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[–] [email protected] 36 points 1 month ago (1 children)

I love seeing familiar faces. It’s like talking to your neighbors. I feel it’s an investment. :)

[–] [email protected] 19 points 1 month ago

I share your sentiment. I feel optimistically productive while posting, at least some of the time

[–] [email protected] 34 points 1 month ago

I check in throughout the day and scroll a little when I get in-between sorts of moments, also watching for notifications. It's still just fitting into my regular day though, a couple minutes here, a couple minutes there.

It's actually a lot better than reddit for that, since there isn't as much activity, so I seldom get sucked deeply in like you can with something with endless content.

[–] [email protected] 29 points 1 month ago

What else am I supposed to do at work?

[–] [email protected] 19 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (3 children)

I have a very irregular work schedule, resulting in a lot of free time punctuated by periods of intense crunch. It's not unusual for me to have a few weeks at a time just empty of work.

I post my hobby/sidegig tabletop commission projects, since I'd have been working on them even without Lemmy. Then since in real life I come across many odd things in my traveling, I'll make sure to snap some photos.

Then I just have a daily habit of browsing certain sites and feeds related to various Lemmy communities and linking to Lemmy whatever catches my eye.

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[–] [email protected] 18 points 1 month ago (1 children)

A while ago, I had A LOT of free time to shitpost on social media, and I was beginning to miss it.

I don't have as much time anymore. 😭

[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 month ago

I'm sorry for your loss.

Claw that free time back.

[–] [email protected] 18 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Recovering from cancer, no job, no friends, too much time.

[–] [email protected] 10 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Congratulations on the first mark! That's great to hear.

How much longer in your recovery regimen?

Are you pretty active again?

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 month ago (2 children)

Thank you so much! I just got news last week that I’m in full remission (although still incurable because myeloma) and my blood tests are “pristine”. Still suffering from extreme post-chemo fatigue, both mental and physical. It is what it is, better than the alternative.

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[–] [email protected] 17 points 1 month ago (1 children)

my job doesn't pay me enough to care about it for the entire time i'm working

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 month ago

Nice, here's to hoping you can whittle down the few hours you are not on Lemmy even further.

[–] [email protected] 15 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 19 points 1 month ago

The best XKCD

[–] [email protected] 14 points 1 month ago (1 children)

I have a bad habit of leaving comments when I want to leave none ever. So comments >0 is too many by my own reckoning. I have the free time because depression. I make these comments because I've lost my self control in that respect

[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 month ago (2 children)

I seem to compulsively leave comments as well, I think they help give body to the community.

Its good Lemmy work

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[–] [email protected] 13 points 1 month ago

This is my go-to "too long to stare at the wall, but not long enough to play a phone game" time waster.

[–] [email protected] 12 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (1 children)

Other than some jerks that I've blocked, being on here reminds me of the old / early days of reddit...before it became Spez's money mill. I find Lemmy to be fairly informative and entertaining. We have a long way to go before becoming a substantial archive of knowledge, but it's kind of exciting to see it slowly grow.

As for having free time: I browse Lemmy while watching baseball games and during various points of down-time throughout the day / week.

[–] [email protected] 10 points 1 month ago (3 children)

I agree about Lemmy feeling like the early days of Reddit, I'm much more meaningfully engaged here than most of my time on reddit.

I feel like I'm actually talking to people here.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Same. While I wish the user base was larger, I've been impressed with some of the answers people have provided to folks needing advice. Also, some of the discussions around news and current events are insightful / thought-provoking.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 month ago

So much of this! Someone made a comment about an Ovaltine decoder ring and i laugh about that at least once per week.

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[–] [email protected] 12 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

I clean fast food places as my job and it doesn't take more than a few seconds to see a meme and make a joke about it when I am waiting on a bucket to fill or while on lunch/a break even when I am actually at work. Shit, I can post with one hand while taking out the garbage.

[–] [email protected] 12 points 1 month ago (1 children)

I've been on summer break since May. Started back Monday and I'm very very angry with our new 'leadership' team, so I spend every possible minute browsing my phone. My other activity is deciding on the words I'll say and what song will play as i drop a match behind me on my way out.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 month ago

"Oh, I forgot..."

drops match

Cue "It's getting boring by the sea" by blood red shoes.

That's a good continual conundrum.

Happy judgments to you.

[–] [email protected] 11 points 1 month ago

Post on company time 😉

[–] [email protected] 11 points 1 month ago (1 children)

I quit work when I was 35 and am now 58 (FIRE long before it became a thing and I didn't even consider grifting off the life choice) . I dont consider myself prolific but I have time to post if I wish.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 month ago

That is fire. Congrats.

