Tommasi

joined 3 years ago
[–] [email protected] 4 points 3 hours ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 12 points 8 hours ago (3 children)

patheticI'm so down bad for the friend I hooked up with earlier this week. I check my phone like every second minute to see if he's messaged me, and every time he does I hope it's him asking me over again.

I'm not 16 any more, I should be able to be more mature especially when it's just a casual thing. It's unfair that a cishet makes me feel like this tbh. I hope it's just a small crush and passes quickly. transshork-sad

[–] [email protected] 17 points 12 hours ago (1 children)

transphobiaMaybe it makes more sense in a US context where Christianity is more mainstream, but I always think it's so funny when someone chimes into discussions about gender with "The bible says there's only man and woman". Like... okay? And?

[–] [email protected] 10 points 1 day ago

The amount of times I put on a sweater and thought it's pretty thick, so i won't need to wear a bra under it, only to take a glance in the mirror and realise I do in fact need to wear a bra under it. It's annoying, but gives me a little dopamine hit at the same time.

[–] [email protected] 10 points 1 day ago

Not sure I agree with the "Human" claim

[–] [email protected] 10 points 1 day ago

Hate when I see a fancy looking dress online and it's like 20$ and I know it will feel and probably look super cheap, but what if...

[–] [email protected] 25 points 2 days ago (1 children)

I'll admit it was gender affirming at first, but now it's starting to get annoying that so many guys just assume I'm clueless about everything.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 4 days ago

spoilerThank you. I'd like to try with him again but idk if he feels the same. We both wanted a fun, casual thing, but maybe I have too many insecurities where that sort of thing is gonna be difficult for me and it would be healthier for me to look for a boyfriend or girlfriend that I can feel completely safe with instead.

I don't think he was selfish, but he might have gotten a bit overwhelmed when we were just trying to have fun. He's been messaging me several times through the day so I don't think it's like he doesn't care about me or like me any more, but I was maybe a little much.

Or maybe it's all in my head and I'm just overthinking things.

[–] [email protected] 19 points 5 days ago (2 children)

sexOkay, so I broke my volcel pledge and got with this guy I know and I just feel kinda lost. I was very nervous and he was good at reassuring me and making me feel less anxious, but the sex was pretty bad for both of us, and I'm not sure if he's really that into me, and I didn't really get to try any of the things I wanted to. I also maybe overshared some things by the end, and ended up making things weird. I'm sure we'll stay friends, but I wanted this to be something really fun and satisfying, but instead it was mostly awkward and confusing for me
aubrey-sad

[–] [email protected] 21 points 1 week ago (1 children)

dating??screm-aaaaa

So I've liked this guy for a while and at a party yesterday we flirted a bit. Today he's been messaging me and hinting for me to come over to his house and I want to so bad but I also haven't been with anyone since I transitioned, and I'm simultaneously super terrified and excited and aaaaaaaaa i don't know what to do!!!

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I tried waxing for the first time today! (did it on my butt after shaving my legs), and it wasn't nearly as bad as I thought it would be, epilating hurts way more.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I think epilating doesn't pick up the shortest hairs for me, because it's never quite as smooth after. Or it's a skill issue because I always quit my epilating sessions when I can't take the pain any more and I maybe should have kept going a little longer.

 

Or is the author just so deluded he doesn't see the contraditction here?

https://archive.is/NEG67/

There's some other funny conspirational parts about woke millenial staffers dictating the policy of major companies, but it's mostly boring cope and bootlicking.

 

THAT'S THE POST.

Every human instinctly knows that a very small minority living in unlimited luxury while half the world lives in squalor is an unforgivable evil that can't be forgiven.

Theory is cool and good, and you should study it as much as you're able to, but at the end of the day, you don't need to read any theory at all to understand why this is wrong. You just need the basic human empathy we're all born with.

A significant amount of people enjoy being one the priviliged few and have no sympathy for those screwed over. They still KNOW it's morally wrong, they just enjoy it. Most people don't think like that though, and have just been conditiond since childhood into believing contrived justifications of why it has to be this way or why change is dangerous if not outright impossible. In my experience, they all know the current capitalist system is unacceptable if you press them enough, even if they'd never use those words or think about it in those terms. It's just that none of us know what to do about it.

The entire point of both modern political and economic theory is to justify something we all intuitively understand isn't okay, which is probably part of why modern society is so fucked.

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