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This is a question primarily for the queer comrades but of course any of yall can comment.

Recently I saw some criticism of the symbol's use because so few of those who wear it ever had to actually experience it.

Personally I wear it on my jacket, and have worn it for several years. I don't think I'll remove it, but I was curious about other people's thoughts.

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[–] [email protected] 21 points 4 months ago (1 children)

so few of those who wear it ever had to actually experience it.

They killed our elders, and they keep killing. I like the triangle less as a "queer pride" symbol and more as a "fuck you I won't forget what you did" symbol.

[–] [email protected] 13 points 4 months ago

That's basically how I see it too, like I'm not wearing it in the same way that I wear a flag pin.

The triangle is there more as a remembrance or a "fuck you" sort of thing.

[–] [email protected] 11 points 4 months ago

They killed our elders, we carry their memory and remind the bastards that we are still here.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago) (1 children)

"you shouldn't feel a connection to past radical struggles for liberation because those struggles were successful in improving the world for you"

in general, the species of brainworm which is primarily focused on making sure people don't identify too much with the oppressed is a fuck. spit on anyone who would rob you of the past.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 4 months ago

History is merely the explanation of the present. It kinda icks me out when people shit on historic stuff that at the time was revolutionary. We stand on their shoulders and all that.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 4 months ago (2 children)

I've been looking for a symbol I can incorporate into my outfits to unmistakably mark my support for the lgbtq+ experience, particularly that of trans persons.

My typical outfit is a spectrum between business casual and business formal. A pin like a simple way to include that but I don't really like how un-integral it would be to the rest of the outfit. Something like a Pride Flag Tie would be a part of the outfit in the way that the pin isn't, but that is A; very limiting to the variety of my outfits and B; feels a bit too silly for the more sober tone of support I'd hope to convey.

Ah! Trans Pride Cufflinks and Tiebar! (I don't know why that's different than a pin in my mind but I'mma start looking around Etsy to see what there is...)

[–] [email protected] 4 points 4 months ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 2 points 4 months ago

jk i hope it looks good on you

[–] [email protected] 2 points 4 months ago

On business formal lapel pins would work.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago)

I dont associate it with pride. I associaate it with the struggle. It's origins are in the Nazi persecution of the queer community akin to the Yellow Star of David,

[–] [email protected] 5 points 4 months ago
[–] [email protected] 5 points 4 months ago

It's not something I would do but its cool and good and a symbol of defiance and survival.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 4 months ago

One criticism I've seen of the pink triangle (as well as the rainbow pride flag) is that they're kind of symbols of western queer movements specifically, and their usage has sort of overtaken usage of other queer symbols from other cultures, even in those other cultures' movements. I'm like half-remembering this shit, and I don't know if this has any bearing relating to your use of it, or if it was even really a good point to begin with (I don't identify as queer or anything LGBT, so my evaluation is hobbled by that).

[–] [email protected] 3 points 4 months ago

because so few of those who wear it ever had to actually experience it