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Like others, I came over when Reddit was banning 3rd party apps. Many communities were being started and I wanted to help. So I chose one community to form here and try and grow. And we did! There was a time a short while in the little KC Chiefs community was in the top 100 communities on Lemmy world. I knew that wouldn’t last that we would be outpaced by many more broad appeal communities but I didn’t predict the reverse in engagement growth that has come. Stagnation sure, I didn’t think Lemmy was going to surpass reddit for a long while yet, but not the barren communities of today. Meme communities and the “small gripe” adjacent communities are doing fine, but it seems all others have shrunk. I tried to keep the Kerbal Space Program community active for a bit but had to return to the official forums and even subreddit for discussion. The post I made in the Go community here remains the only post in the community.

A platform led by a CEO who edits comments of users, lies about other professionals and then double downs on the lie when proven to be a liar can’t be trusted. And in general I prefer the decentralized open source backbone of Lemmy to the ad ridden, rage bait and bug filled Reddit. I’d love for this to be my full time home for discussing my niche interests but that’s not possible without others engaging with the content.

I posted a lot in the beginning, tried to comment a lot too but now it feels like talking to myself when I make a new post in the community I started and get few or no responses. What can be done? Community specific advice is nice, but I’m looking more for Lemmy World level solutions as I’m sure there’s many many other niche communities I’m not apart of experiencing the same thing.

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[–] [email protected] 135 points 1 year ago (8 children)

IMO, where lemmy is right now. Niche communities are counter productive. Especially as there is often 3 times the same niche communities on 3 different instances.

Try to talk about your niche content in a larger community. Talk about Oshi no ko in a generic manga/anime community. Try to talk about Kult RPG in a generic rpg community. Talk about french politics in a general France/Europe community.

Today we have generic community with like 10 posts a day and under them a bunch of niches with a post per week. Uf you move these posts to the general community above you now get 15 posts a day.

Content is what drags users, not yet another niche community.

Lemmy is still on the verge of usability, there is few very engaged user who make a large fraction of the content. Keeping it alive, but if in 6 month they have less time some /c will deperish

[–] [email protected] 10 points 1 year ago (3 children)

Unfortunately some niches don’t fit with other, larger communities. Simracing, for example, makes no sense in gaming communities, but also makes no sense in car communities.

I’m spending more and more time back on Reddit because that’s where the community is. Otherwise it’s just empty with the occasional post here.

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[–] [email protected] 78 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Continue to spread Lemmy on other sites. Post Lemmy memes on Reddit, Instagram, etc. and be sure to include the original Lemmy link.

[–] Dudewitbow 55 points 1 year ago (2 children)

part of the reason why some communities stick and some dont is because the type of people who were willing to jump to lemmy. Users who jumped to lemmy generally were more tech forward, privacy forward, or was part of some ostracized community not very welcome on reddit, as the typical casual user does not care for site politics.

its really hard to start a small community with one main poster, and requires a few to get the ball rolling. its a game of converting those in the niche communities to make the jump

[–] [email protected] 10 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

I personally made the jump, caz I'm trying to be more conscious about my digital life. When I hopped on here, asked this and that, read/wrote comments, the community was just so much better (still is). This wholesome, selfless, helpful bunch in one place. I really can't care about not being a terraria fandom alive here (one of my most active subs for a while). I stay for the people.

also lemmy memes suck, wtf guys, post funny things pls

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[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Yeah I figured go/baduk would be a hard community to start, which is one of the reasons I chose the Chiefs.

But this isn’t just the difficulty of growing a community from a small start, this is seeing a community grow then shrink. Going through many niche communities the post rate and comment rate seems down across the board, outside of the biggest communities on the site. Combatting a shrinking community seems even more difficult than growing from a small start.

[–] [email protected] 10 points 1 year ago

still part of the network effect – some users were willing to give up Reddit and start a new community on Lemmy but the rest of the community stayed behind – the ones heading back to Reddit are more about the community than about where it’s located

[–] [email protected] 52 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (6 children)
[–] [email protected] 13 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

The sorting algorithm changes are what I've been waiting for forever. A bit disappointed it's taking so long. I basically never see many communities I'm subbed to. I miss having a local city community. It has me constantly thinking of just dealing with Reddit's bullshit, cause if it's not big news or memes, Lemmy ain't cutting it.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 year ago

The sorting algorithm changes are what I’ve been waiting for forever. A bit disappointed it’s taking so long. I basically never see many communities I’m subbed to.

