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[–] [email protected] 14 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (3 children)

See i totally agree with you there, when it first appeared I had the exact same thinking. But over time I think the very act of having it in a specific sub creates a spectator sport of people's worst moments.

Like if people wanted to self crit then making a post in c/chat raising what happened and having that growth and discussion there sounds great. But having specifically a sub for it feels like it's takes the organic growth and desire from the user to acknowledge their mistake away. Like instead of them going "I should go on c/chat and talk about this productively to address my mistake" it feels like a signposted expectation. Like have they learnt if they didn't decide for themselves? Like the initiative is important I feel. But that's just me literally strawmanning tbh.

Awwh I hate referencing soros like they aren't here but when I saw their post I didn't read it and think "good self crit" youre based again. I've seen that user a lot and they aren't a homophobe imo and it felt weird to see them essentially wearing that jacket to start a conversation BUT I'm not a gay man so it's not my place to decide that or make any comment on it so disregard my opinion there lmao. I dunno like with the incels from last week, I'd feel so bad if one of them felt compelled to self crit. I'd rather they make a c/chat and just have an organic conversation on that they've learnt on their own initiative not because c/selfcrit gave them the idea.

And I totally see your points too! I think I'll probably not engage with it myself but if it does help some positive growth in users then amazing and yes maybe it could be refocused to a more general critique of behaviour vs individuals unless it's specifically relevant to a personal experience?

[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 day ago (2 children)

I think you've put it a lot more concisely than my yapping in the post πŸ’ͺ

Like I waffle a lot cos I'm scared that if I don't try and vocalise every nuance I'll get dog piled so to be blunt and maybe a bit reductive: self crit doesn't feel like reform, it feels like public punishment/bullying behaviour/hazing and any catharsis from having confirmation someone has addressed their views feels soured by the public spectacle of it.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 day ago

I think I'll do the same, I try not to block anything if I can help it and just subscribe to ones I like but yeah.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 day ago

meow-hug hopefully i can extend how long it is before i disappoint everyone πŸ’ͺ

Tone: genuine but also irony poisoned

[–] [email protected] 11 points 1 day ago (2 children)

Fr and without tone it's a nightmare trying to tell if someone's angry or being ironic etc. I fucking hate it.

I regularly worry everyone hates me online because I can't tell their tone πŸ™ƒ

[–] [email protected] 28 points 1 day ago

Was your friend Paz from metal gear?

[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

Anime fell of a cliff for me :(

The objectification/sexualisation of women i think just hit a limit but occasionally some stuff I'd watch like Spy X family! That was so good, I need to watch season 2.

I was so psyched when I heard about Dandandan since everyone was like oh its amazing and a close friend even said it might help me get back into it and I thought oh wow. People I trust who know me say it's great.

I'm glad I read on here what to expect before I sat down to it. I don't need that rn.

[–] [email protected] 46 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Open source intelligence training? Does he mean being twitter addicted?

That doesn't count! catgirl-hiss

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 day ago

Exactly, we'll have our own collapse when can't make money on money or something. Whatever London does.

[–] [email protected] 17 points 2 days ago

Awwwh they're sending her back to the amerikkka

This is the worst ending sanji-pain

[–] [email protected] 17 points 2 days ago

That kamala would win xi

[–] [email protected] 11 points 2 days ago (3 children)

yea

Still we don't get poisoned by derailed trains on the reg which I'm always thankful for inshallah

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