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[–] [email protected] 3 points 11 hours ago

I'm the same. Like I like plane food. Because, whatever man, someone brought me a little parcel of food to eat. I'm stoked.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 11 hours ago

Gym allows me to safely play sports, run around after the dog, swim without feeling like drowning is inevitable etc

I'm not a gym nut by any stretch of the imagination but as I approach middle age I can't be as spontaneous with breaking into a run or lifting heavy things. Too many injuries and anatomical idiosyncracies have built up over the years.

The gym maintains all my muscles so I can use them when I want without injury. It's made a big difference going about 2-3 times a week for 45 min. Then I can do all the stuff I enjoy (mostly all outdoors) without worrying about a tweak or a joint blow out.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 day ago

I don't have a broad Australian accent if that helps. Think Cate Blanchett or Margot Robbie, not Steve Irwin.

[–] [email protected] 14 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Tiny woman here with big hulking male partner.

I love his stereotypical masculinity and physical strength. I like him to take charge in the bedroom as well.

But I'm more forthright with my views, with articulating a position, and with taking a conviction through to an outcome. He tends to equivocate or back down or second guess himself in moments of conflict or hardship.

I've stood up for him countless times, or helped him navigate through emotional complexity or points of conflict. I've held him when he's cried through loss. He's come to me in situations not knowing what to do, feeling small and broken.

We have pet names for each other and mine for him are not exactly butch, and he doesn't mind.

I'm no princess and don't mind getting my hands dirty, and I'll take on any physical challenge my little body will allow. But our strengths in our household and our relationship goes beyond our body size and gender.

We enjoy the stereotypical feminine and masculine traits about each other. But our closeness relies on the ability to find the strengths in each other that aren't assigned to our genders by society.

What I'd warn you against in your excitement over this realisation is that there are few women out there who will just want/need those softer attributes from you. To be a well rounded person, let alone an equal partner in a relationship, you need many different qualities. I'm not saying 'hit the gym', I'm saying strength is needed from both sides when things get hard. Strength comes in many forms - don't expect her to be the only one with it.

[–] [email protected] 11 points 2 days ago (2 children)

People usually assume I'm a bloke based on the way I write, but I'm just Australian.

[–] [email protected] 18 points 3 days ago (1 children)

YKK zips. On anything I've ever owned, they don't break. And I find that more durable clothing brands will use YKK zips.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 3 days ago

Overworked janitor who wanted to reduce the number of bathrooms they had to clean

[–] [email protected] 13 points 5 days ago* (last edited 5 days ago)

I would ask my mum what a word meant and she'd ask me the context I'd read/heard it in, and then ask me what I thought it meant. She taught me to break the word up into syllables to see if there were other words I did know the definition of that shared those syllables and whether I could work it out from there.

If I couldn't then I had to look it up in the dictionary - we had a big, heavy Collins one from memory. Big blue hardback.

I remember being annoyed and just whining that she should just tell me the definition. But it was clearly better for me to learn that way.

Edit: I just re read and you said bad words. Mum would usually give me a clipped, child friendly definition and advice not to repeat it in polite company.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 6 days ago

Yeah they're ridiculous. Half of this seems imagined or shower thoughts she's had.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 6 days ago

In Australia it was normal to sit up front with the cabbie and talk shit with them. Uber and Covid introduced the back seat thing here

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 week ago

When the videos you rented were always fuzzy at the sex and nudity scenes

 

I just watched the 2024 NY treat taskmaster episode.

Lenny Rush was a contestant aged 14; Lenny has dwarfism.

I'm a huge fan of this show and when I realised they had a child contestant (for the first time) with a physical disadvantage (they do have older contestants but that's always played for laughs), I wondered how they'd play it.

Spoilers from here on if you'd prefer not to know the result (not that that's what the show is about).

They didn't pander to his age. The tasks were as complicated as usual and the humour was the same.

They stuck to tasks where his height and mobility wouldn't be a disadvantage, and in the final task that usually would have all the contestants on stage, they swapped it so Greg and Alex did all the physical activity.

Lenny won, but completely on merit.

It was such a great example of how small adjustments can be made to include a person who is a genuinely great comic (I can't wait to see how his career develops) irrespective of his physical limitations.

I'm just chuffed that a TV show I loved, didn't pander and didn't discriminate. I laughed just as much and enjoyed the show just as much. No one I know watches this show, so that's why I'm sharing this here.

 

I think that's what it says but that's the error I'd say I get about 40% of the time when trying to view image posts. Is this a sync thing or something else?

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submitted 5 months ago* (last edited 5 months ago) by [email protected] to c/[email protected]
 

Maybe I'm the only one who didn't know this, but it only just occurred to me to try - and it worked!

