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Chronic Illness

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A community/support group for chronically ill people. While anyone is welcome, our number one priority is keeping this a safe space for chronically ill people.

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  4. No denialism or minimisation This applies challenges faced by chronically ill people.

  5. No psychosomatising psychosomatisation is a tool used by insurance companies and governments to blame physical illnesses on mental problems, and thereby saving money by not paying benefits. There is no concrete proof psychosomatic or functional disease exists with the vast majority of historical diagnoses turning out to be biomedical illnesses medicine has not discovered yet. Psychosomatics is rooted in misogyny, and consisted up until very recently of blaming women’s health complaints on “hysteria”.

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[–] [email protected] 52 points 2 weeks ago (3 children)

I cannot handle the random bold words, I just cannot

[–] [email protected] 4 points 2 weeks ago

Reminds me of the bolding in comic book speech

[–] [email protected] -1 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)

Theyre meant to deliver emphasis on the words so you don't read it all monotone in your head. For example maybe "wow, okay. RUDE" but all bold comes off as being too aggressive. I personally think it enhances the post. Also, if you can't handle them, down vote and move on.

[–] [email protected] 26 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) (2 children)

I mean, I know that the bold font is meant to add emphasis, and that's exactly the problem. You can only emphasize so many words in a sentence before it starts to grate on your readers' nerves.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 weeks ago

I kinda like it. I completely understand why others wouldn't, but I like getting an insight into how the author would say the sentence. My own natural stress falls very differently to the bold words.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 weeks ago

I didn’t notice until you said something. Just kind of read it as if it was spoken.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I feel like it's of some import to point out that stuff like that makes writing less accessible for some neurodivergent people. I know I had trouble reading it.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 week ago

Ironically, it's probably a neruo-divergent person writing it though lol.

[–] [email protected] 19 points 2 weeks ago

“Only accepting positive feedback” is going to find its way into my vocabulary.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 2 weeks ago

Alopecia is treason

[–] [email protected] 6 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago)

Thanks body! Ur doing a great job. Don’t blame me when I die at 42 though, that’s on you xxx

[–] [email protected] 5 points 2 weeks ago
[–] [email protected] 5 points 2 weeks ago

I feel personally attacked. Not by the meme, but I feel seen nonetheless.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 5 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) (1 children)

I see this and another comment saying "tja" and both have upvotes. However, I don't understand the ... Joke? Is it a joke? Or a reference?

Any enlightenment would be very much appreciated.

edit: Just noticed the title of this post is also "tja." Still don't get it.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)

It's a German expression. Mostly used to comment on a negative situation in a slightly disparaging way while recognising the negativity and futility. The closest English word is "well".

I couldn't think of a fitting title.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 4 days ago

I think welp would fit even a bit better, but it's basically the same as well

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 weeks ago (3 children)

Thanks for the information!

Does this also apply to "tjena"?

[–] [email protected] 8 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) (2 children)

In Swedish, ”tja” is an informal greeting, and so is ”tjena”. A usual exchange at the checkout of my local grocery store would be:
”Tja!”
”Tjena!”
”Kvitto?” (Receipt?)
”Nej tack” (No thanks)
While trying not to make eye contact because we don’t do that here.

(Btw, the German and Swedish ”tja” are pronounced differently, so this joke works only in text.)

[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 weeks ago

That was educational. Thank you for the response.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 weeks ago

I also sant to add that the Swedish "tja" can also be used in the same way as the German "tja", mening "well..."

[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 weeks ago

German here. Never heard of it

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 weeks ago

Seems like a mix between the word tja and the english city Jena just because

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 weeks ago