omfg
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I get aphasia before, during, and after migraines and with extreme distress.
Not being able to communicate is very frustrating. Yesterday afternoon, I couldn't find the words to ask my husband to please get my sunglasses from the front pocket of my purse. What are those things that help my eyes called? And the dark green bag I take around with me?
Matt relays a lot of detail and complicated ideas – I couldn't even ask for sunglasses. I can't imagine how much time and patience it must take for him to have a conversation of any substance at all.
I came back and read through an the rest of the comments, and I'm excited about the stuff LaGG_3 told you! Did you make a decision?
no, first I snuggle the dogs and then let them out so they can piss
then it's my turn
I have been absolutely trash about taking my vitamins lately, it's true. 😞
Sorry if it came across like I was implying that you should have commented there first – that was definitely not my intention! I actually considered making a post on my instance about it too, because I know some people primarily browse local stuff and would likely miss a post from another instance.
I just wanted to let you know it wasn't just you and maybe encourage you to comment there, too, in the hope that more of us mentioning in each post that we're having this problem might help lead to clues and a fix. 🙂
It could be really great for fall, and while I could never handle the anxiety owning an expensive piece would give me, this statement
I tend to get hyperfixated on a favorite article of clothing and wear it 3-5x per week until it disintegrates or is really inappropriate for the temperature.
makes me think you don't have that anxiety and would actually get your money's worth out of this thing.
Can you try it on?
Can you wait a week to decide?
It is very cute, and I bet you would look dapper af in it. How would it go with the rest of your wardrobe?
idk, I'm leaning "wait a week to make sure it's true love THEN DO IT" but I'm also not in the most stable or reasonable place psychologically rn so maybe don't listen to me
or maybe do - I can be the little fashion devil on one shoulder whispering encouragement while these angels cry out for you to behave and save your money 😂
Strangely enough, this has been happening to me when visiting hexbear.net through Firefox. (I haven't tried other instances or browsers.) It hasn't annoyed me enough (yet!) to look into it, but since you mentioned it, I wanted to chime in and say it's not just you.
Edit: I saw this last night as I was falling asleep and didn't reply then, and when I went looking for the post this morning to respond, I found one by another user on another instance with the same problem.
I think you're right.
I think it's something that would be traumatic regardless, but he has never truly been in danger before, and he knows he's not getting any younger – The IDEA that it really could happen to him Any Fucking Time is probably totally foreign and utterly terrifying.
Adding on that he's retraumatizing himself with the video repeatedly is a recipe for psychological disaster, which couldn't happen to a nicer person. Hopefully it's enough to keep him out of office, because The IDEA that someone with that level of unaddressed damage being in charge is pretty fuckin scary.
ugh, the way my stomach and heart dropped when I read that – can only imagine how that felt for you, I'm really sorry for your loss
even when you just lose time and temporary peace of mind, it sucks.
do you have a recent backup?