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[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 hour ago

Yeah, the joke isn't even about how bad the webcomic is anymore. It's completely dissociated from that such that the very layout of the comic popping up in unexpected places is the whole joke. It's not a miscarriage webcomic, it's Loss I Ii II I_

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 hour ago

There was a thread about a woman having an affair and her husband being told about it. Lotta bad takes in it.

[–] [email protected] 12 points 2 hours ago

One time a coworker was telling another coworker about Che and what all he did, when one of the guys at the shelter, an older Cuban dude, gets all up in arms about how "Che is a murderer! He is a murderer!"

Like my dude, you are living in a shitty American homeless shelter surrounded by poverty and suffering, and you're still gonna be anti-communist?

[–] [email protected] 12 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (1 children)

I woke up today and thought this was the news mega and saw it had like 400 unread posts and almost panicked until I started reading your posts.

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[–] [email protected] 5 points 3 days ago

He's like the inverse of leftists who get upset when you talk about animal rights because you're "distracting" from human issues.

[–] [email protected] 15 points 3 days ago (3 children)

Anyone got that screenshot saying that trans people like Celeste because it gives us unrealistic fantasies of double-jumping? It was posted on Hexbear some days ago but I can't find it.

[–] [email protected] 11 points 3 days ago (1 children)

A few years back I was boarding a long-distance bus ride and when the guy asked for my ID he looked back and forth a few times before saying "you look young!" like he was angry with me about that.

More recently though a coworker told me she thought I was in my 40s madeline-deadpan

Trans women just age kinda funny I guess.

[–] [email protected] 11 points 3 days ago

I was fortunate to have a friend in Minnesota who was like "fuck no I hate that dude he sucks".

[–] [email protected] 2 points 4 days ago (1 children)

Apparently the sequel does have a whale that looks very much like a whale. Guess I can't play that one.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 4 days ago

Aggro was fun when it was a choice of lizards, mice, or some variety of prowess. It's less fun when you play a tapped land on the draw and lose before you even get to do anything.

 

Are you a leftist who is sick of working long hours just so that your boss can buy a second house?

Do you struggle finding employment because you don't have a degree (classist bullshit), or have a degree in a field you didn't end up liking?

Do you have any personal experience with homelessness, drug addiction, mental illness, or just struggling to fit in with capitalist society? This is like, the one job where that helps a lot.

Do you have an understanding of the structural issues that cause people to become unemployed or homeless (it's capitalism. capitalism is the answer)? Live in a medium-to-large city where social services exist in parallel with the for-profit job market?

Why not try a new career working in Homeless Services?


I've been a shelter worker for most of the last decade, and lemme tell you, it's pretty great. I've done everything from working on-call night shifts, to managing entire shelters hosting 100+ people. I didn't go to school for this, and I had no social work experience prior. I was just some trans girl in her 20s with a little bit of lived experience (living in my car) who answered a craigslist ad, but I stuck with the work cause it's like, hella rewarding and stuff.

Most of the job is just maintaining a safe environment for the guests - cleaning the facility, preparing meals if your shelter does its own food, signing people up for services (showers, laundry, beds, depending on program), with a little bit of case management on the side - and they'll teach you that part. Depending on the shelter, you might be busy buzzing around chatting with people (like 90% just being friendly, not even "work talk"), or you might just be chilling, ready to pop up if anything exciting happens. If you work night shift, you might even get to spend the night on your phone while everyone is asleep (depends heavily on the shelter).

There are some substantial downsides, not gonna sugar coat it.

  • It can be stressful dealing with people going through what is likely the most difficult period of their life. They aren't normally assholes, life is making them that way.

  • Sometimes said stressed-out people will have emotional outbursts, that can be very disruptive and sometimes scary or even dangerous. You learn a lot about deescalating angry people (which is actually a really good skill for a leftist to have, if you do any protesting!).

  • Sometimes people fucking die, and you'll be the first responder. You will get good at using narcan and doing CPR. I have a graveyard in my head and have known so many people who died either in shelter, or on the streets some time after I met them through work. I've had people die while I was trying to save them. Sometimes you do EMT stuff. It does weigh on you a bit.

But the rewards are so much more!

  • When you tell people what you do, they'll think very highly of you. Our stereotypes are sick as hell and people will talk about how caring and wonderful you are. Try it out on dating apps!

