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Question about assplay (cw: butt stuff, blood) (hexbear.net)

submitted 2 months ago by [email protected] to c/[email protected]

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So sex ed was really bad where I'm from and I've had to figure a lot of shit out by trial and error. I've been enjoying experimenting with anal for a while now but I've reached a point where, after a longer session with one of my larger toys, there's sometimes a little blood. Never like flowing blood just when I pass the excess lube afterwards it's comes out pink. This has happened a few times but I don't feel any lasting effects. My bowel movements afterward have been fine. Should I be worried about this? Is any blood too much or am I fine?

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[–] [email protected] 21 points 2 months ago

probably means you should take it slightly easier, but I'm still alive for whatever that's worth

[–] [email protected] 20 points 2 months ago (1 children)

More (gradual) stretching, going more gently especially during warmup, using more lube, switching to a better lube, reapplying lube if it's waterbased (essentially it should be waterbasedif you're using most toys) and you haven't reapplied for a while - any of these might be a solution.

There's nothing much to worry about and it's not uncommon. It's likely just because of a very minor skin tear.

As the person below mentioned, it could be a haemorrhoid. You can have a small painless one that are internal that you wouldn't be able to notice without a doctor inspecting it. Again, nothing much to worry about and not uncommon.

[–] [email protected] 16 points 2 months ago (1 children)

using more lube

this

[–] [email protected] 12 points 2 months ago

Hemorrhoids maybe? Sometimes I get some blood in my poop and that's what I usually chalk it up to.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 2 months ago

Has happened to me and I’ve been fine.
I’m not a doctor so I can’t say for sure, but I think you are fine, I just wouldn’t do it for a bit.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 months ago

usually nothing to worry about and can come with the territory of bigger toys. only reason to be concerned is if it persisted for a week or more. take a few days off and keep ur butt clean and you'll be fine