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I've been trying to avoid shopping on Amazon for several years. For computer parts, I look at Newegg. For pet stuff, Chewy.

But what about all the miscellaneous stuff? What other websites do you trust when it comes to shopping online?

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[–] [email protected] 35 points 1 year ago

Fun side story. My first job as a developer, I was working in a small porn company in downtown Chicago. We had just hired a few people, so being the only techy in the company it was on me to order a bunch of hardware from NewEgg.

It was supposed to be delivered days later. But no, they had an employee, just like a regular dude, hop in his car and deliver the order on the same day. This was probably 2006, so same day delivery way NOT a normal thing.

I rarely get to tell this story because I don't want people to know I started off my (somewhat long) software engineering career in porn and because who cares about this in today's world.

However, OP mentioned NewEgg, so it fits here.

[–] [email protected] 34 points 1 year ago (3 children)

Federated Amazon alternative coming soon?

[–] [email protected] 10 points 1 year ago (1 children)

That’s a brilliant idea.

[–] [email protected] 11 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Until you need to reach out support for a fake 1 tb microsd card

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

There would be reviews/earrings and In time certain federated instances would gain reputation for trust through some type of way. Certain instances could possibly due verification of some sort

[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Only if you love long shipping times. I don’t see how warehouses or in-house logistics could be federated when there is no house, so it’d essentially just be private sellers going through traditional shipping avenues like USPS/UPS/FedEx/DHL, etc

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 year ago (1 children)

That would be fine since itd take monopoly power away from amazon. Could possibly even leverage things like uber package delivery if someone in your city buys what you sell

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I can get behind this tbh. Rarely is anything so important that you need it next day. Businesses often need that, but privately, I don’t. I’m patient.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

Walmart, Target for brand name household items. BJs for bulk food. Etsy for miscellaneous small weird items, or eBay when I really want some sketchy Chinese knockoffs.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 year ago (2 children)
[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

Replacing Uber AND Amazon? And on top of that, this same country got sued a few years back for offering cheap, generic alternatives to expensive drugs. (Big pharma wasn't happy)

India is making a lot of good moves.

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[–] [email protected] 18 points 1 year ago (1 children)

This isn't really an answer to the question, but I just saw a Mastodon post about an online store that's opening this October called Artisans.coop

It seems to be a cooperatively owned Etsy alternative, (and I can only assume it's a response to whatever shenanigans went on between Etsy and Silicon Valley Bank.)

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 year ago (3 children)

I might check that out. I have a small Etsy shop that used to generate a bit of side income for me, mainly just enough to buy the occasional tool or some materials for personal projects, but Etsy has changed a lot since 2018. It's basically just eBay or Amazon with the veneer of "this is totally handmade." They pushed "free" shipping and decreased lead times, which undermines actual handmade products.

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[–] [email protected] 15 points 1 year ago

B&H Photo Video is a decent place but stock is always iffy. More of a consumer electronics store than newegg in my experience.

[–] [email protected] 14 points 1 year ago (2 children)

I'm not an Amazon fan either. But you may want to know that Newegg is owned by a Chinese company these days.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I have heard this and mostly avoid shopping there as a result. Is there a "new" NewEgg that's like old NewEgg?

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Closest thing would be MicroCenter. I believe they will ship, but their store locations are rare and spaced out. Closest one to me is almost an hour and a half away, but since the Fry's 10 minutes away closed it's my only other option besides BestBuy (barf).

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

RIP Fry’s

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

And their customer support is now shitty.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 year ago (4 children)

For a lot of consumer electronics (and of course camera and video) I go with B&H

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

They have some kick ass bundles on occasion too. A few months back I snagged a DaVinci Resolve Speed Editor and Studio license key for like $50 more than just the license key itself. I thought that piece of hardware would be a cheap gimmick but it’s a well built piece of kit and an integral part of my workflow now.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

I try to go with b&h when I can. Their store in Manhattan is awesome too

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[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 year ago

If it's something I know I want to buy from a specific brand, I'd rather just buy from the vendor directly if that's an option.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 year ago (2 children)
[–] [email protected] 11 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Unsure if you're aware, but Abe Books is a subsidiary of Amazon. Check it out under their "About Us" page.

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[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Abe Books was acquired by Amazon in 2008. Consider Alibris or Thrift books.

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[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 year ago (1 children)

A combination of Micro Center, FS.com, and eBay for computer parts. Anything worth researching I'll try and buy direct from the manufacturer.

Dumb cheap stuff still goes to Amazon because if I need a $2 female USB-B to male USB-C adaptor or something like that I'm not willing to go through more than about 5 mins of searching and I know there's some random blob of letters company on the Amazon marketplace that will give me something that functions. I definitely wait until I have something critical or reach $30+ before actually placing the order though.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 year ago

Have you tried Monoprice? It's been a while since I've had to order anything from them but they were always my goto for cables, adaptors, etc.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 year ago (4 children)

eBay! Craigslist!

Craigslist is more fun but more limited. eBay for the things I can't find on CL. Both really enable you to shop locally too which is excellent

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[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 year ago

In Belgium & Netherlands, we have an alternative called Bol. I use it, but I wonder how much more ethical it is in the end.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago

For painters, dickblick.com sells Liquitex and Golden paint cheaper than Amazon.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago (3 children)

I know it's not feasible for everyone, or even most people, but I just generally avoid shopping online as much as possible.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago (2 children)

I’ve come to the conclusion that buying things online is really not better than shopping in person most of the time.

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[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

I have gone to the source and bought off the top 4-5 Chinese sites. Slow, but so far no issues.

Walmart occasionally, but their website is terrible and selection limited.

Microcenter for pc parts.

eBay for a few things.

Adorama and the other big NY camera seller (edit: B&H) often have deals on things like laptops.

Rock auto for car parts. Car-part.com for used car parts when my wife hits yet another deer.

Amazon, still way too much.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

It depends on what you're trying to buy. For CDs and Vinyl I go with Discogs, usually. There's also Mllusicstack, though I haven't gotten around to trying it yet.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

leboncoin.fr I'm in France. It's our local craigslist.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

I use Ebay as an alternative for some purchases, but I primarily use Amazon.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

I use Target most, I think. For random household stuff I can’t get through Target I use Meijer (it’s a grocery+ store) or the local Ace Hardware and do same day pickup.

Honestly those cover probably 75% of purchases. Everything else I google until I find what I want, then spend a couple hours trying to decide if the site is legit or if I can find the manufacturer direct.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

I really don't like amazon. They are a scummy business that try to exploit their workers as much as possible. But jesus it's hard to find competition.. I sometimes end up using Amazon as it's mostly the less expensive choise unfortunately. My sister buys loads of books from there and I get it. They got better prices for that as well..

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

Wayfair occasionally

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

eBay for general stuff, ABE Books for... well books and HMV/Zavvi for films.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

You know that abebooks is a subsidiary of Amazon, right? As is ZVAB in Europe. They really have the market by the reins.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

I love Chewy! I also like to buy gifts and handmade items on Etsy.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

Interestingly Amazon is almost non existent in Switzerland. I think they didn't ship or only with high fees in the first years so it never became famous. We have our own solutions like galaxus.ch or brack.ch. I only ordered twice on Amazon and that just because the products were not available in any other shop.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

Target. Best Buy. Walmart, if I have to. The Shop app is pretty good.

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