On that last point, are those communities fairly active? I've noticed similar but when I check the communities I'm subscribed to, it turns out it's largely because they're less active than those communities I'm seeing more posts from.

Even more apparent when I switch to viewing only my subscribed communities feed.

[–] [email protected] 10 points 1 year ago

I would also like a sort that favours posts on subbed communities, while still browsing 'everything'

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[–] [email protected] 48 points 1 year ago (2 children)

There are a few niche communities that are doing well here. The Trekkies that meme over at risa, the NCD crowd and their Military-Industrial Complex fetish, and the meme community in general is fairly healthy and active.

But I agree with you that there isn't that critical mass that Reddit has that allows organic niche growth to occur. We're simply too small. Even small Reddit communities like /r/Kenshi (131k) or /r/Factorio (347k) have more subscribers than the entirety of all Lemmy instances (60k). It's impossible to compete when there is such a mismatch of scale, especially against behemoths like /r/funny with subscriber bases in the millions.

What can we do? Just keep making this place our home. Post interesting things you find on the Internet, copypasta memes, that sort of stuff. I don't know if it'll grow it but if enough of us do this it won't stagnate.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 year ago

Risa and other meme subs are perhaps a bit too successful. I already unsubscribed from one men’s sub and am thinking about risa because they just dominate my feed too much.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 year ago

Risa is something else at the moment lol.. gee wilikers

Go them!

[–] [email protected] 42 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I'm sole mod (not the original creator, but took over when they went awol) for the knitting community at [email protected], and I do my best to contribute a lot to the cross stitch & embroidery one at [email protected] too. This is coming from a history of running various niche online groups. So a few things I would advise:

  • First, just accept that some topics are too niche. They were too niche for Reddit as well, at one point. People got overexcited and wanted to mark their territory by setting up a ton of communities when they were new to Lemmy, but reality doesn't work that way and a lot of those spaces just aren't needed. We'd be better served combining posts from these into slightly more general combined communities, and perhaps leaving a sticky post in the tiny niche ones letting everyone know where to head to for that topic.

But if your topic is big enough to in theory get decent traction:

  • Be grateful for what users you do have. You said you sometimes get "few" replies, so make sure you're getting to know those people and replying to them and continuing the conversation where appropriate. You don't need a lot of users, you just need a few engaged ones to make for a nice community.

  • Recruit your friends. You're a Chiefs fan, you probably know other Chiefs fans. Get them interested.

  • Drop your community link wherever its relevant. People don't like having to put effort into finding new communities but if they just happen to come across mention of it, they'll click. Obviously I'm not saying spam, but there are plenty of sports fans here and it's bound to come up in conversation.

  • Crosspost. Any posts you make to a Chiefs community are probably also relevant to the wider NFL communities or maybe fantasy football players. And again this just gives more people the chance to stumble across the fact that you exist.

Ok these next couple are more involved, but they do work well!

  • Consider Mastodon. I have a craft-focused account there too, and if I have a question about knitting or cross stitch or whatever then the more answers I can get the better, right? So I use the fact that we can post from Mastodon, to a Lemmy community, combining the replies from both audiences in one thread. Example of what I mean here.

  • Create value. Could be by posting pillar content that's actually useful (in your case could be some kind of statistical analysis, we all know the football nerds love it, but whatever will be long-term useful / interesting to your audience). Or it could be a regular community event or something ("predict the Chiefs wins/losses for the upcoming season and win something, etc etc).

  • Ask your existing users what they'd like to see from the community. Some things you try will hit and some will miss, but getting feedback is going to up your chances!

That's everything off the top of my head and it's already a wall of text so I'll stop there. It is absolutely difficult to be a mod, it can be a lot of work to get to the point of just having an active community that doesn't need your input to keep rolling. But if your community see you trying, I think that goes a long way. Hope some of this was helpful!

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I really like the mastodon suggestion, thank you!

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 year ago

Happy to help! I know it sounds kind of weird, posting from another platform. But if you look at it less as "how can I make MY community with MY name on it the BEST so everyone will worship ME" and more "how can I actually bring people together over a shared topic" it makes a lot of sense :)

I do wish the integration was a bit better though. It's got its quirks, to put it mildly!

[–] [email protected] 37 points 1 year ago (3 children)

I really just think the reddit/lemmy structure isn't very suited to small communities.

For small communities we should have a platform structured like a traditional web forum with flat threads and thread bumping. This causes people to get endless streams of discussion even with relatively few users.

[–] [email protected] 19 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

Tags would be good. Rather than crossposting, tag your post in up to 5 communities. A photo of a bird might be tagged in Nature Photography, Birds, Animals, and horses.

