convenient right near the letterbox and also where cars go

Help

[–] [email protected] 8 points 11 months ago (1 children)

Here you can borrow this..

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[–] [email protected] 7 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago)

Enjoy observing nature in action! You will need to provide some bribes to the residents, a small token of meat is ok every now and then, but don’t do it regularly because it will be bad for them and the babies. Have a friendly chat out loud to the guard bird, congratulate it on the arrival of babies and let it know you are a friend. You will thus declare yourself friend not foe, and will not be bothered.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 11 months ago (3 children)

You get a bit of meat, preferably something that looks a bit like a worm. You let mama bird see it then you flick it as far away from the letterbox as you can while sprinting to the letterbox. Do not deviate. On the way back to the house flap your arms around like you're about to take flight until you are safely back inside. Next day repeat.

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[–] [email protected] 7 points 11 months ago

Magpies like a sprinkling of rolled oats - this is cheaper than meat. Small pieces of cheese are also quite liked by my local maggies. Bribe mumma with rolled oats and/or cheese - she will probably not bother you when you go to the letterbox. An umbrella is a good shield against swooping. Bike helmets generally don't work, in fact may be actual targets.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 11 months ago

Granted. Baby squawks from sunset to sunrise.

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[–] [email protected] 8 points 11 months ago (6 children)

New cars going well. I dont love all the automation and safety stuff though. The lane departure system is really annoying when your swerving to avoid potholes and the car has the nerve to complain that your trying to protect it. But beyond that fuel economy is better than expected and its a lot more comfortable when 3 of us have to go somewhere. And Carplay, maaaan carplay is soo good!

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[–] [email protected] 8 points 11 months ago

I have had to take away the bottomless cat crunchy bowl. While Bill was sensible Ted Cat was assploding from non stop eating. Now he gets 1/2 cup a day only. Ted is not happy.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago) (1 children)

I’ll admit that when I first saw the Israel/Hamas news, even though tragic I thought it was another of the regular flair ups that occasionally happens in the region and it would settle down in a few days. But it seems bad. Sadly I don’t think there will ever be peace in the region.

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[–] [email protected] 7 points 11 months ago (4 children)
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[–] [email protected] 7 points 11 months ago (1 children)

Today can go in the bin already. Manager just dropped that she’s leaving fuck fuck meeee I can’t :(

[–] [email protected] 7 points 11 months ago (1 children)

I feel like it is a season for resignations. Got a few in the works and now I feel like… Well, it’s just not the same.

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[–] [email protected] 7 points 11 months ago (12 children)

Just perused a bunch of old letters - and I mean like, 20+ years, from when I was in high school. From friends that I no longer speak with. I distinctly remember the giddy feeling of getting mail back then. Found a learner's permit from someone that meant a HUGE amount to me, who gave me their Ls when they got their Ps.

I do have to wonder if they've kept my replies.

Or does it even matter? As fleeting as those moments were, they left a lasting impression on me. They shaped who I was to become. Maybe it's the same for them, maybe it's not.

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[–] [email protected] 7 points 11 months ago

Finally back home, whew. I'm excited to be in my own bed tonight. I hope everyone has had a great day!

[–] [email protected] 7 points 11 months ago (6 children)

FYI Connoisseur crunchy peanut butter salted caramel ice cream is excellent. Also FYI Ben & Jerry's anything is grainy sugary garbage and I have no idea why it's so popular or expensive.

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[–] [email protected] 6 points 11 months ago (1 children)

3am and I’m up trying to sneakily make rocky road Bday ‘cake’. Got caught sewing, so some surprise level would be nice.

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[–] [email protected] 6 points 11 months ago (3 children)

Tor is down. watch me panic

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[–] [email protected] 6 points 11 months ago

Managed my 5k this morning. Back was a bit tight still from the weekend gardening throw-out, so took it easier....except that I then ended up getting my best split. Still a minute or two off my best from pre-pandemic, but getting there. Doggo having a good rest now.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago) (3 children)

Woke up to what I think was an ingrown eyelash which is a first.

pulled it out (I think / hope) bugger me that's better than caffeine.

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