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Literally every time I read something like this

But then I remember I barely leave my house due to Covid, don’t really like meeting people or going out anyway, and the last relationship I was in we broke up because she held extremely bourgeois values and was an anticommunist. So sometimes the women are just as reactionary as the men, and also I do myself no favors being a crank shut in. So it actually makes complete sense why I’m single.

Personally I think my problem is not replying to texts reliably, women seem to hate that

Almost every goddamn day of my life, but I know the answer is that I don't put myself out there or make an effort to meet new people/potential love interests. I think I would make a good partner for someone, it's just a matter of actually seeking people out. Just sucks that guys are expected to make the first move most of the time and I'm terrible at gauging someone's interest in me.

It sure is very nice to be told that the bar is on the floor, when you still haven't managed to clear it.

yes :(

The chuds in my biological family (almost a "OOPS, ALL CHUDS!" meme) outright resented my wife because I didn't order her around like a robot. Even the female chuds were mad that their own sunk-cost fallacy of putting up with misogynistic chud husbands for decades of their miserable lives didn't get passed down toward her.

my mom says that about my bf. claims hes too much of a catch and i dont do enough for him. of course some of this sentiment is transphobia, i do a lot with him

nah he just loves me the way i am mom

Some older women one if them a midwife where really surprised about me saying that I really miss my kid and wish I was back home since I started going back to uni. Like "wow modern men really are something huh? Good for you!". Made me real sad for them because they have kids if their own.

Felt really weird to get lauded because I care about my own kid.

I have the opposite experience - the older women in my family love and dote on my partner because of how sweet he is! It’s adorable. Also a little sad because I know a lot of them weren’t treated well by their (late or ex, fortunately) husbands.

Lol my family is so conservative that they complain that someones husband can cook and do house work 😂 it is an horror in their eyes

I know a guy who literally doesn't masturbate because it "ruins sex" but also is way into porn and watches it frequently. I don't get it either. I utilize porn as a tool but I can't imagine just watching it for watching's sake.

Only guy I know that does this is also friends with porn directors and does communal porn watch parties (and other sex party stuff). So probably not the average example.

But I can think of few things less arousing than watching porn in a group.

Edit: I tell a lie, I also had a colleague of mine show a titty model gif and saying 'look at this cool thing'. He is also 20 years my senior. Just kind of confused by that more than anything, how the fuck are you supposed to react?

you right tho

yeah a lot of reddit posts def seem like bait. this sort of thing does happen though

"everyone" means "everyone immediately known to me whom i've asked," and there are some fucked up places out there

When my wife gave birth, the delivery room had a sign saying any sexual comments, said jokingly or not, would result in you being immediately kicked out. I couldn't believe they needed to put up a fucking sign for that at the time so that makes this post a bit less shocking to me.

On one hand we could just hang the techbro CEOs/execs and burn down their shitty social media servers then maybe the "internet" would go back to being more than the same 3 shit websites?

On the other hand I don't know if there is a cure for someone that spent 10 years on reddit.

The amount of normalization (and romanticization) of whacky creepy behavior is wild.

TikTok is a nightmare world of glorifying precious smol bean quirky abusers.