If a the moderator of c/horses decides the submission is not apropriate, they can un-tag themselves. If all communities un-tag themselves, the submission is 'orphaned' its no longer visible in any C, but still exists in the OPs profile.

The user cannot re-tag c/horses, but can add a new tag if they want. If our man keeps tagging birds as horses, then they might be banned from submitting to the horse tag for a period.

This allows one post to be visible over many communities without crossposting, reposting, or having related overheads of duplication.

If the user does not want to be harrased by ornithologists arguing over whether they think its a western red breasted great titwarbler or a northern red breasted lesser titwarbler, they may also untag their submission from c/birds

Tags on a submission would be visible to users, so if I find this cool titwarbler photo through the nature photography C, but I want to see more titwarblers, I might check out c/birds, or c/horses.

Some of the larger Cs might opt-out of the multiple tag system, allowing submissions only if theirs is the only C tagged.

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[–] [email protected] 14 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Thread bumping would help a lot actually!

[–] [email protected] 18 points 1 year ago

Yes. In my teenage years, these kinds of web forums were the norm, now they are almost as outdated as Usenet or mailing lists. I think that is a shame because I found web forums utterly addictive while on reddit and lemmy I tend to quickly run out of things to read.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 year ago

"new comments" sort is basically that.

[–] [email protected] 31 points 1 year ago (3 children)

Once scaled sort arrives on Lemmy, smaller communities will be ranked higher and not knocked out by the meme communities and stuff like that.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Is there an ETA for that feature?

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[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 year ago

Counting down the days!

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[–] [email protected] 25 points 1 year ago

Anyone that was around while Reddit was growing will remember that there were few subreddits to begin with. I think fediverse needs that to happen before expanding.

I don’t know how to fix it. Maybe sub-feddits need to be pruned if they aren’t thriving. Maybe tags in titles would be more helpful until they have enough content to warrant their on category.

[–] [email protected] 21 points 1 year ago (1 children)

There's always going to be an activity difference given the userbase gap, but it's a mistake imho to see a slow-paced community as "dead". As long as it has active subscribers, any post will get votes and comments from people who see it, even if it's been weeks or months since the last post in that community. Slower-paced, but still there for whatever content gets posted.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I agree with this, but I think many subscribers are from accounts that are no longer active.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 year ago

I'm not sure if the mod tools make this easier, but you could measure a community's engagement by taking the total number of upvotes/downvotes comments for all posts, and dividing by the number of subscribers in the community. This would at least be a measurement to quantify a decline or steady state over time. Obviously perception matters, if people feel like a community is dead, they'll leave, and it'll be a self fulfilling prophecy.

[–] [email protected] 20 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Niche communities either need to cohere on their own, or live on a site that's large enough to sustain them. Spreading activity over too many communities/mags/subs/channels/whatever will make things seem even less active, and will make participation less appealing. People will always drop out, and if people don't "drop in" through search or discovery, activity obviously can only go down.

Meanwhile the fediverse has other issues - it is inherently "techy" and most major selling points are things "casuals" just don't give a shit about. Also, some of them just aren't true - it really sucks if you traipse up here with the expectation of less "site politics" and admin fuckery, and then run into you-know-which instances, instances being run maliciously, weird federation/defederation antics etc.

The fediverse as a concept and the lemmy.world-aligned part of it both have serious issues that could make activity hard to increase by putting off both existing and prospective users.

[–] [email protected] 10 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Yeah, the amount of Tankies here is JARRING. Up until this point I had been someone who fell in the "Communism is a nice ideal, but in the real world its never panned out and may be likely to always pan out the way it has done so so far when tried", and it took like a WEEK on Lemmy to go from that to "No fucking WONDER communism has always ended up the way it has"

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 year ago (1 children)

It absolutely is, although I'm not even talking about communism specifically. I'm basically a socdem and a leftist (as far as actual, normal society goes - less so for Lemmy, obviously), though that's completely irrelevant. It's all about... just shitty behavior, false flagging, wannabe-authoritarian, bad-faith, trolling, dishonest bullshit. Question communities like this and asklemmy are chock-full of thinly veiled soapboxing and questions loaded more heavily than a thousand cargo ships. Even if you agree with the basic points, it's fucking obnoxious. Not only that, it's bloody stupid and a prime example of shooting oneself in the foot, at least if the idea was ever that more than about forty people would use this thing.