I gave it needle size, ply and the garment size I wanted - as well as asking for Australian sizing and instructions (so you'll need to change that for whatever you're used to) and from what I could see it was pretty good. Haven't actually tried it but I may for a small project and see how it goes.

Edit to say that I'm very aware of chatgpts limits (I work in a field where it's being abused) but thought it was an interesting idea. Simplicity would be key. I'd consider myself a beginner this might be a good way of creating small simple projects. Or nonsense! I have bags of cheap wool that I got through my local buy nothing group so I'm always up for a bit of experimentation.

 
 

There's no rules for this sub yet so hopefully this is ok.

Nagi's website 'Recipe tin eats' is my go to for recipes. I've also bought her cookbook Dinner.

Instructions are really clear, lots of Australian specific brand references so you know what she means, and she always lists substitutions for when you don't have or can't find a particular ingredient.

All pages have a 'jump to recipe' button and option to scale for servings. Search is really good for just pulling in an ingredient and seeing what comes up.

She's also super responsive in the comments sections, and I highly recommend signing up for her email newsletter. Her dog Dozer features everywhere as he is chief taste tester.

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submitted 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago) by [email protected] to c/[email protected]
 

I wear UGG boots in winter because it's fucking cold.

I also wrap myself in a blanket on the couch, and have a lovely area rug so I don't have to walk on a cold floor. All these things are necessary to survive the winter; my house isn't well insulated.

The problem with all this, is that I build up a static charge. So when I go to pat my beautiful sweetheart of a dog, I zap him. It's audible and I'm sure, quite unpleasant. Often on the head. He obviously doesn't like that, I think he's taking it personally, and I feel awful. It completely cancels out the affection I'm trying to show him.

So the question for the Lemmy community is:

How do I discharge the static before I pat my dog? I have started shocking my partner (which he doesn't like, but accepts over the alternative), before patting my dog. But as he's out tonight, I have no human vessel to offer as tribute?

What can I touch in my house before patting my dog so that he doesn't receive a shock?

Edit: standard Australian house and furniture

Another edit: I'm all the sheets to the wind so the engineering advice is not sinking in. But I'm loving the immediate response that I'd never have gotten on Deaddit.

Again: I can't stop giggling at how helpful everyone is being and how short m, drunk and silly I am, in a house with apparently no metal

And again: I should probably take me and my baby to bed now, but a big thank you to everyone who replied. You've all been lovely. Lemmy is really a different space to ask these questions! I'll be trying out many of your suggestions over the weekend; big thanks from me and my boy x

Final: thanks to everyone who responded. I did try the kitchen tap again last night and this time it worked! Mustn't have built up enough charge when I tried the night I posted. I will still primarily zap my partner's leg as it's usually closer and doing it makes me laugh. It's important he understands where he fits in the household hierarchy as well. I also learnt that American houses are very different (screws and radiators everywhere!) so that was interesting too.

 

The Melbourne and Brisbane ones I've snooped in are great. Looks like a bot just posts one daily.

There's some very specific, niche convos going on and then some general 'I've walked the dog and done a load of laundry - what's everyone else up to?' comments and it's all quite fluid and friendly.

Might be a way of livening this place up?


I'm still in bed (I know) drinking coffee and scrolling lemmy. I can't see my dog but from the noises I can hear, he's almost certainly upside down in his bed and wriggling in the sun. I'll get up soon to make him breakfast (our house is on a different timeline when I'm not working) and then I think a walk in this sunshine is in order. Storms tonight and winter temps tomorrow, so if you can make use of 24 degrees, I suggest you do it!!

I'm going to go out to Crazy Janes in a week or so - does anyone know if it's like the one in Bowral?

 

I want to get back into creative writing, and for work I prefer to take handwritten notes (I have my own weird shorthand and it helps with retention). I'd also like the ability to write at night and not disturb my partner.

I don't want to go near iOS and the tablet would be primarily used for writing purposes.

Any recommendations or 'what to avoid's?

Sorry if wrong community, I couldn't find another relevant

 

I'm looking for recommendations for app based/nice mobile friendly sites (free ideally, but I'd consider subscription) that can help me keep across news in the tech/UX/design space.

I'm somewhat reliant on my LinkedIn (which is such a toilet and usually just ends up annoying me) for news/emerging issues etc that affect my industry - the main reason being I can scroll through and open things of interest.

I've subscribed to newsletters/bookmarked sites but I just never seem to get round to reading them. Countless emails just stack up sitting unread.

My theory is if it's something I can just look through on my phone when I'd otherwise be doomscrolling, that I'll be more likely to read things.

My work is in the content strategy/design space and I'm in Australia - so bonus points if it has relevance to me in that way. Thanks all!

Edit to add - I used to use Twitter too, but you know... Just no.

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