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"Doctor" is a title you become entitled to use by virtue of holding a PhD - you have the option to use it, but nothing compels you to do so if you don't want to.
Note that the reverse isn't true - representing yourself as holding a doctorate when you don't can be a fairly serious crime - if you did for the purposes of getting money from some, then it's probably some kind of fraud
Double up. Assert dominance. Demand to be referred to as 'Mister Doctor'. Hmm.. 'Doctor Mister'? I think I like Mr. Dr. better.
If you're a professor with a doctorate in Germany, the official way to refer to you is Professor Doctor [last name]. If you hold two doctorates it's Professor Doctor Doctor.
Professor is also a serious and registered title in Germany. You can't just start a school and start handing out professorships without oversight and approval.
There’s no law that says you have to use ‘dr’ or another title; and can instead go by Mr, if he wants.
It might also be possible to go by dr [first name], if that solves the question of gender affirmation. Might also be simpler/easier to get people to go along with it.
Also, I’d happily Knight him myself. There’s no law in America saying I can’t, either. so, there.
(And now I want to create a chivalric order. I’m thinking, cosplay while we clean up parks and/or whatever like that.) (the chivalric order of do-goodery.)
My chivalric order of bad-assery will stand nearby and make fun of you.
So far as I'm aware, non-occupational pre-nominal honorifics inure to the individual, so generally speaking, if that person doesn't want to use their title, they don't have to. And in the same way that most people will go along with someone's acquired honorific of Dr or Capt or whatever, the same should also apply if someone expressed that their honorific should not used. I have no citation for this, other than what I've seen in life.
As a sidenote, in Britain, I understand that medical doctors are able to use the pre-nominal of Dr, but surgeons specifically will drop the Dr and just use Mr. or Ms.
Apparently this stems from ages ago when surgeons did not have to have a medical degree, and the doctoral view was that surgeons were akin to butchers. This may have reflected the crudeness of early surgeries. As a result, surgeons developed a history of being Mr -- it's not clear if female surgeons also took on Mr. So after the various laws/rules changed so that surgeons also had to be medically qualified, they still kept the tradition of Mr.
Thus, a male student of medicine in the UK could go from Mr, graduate to Dr, and then graduate as a surgeon to Mr again. I have no citation for this either, but it's plausible for the ardently traditional British nation.
No one has to do anything. Live your life. Choose how you want to be addressed.
You don't hear lawyers going around being called Dr. Lastname, despite having JDs.
To be fair, lawyers get the much cooler Esquire, AND it is appended to the end of their name instead of the front. Definitely stands out more than the generic Doctor.
Although only a douchenozzle would insist on it being used.
Totally. 👍. Well said
Although I had a prof who was a JD who INSISTED on Dr. so she could be on par with the other instructors. But then no one liked her. So ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
I don't know for sure but for me, if I spent 10 years in college, and two or three years in an internship, working 15 hours a day, sometimes 20 or 30 hours straight with no sleep, I would think that having the doctor title is something I worked hard to earn.
Transitioning is also a grueling process. Drag has a degree and drag is more proud of drag's body than of the piece of paper. It might be different for postgraduate, drag is in the process of finding out. Drag is worried about becoming a doctor and losing the choice to use a different title if drag wants. Right now drag would rather be Dr than Mx, but drag doesn't want to lose options in case a better option comes along later.
Generally, getting certifications/memberships gives you more options for honorifics, not fewer; you get to use any that are appropriate.
And for instance, if someone has a PhD and an MDiv, they can go by Reverend, Doctor, Reverend Doctor or Mx, and they’re all appropriate; it all depends on context and what you’re trying to communicate.
So Doctor Drag (he/him) is appropriate, as is Mx Drag, PhD.
Thank you, although it felt very uncomfortable for drag to read he/him pronouns for dragself. Drag transitioned to get away from he/him, the example in the post body is just an example of some imaginary doctor. Drag's pronouns are drag/dragself, and drag's name is not drag. Drag's name is Dragon "Rider".
I would hope that you have the freedom to use whatever title you want to.
If you’re also a teacher, you get to use “Professor”
Only in the US and a select few other countries...
In other places, 'Professor' is a specific academic rank - there'll only be a few professors in a university.