Reddit was full of subs where the (often right-wing or particularly right-wing tolerant but not exclusively) twats-in-charge banned you from subs or the site at the drop of a hat. This was a major selling point for the fediverse - why if that happens on the fediverse, it's Decentralized so you'd just blahdiblahdiblah. In reality, though, several communities - the only active ones in many cases - are apparently sticking around on instances where the only difference from r/conservative or whatever is the paintjob on aforementioned twat-in-charge and their views. If they're not condoning "power" abuse, trolling and spam from even more blatantly bad-faith instances, they certainly aren't doing anything to mitigate it. That doesn't really look dramatically better as far as fairness and tolerance go.

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[–] [email protected] 11 points 1 year ago (2 children)

There is already a word for "reverse degrowth." That word is "growth." (Or "grow," possibly "regrow" in your context.)

I have not much else to add other than I am continuing to post on Lemmy regardless of whether or not it becomes popular. I'm pretty much the only voice in the two communities I'm most active in, and if that winds up with me just shouting into the void about topics I like, well... I'll still do it, because t that's what I enjoy doing. Maybe some day, maybe not. Fuck it.

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[–] [email protected] 10 points 1 year ago

I would suggest we add community nesting. It would allow people to easier find new communities and post in small communities without risking that no-one sees it

[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

Reddit will continue to fuck up and people will continue to come here. Give it time. Eventually, Reddit will fall apart.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 year ago

I think it's the same as any other platform. Right now the content in small communities is limited, but over time once there is a sizable amount of content that newcomers can get referred from or go through, Lemmy as a whole will get more traction. Since the Reddit exodus happened I definitely feel like Lemmy has grown a lot and I'm here for the long run.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (2 children)

Probably an unpopular viewpoint, but Lemmy and Mastodon proponents need to suck it up and go be on Reddit and Twitter now and then just to advertise lemmy and mastodon. If no one is talking about these platforms there, no one will be thinking about migrating here. I went to Reddit for some specific emulation communities a day or so ago, and people there are asking where they can find piracy communities that don’t get banned, and it was appreciated when I mentioned you can find them here. Lemmy just isn’t talked about and given exposure unless someone already on lemmy makes the effort, and talking about it here constantly doesn’t make any difference.

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[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (6 children)

I saw a bunch of posts from @[email protected] promoting a project called fediverser which at first i thought was just like lemmit didn't see the need for it. The main difference is that not just posts are imported into Lemmy, but also the comments. The idea is that for each reddit user who comments, that comment is added to a shadow profile in Lemmy and commented on the post. The idea being over time, the reddit users will have profiles in Lemmy already populated, that they can take ownership of, and don't have to start from scratch finding an instance or creating an account.

Obviously everyone has their opinions of it, but maybe it'd work out for the Kerbal Space Program community, since Lemmy is more technically focused. This might remove a barrier of entry for new users joining your communities.

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[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 year ago

Contribute to them and invite people.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Go chiefs! I’m from KC so it’s cool to see a community on lemmy—and I had no idea it existed until right now.

I feel the exact same way my friend. Even when lemmy was on the rise (when I joined), I knew that it wasn’t going to receive wide adoption. And unfortunately wide adoption is exactly what is needed to solve the problems you have mentioned.

As much as I love the idea of lemmy, I like the idea of community and connection more. I say go to the places where you find those things because that will be the most meaningful to you. You may find that for a more privacy and free thinking community on lemmy, but for other topics you probably have to go elsewhere. For now.

So go and connect with people over things that you love!

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[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 year ago

Time. This has happened a million times. The regular pattern is an explosion, a correction, then slow growth either until that platform becomes the new bad guy or gets destroyed by the government.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 year ago (1 children)

First and foremost, let's get this out of the way...

Fuck the Chiefs.

Now that we've cleared up that order of business, yes, it is disappointing that there aren't many niche communities. I still have to go to /r/raiders because there is little to no activity on the Raiders instances I found. Granted, I'll admit, I'm kinda part of the problem bc when I looked them up, I just saw the posts were outdated and old, and never bothered engaging, or trying to make those communities happen. I remember they blacked out our sub for a day or week or whatever, and nothing really came of it. Engagement seems the same. I'm guessing sports communities as a whole don't really care about the bs reddit pulled w 3rd party apps, and probably were less likely to have been using a 3rd party app or cared. I remember seeing comments along the lines of "good, glad the sub's back. What were y'all even trying to accomplish with your little protest anyways?" I wish people did care because I have to use the shitty mobile site for reddit bc I'm for sure not installing their dumpster fire app.

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