Why grift after you already have what you need after all?

[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 month ago

My job mostly entails me working in a ticketing system all day. When I'm all caught up and there's no backlog of tickets, I usually kill time hanging out here while I wait for more to come in.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 month ago (2 children)

The key isn't in having too much time, it's having no thought going into my comment that i can rapid fire into the crowd.

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[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 month ago (2 children)

With mobile apps it's easy to squeeze a 5 minutes there and there, and I like the Lemmy community overall. Its size makes it so there's more opportunities to provide valuable comments. I'm a software engineer so it's pretty mentally intensive so I tend to interleave entertainment and work a lot.

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[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 month ago

I get bored easily and had a huge Reddit addiction that I'm slowly weaning off of with Lemmy. Now I mix my time between Lemmy, online Manga, and doing little projects on my phone.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 month ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 month ago (1 children)

If you're paid to do what you love, you'll never work a day in your life.

Commendable

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

I won't have what I love tainted by employer/customer expectations.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 month ago

I have a job where I don’t do anything ninety-seven percent of the time but I need to be ready for the three percent when shit hits the wall.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 month ago (6 children)

Thoracic spinal damage is super rare. The thoracic region is the area where your ribs connect. It isn't like the lumbar spine you likely associate with back problems. It usually requires external sources of traumatic injury to cause problems. Unlike typical back problems, thoracic damage can greatly impact posture; not just in the sense of 'hold your shoulders back and don't slouch' bad posture. This is more like, what you associate with bad posture is somewhat related to fatigue, but you're likely unaware of how much continuous strength you actually have that underpins your ability to remain upright. These muscles are still engaged even when you are reclining above around a 45° angle, just to a lesser extent, and certainly in use while sitting upright or standing. When the thoracic spinal region is chronically damaged, holding posture above 45° can become like lifting a 1 kg dumbbell in your outstretched arm at shoulder height. I can hold posture and situp or stand, but it hurts from the moment I start. By 30 minutes it is painful enough for me to lose the focus to read and comprehend well. By 1 hour in, I'm unable to think clearly over the background noise of the pain. Taking pain meds and muscle relaxers doesn't change anything about my condition. It just makes me care less or less self aware. I am here most often because there is a position I can sit in that allows me to fully relax my back while holding a phone. I spend my up time doing other things, I can sit with my computer in bed longer or hold up a novel size book okay. This is a profoundly lonely existence to deal with long term. I'm often hurting too much to really talk anyways. I need the filter of text to piece my thoughts together and feel like I am myself. In a lot of ways I let this place fill a fundamental social need. I don't expect people to understand. I simply have no access to escape this situation and be myself.

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[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 month ago (1 children)

They don't pay me enough at my job so I gotta find something to do while they aren't paying me enough to do my job.

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[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 month ago

I work from my phone so it's easy to check Lemmy continuously.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 month ago (1 children)

I'm constantly bored. So I start scrolling, comment on something, get worked up in an argument, then post/comment somewhere else to cool down. Rinse and repeat

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[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 month ago

I got on Lemmy between jobs after my previous company had multiple rounds of layoffs (turns out the financials were pretty bad). I had some ability to hang out and wait for a job that I really wanted and spent a lot of free time online until I found one. The new job has tons of downtime waiting to be needed where I either read books or go online, so a fair amount of Lemmy there too.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 month ago

I work in an office

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

Slow days at the office, but not slow enough to comfortably get into a game. I go home and do the same thing because I'm too tired to do anything else after pretending to be busy for 8 hours.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 month ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 month ago

The long, frantic hours of waiting for someone to respond. Always extremely frustrating.

Best of luck on the job hunt

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 month ago (1 children)

I don't. But I have many periods of five idle minutes to spare, and I sort by new as default.

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[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (1 children)

If I spend more than 15 minutes, not distracted, with my own thoughts, I get sad.

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[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Slow at work, what else am I gonna do? Work?

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[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 month ago (1 children)

My job is mostly only busy first thing in the morning. I go around and swap out empty containers for full ones. Then I have to refill the empties. The machine takes an hour to run, so that leaves me a bunch of downtime.

At night, I'll make a bunch of posts ahead of time while I watch TV and save the drafts so I can post them quick in the morning before I head off to work. Some days I'll get too much content, and others nothing, so I have about a week's buffer of post content.

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[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 month ago

I'm unemployed, I don't have friends, girlfriend or any resemblance of social life.

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