  • It's peaceful at work today so I spent all day posting. I expect tomorrow to also be mostly chill, so I will be posting more.

  • I'm in good with a lot of houseless people in my city, and this has been helpful more than once. It's cool having people.

  • Actually doesn't pay too bad. I make about 50k in a large coastal city, enough to pay rent and have a modest living. With my shelter worker bf making around the same, we get by alright in this expensive city.

Any other shelter workers here? Anyone in homeless services in general? What got you into this work?

Also, does anyone have any questions about what the job is like or how to get into it?

 

Not writing a big essay about things means you can't write cringe liberalism.

I just wanted to be late to the party after the CPUSA and PSL statements got posted.

 

So as we all know, it is impossible for man to soar through the heavens as a bird does. Any attempt will lead one to be struck down from the skies for their hubris. It can't be done, Boeing is proof of this. So what if I wanted to do the next best thing?

I've heard the words "Learn to hack, learn to drone" echoed around these parts a few times. I've tried learning programming again and again, but it seems I'm just not that Type of trans woman. Instead I got really into CAD and 3d printing and remote control vehicles, so the "learn to drone" part really appeals to me. Problem is, I don't know where to start. Do I just buy a $300 DJI drone before they get banned? Do I learn how simulators work and practice a bunch first? Do fpv and bigger camera drones share a skillset? How do I not fuck up when I'm living in a big city? If I already have a transmitter, is that a cost I can save or do drones generally come with their own?

I'm also interested in reading about the ways people use drones for revolutionary purposes, for lack of a better term. I know local orgs have a need for good protest footage, but flying a drone downtown is probably super duper illegal and the new Remote ID rules would make me copbait if I were to say, sit in the bed of a leading truck and follow a march from above. Drones are super cool, but less so if a cop just shoots it down with his scifi radio gun and then tracks me down and arrests me.

By the way, has anyone ever built a drone? I already have a 3d printer and a transmitter I use for robot combat. And I'm pretty familiar with drone parts - motors made to spin propellers can also spin blades, and tiny receivers and batteries made for weight-limited flying vehicles are great for weight-limited fighting vehicles. I just don't understand flight controllers or cameras or propellers or how to pick parts or anything. It would also (with dubious legality) avoid the Remote ID issue and my homebrew drones wouldn't be banned for being Chinese spies.

So hey sickos, how do I learn to drone?

 

still posting in dunk tank cause it's reddit-logo but I was really surprised to see this thread get out of zionist control and have people actually talking about israeli war crimes. maybe this refugee camp bombing is a turning point???

 

I most often play Pathfinder, with a mostly-canon Golarion setting. I almost always play a woman - sometimes I make her trans, and sometimes I don't. Her trans status is usually based on the rest of their characteristics, and whether I feel it "makes sense" for my character to realize she's trans.

When I played a brash, independent sorceror, or a young noblewoman with resources and connections and a supportive family, it made sense to make my characters trans because they were in a position to figure that out and had the ability to do something about it. In my current Pathfinder game, my character was raised in a militaristic cult that isn't a good environment for deep introspection, so I made her cis.

When I made my character for Baldur's Gate 3, she was a self-insert alongside my BF's self-insert, so she was transfemme and it was an easy decision. I'll generally prefer to make trans characters, but only if I can make up a good justification to do so.

I recently spoke to a friend who primarily makes cis woman characters as part of the whole "power fantasy" that comes with roleplaying, and her experience was a little different than mine, so I thought I'd ask here. Trans Hexbears, are your RPG characters trans?

 

Like a lot of us here, I'm trying to learn Mandarin Chinese. I've been casually doing apps for a while now (Duolingo sucks, HelloChinese seems better, language exchanges are fun but scary) but I recognize some serious limitations to my methods. My reading and typing is getting better, as is my listening, but I still suck at speaking and tones are still hard to remember sometimes. This seems directly related to my learning methods - lotsa reading and listening exercises mostly, not as much talking. If I want to actually be able to speak this language, I'm going to need some more varied education I think.

My first thought was to check the local community college - we have a large Chinese population here so the classes are probably good, but the scheduling doesn't work well with my boring adult 9-5. I do well in a classroom environment though. One-on-one tutoring might not be a bad option, but I'd prefer to go through the embarrassment of learning a new language as a group, you know?

Anyone else in the same boat? What do you use to learn?

 

May I offer you a cutesy pop song in these trying times?

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