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submitted 4 months ago by [email protected] to c/[email protected]

My cat needed to be euthanised last month, and I just received her ashes. They came with a round black sticker. What’s the purpose of this sticker?

They mentioned my chosen urn was suitable for sprinkling cremains (I don’t plan to do that) – maybe it’s related to that?

Thanks.

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[-] [email protected] 102 points 4 months ago
[-] [email protected] 21 points 4 months ago

Why are not more people talking about this????

[-] [email protected] 13 points 4 months ago

Not tov start another debate about the color of something online, but that looks very much like an inventory sticker. The blue ones are much lighter blue than that. That is a black sticker, and the glare bouncing off of it makes it look lighter

[-] [email protected] 12 points 4 months ago
[-] [email protected] 10 points 4 months ago

Color theory strikes again. It's blue in the photo but the sticker is probably black irl to your eyes.

[-] [email protected] 1 points 4 months ago

Don't bring colorism into this debate

[-] [email protected] 2 points 4 months ago

Colorism matters. But only in art....man there isn't any good way to say that

[-] [email protected] 6 points 4 months ago

bro is pretending he doesn't know how reflections work

[-] [email protected] 1 points 4 months ago

It’s definitely black. It has a bit of sheen and looks dark blue in the photo because of that.

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[-] [email protected] 53 points 4 months ago

Sorry for your loss. I went through this myself today. I'm devastated.

[-] [email protected] 31 points 4 months ago

I’m so sorry. That’s really hard. I hope you’re okay.

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[-] [email protected] 37 points 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago)

To me it looks like a generic sticker. Does the backing of the sticker look like it was cut off of a strip of stickers? Or maybe a sheet

https://www.amazon.ca/Round-Color-Coding-Sticker-Labels/dp/B07V67XHMB

I could see it as being a part of some internal identification system they use. To keep track of pets, urns, or what is being worked on a particular day. Maybe which urns have been reserved and which are free to use.

What I think may have happened

  1. Someone cut the stickers and left it on top of whatever they were supposed to identify, for someone else to use later

  2. It was never used or needed, and fell in with the stuff that was sent to you

Best way to confirm would be to ask, I'm sure they wouldn't mind confirming!

Sorry for your loss

[-] [email protected] 10 points 4 months ago

You could be right. That would make sense.

Thank you!

[-] [email protected] 5 points 4 months ago

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[-] [email protected] 1 points 4 months ago

If you stick it to something and then peel it off, does it leave a symbol? They have tamper detection stickers that leave a design when peeled off but they may not have used it on yours as it appears to be a fabric.

[-] [email protected] 2 points 4 months ago

It does not. It’s paper, with a bit of a sheen.

I think the suggestions it’s an inventory sticker that was accidentally included make the most sense.

[-] [email protected] 34 points 4 months ago

Try to shine strong flaslight trough it, if you'll see traces of wire it's a RFID/NFC sticker. Those are used for identification.

[-] [email protected] 21 points 4 months ago

that looks like a NFC sticker I wonder if they used it for identification. I use stickers like these all the time to program devices around my home.

[-] [email protected] 6 points 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago)

Is there a way I can tell? I’m pretty techy, but not familiar with that technology. It looks like a regular black sticker to me, and feels like it has a smooth finish. I tried looking that up and get nothing but sites trying to sell me nfc stickers.

[-] [email protected] 12 points 4 months ago

NFC sticker would have a coil of wire as the antenna around a little bump in the middle which is the chip. https://www.google.com/search?tbm=isch&q=nfc+sticker

[-] [email protected] 4 points 4 months ago

It doesn’t.

[-] [email protected] 4 points 4 months ago

Your phone should be able to detect it.

[-] [email protected] 2 points 4 months ago
[-] [email protected] 2 points 4 months ago

Then it's not NFC, you would be able to hold it to the light and see a coil inside

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[-] [email protected] 11 points 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago)

I think you put it on the bottom of the urn and write your pet's name on it. I have four tiny urns on my bookcase now and labeling them has proved important.

Sorry for your loss.

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[-] [email protected] 10 points 4 months ago

Damn I read "my cat needed to be enthusiased and I just received her ashes" and though WTF did you do to make her so excited?

side note: enthusiased is not an english word but in greek (ενθουσιασμενος) it makes sense and it translates to "excited"

[-] [email protected] 6 points 4 months ago

It would be “enthused” in English

[-] [email protected] 2 points 4 months ago

huh, TIL, thanks

[-] [email protected] 9 points 4 months ago
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[-] [email protected] 6 points 4 months ago

What size is the sticker? All I can think is it would be used as a way to help seal the urn/container? If you got the urn from a veterinarian you could reach out to them and ask, maybe it was included accidentally?

[-] [email protected] 4 points 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago)

The container had its own seal. The sticker is about an inch in diameter.

e: the seal on the container wasn’t like the sticker. It was rectangular.

e2: since my package was meant for sprinkling, I’m wondering if I’m supposed to mark the spot with this sticker? Like is that a thing one does?

[-] [email protected] 4 points 4 months ago
[-] [email protected] 2 points 4 months ago

I’ll probably do that, thanks!

[-] [email protected] 4 points 4 months ago

Could it be for the bottom of the urn to write something with marker or pen?

My condolences

[-] [email protected] 2 points 4 months ago

I doubt this is relevant but my mind goes to the book Treasure Island

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Black_Spot_(Treasure_Island)

The Black Spot is a literary device invented by Robert Louis Stevenson for his novel Treasure Island (serialized 1881–82, published as a book in 1883).

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