Parrots need the same level of commitment and resources as a child. Think of having a permanent 3 year old that welds scissors constantly (beak) for a minimum of 30 years.
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My neighbor has one parrot, and it's her baby! I think she had it for more than a decade now, and it's beautiful to see him flying around the apartment (it's a big place, and all the windows are screened, so he's free to roam around), but it's such a commitment.
I actually started socializing with them because when I moved in they sent me a small basket with snacks and stuff, with a letter explaining about Kiwi (the parrot), and how he can be a bit loud sometimes.
I don't really mind tho, I actually love hearing him sing, joke, laugh. Such a happy bird!
Also, don't make the mistake that smaller parrots mean less commitment. Parrotlets and lovebirds are smart, feisty, bite pretty hard, are extremely loud, and still live like 25 years. Budgies are a bit dumber and nicer, but still live a long ass time. Cockatiels have a very nice personality and are musical, but they have 25 year life spans. Consider any small parrot to be a "25 to life" deal.
Also chances are, your parrot (of any kind) either won't talk, or won't shut up about the wrong things. Hope you like hearing the Teams call music at all hours.
I dated a girl who's African Grey made ALL the WoW sounds ALL the time. The bird was indistinguishable from the actual game.
I maintain that they are tiny dinosaurs. Adorable tiny dinosaurs, but dinosaurs none the less.
Also, don't forget about how loud they are. They can hit some notes that I'm not sure kids can.
I have made friends with a salmon crested cockatoo, he's in his mid 50s, and awesome. So yeah, they live forever.
Yeah they're so smart! I know some are considered to be as smart as a 5 year old.
So they deserve all the love and enrichment of a 5 year old, which would mean a variety of food, new toys, lots of exercise, and lots of interaction.
I never had one but I still feel bad for all the birds that just end up in a cage for 70% of their lives because they are so smart.
Not really adding anything, just agreeing with you whole heartedly.
So don't buy a parrot and a welder, got it.
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Pet rats are awesome! They're domesticated and used to interacting with people. They have distinct personalities and are very loving. Sadly, they only live about 2.5 to 3 years.
Had several while growing up. This is the pet I always point to as being a fantastic pet that a lot of people pass on because of their association with sewer rats.
Cute!
Sadly, they only live about 2.5 to 3 years.
To some this is an advantage, if you are not ready to commit to 15-20 years for a dog or cat.
Rats carry all the personality of dogs and cats. In theory, you get a pet that you'll enjoy for 2-3 years. In practice, you'll be devastated after your intelligent best friends start dying one by one. Most people cope by buying rats constantly.
I had a roommate who did this. It felt like we barely had time to get to know them before they got tumors or had heart attacks. I lived with her for 3 and a half years... which was basically 2 and a half generations of them.
Yes, they really are the heartbreak pet. My best friend had some for most of her adulthood, and the recurring heartbreak, feelings of responsibility for them and also just vet bills both took a toll on her. All of them were awesome, intelligent, full of character and cute, but it is an emotionally taxing pet to have, for those reasons.
Yeah, we're in a position now where we've got the last of our five ratty boys living on his own as a cranky old bachelor because we don't want to get any more, but he's too old to rehome. I do feel bad that he's in there on his own, but I keep him topped up with Cheerios and bits of cucumber, and he seems happy enough.
But yeah, all four of the lost rats so far have made me cry like a baby. Number four, Feegle, had to be put to sleep a few months ago, and the nurse at the vet asked if I wanted to wait in a private room for my appointment because I was dribbling and snorting while Feegle was looking up at me from inside my hoody.
I can't keep doing that to myself, so Mr Wilbur is spending his twilight months in peaceful solitude.
You just made me cry.
Having pet rats has been a marvelous and horrendous experience. They are so affectionate, but most of the time, they die in horrible waysβtumors, heart diseases... It's heart-wrenching to see someone you love suffocating in your hands and feeling helpless, rushing to the vet, having to "make the right decision" while the poor thing licks your hand, not understanding what's going on. Then you feel like shit, consumed by guilt both for making the decision and not making it fast enough at the same time. It really is unbearable, and yet I'm overwhelmed by nostalgia each time I see a picture of them.
Yes, all of this.
The absolute worst for me was our beautiful Templeton. He was Wilbur's brother. We introduced them to Nac, Mac, and Feegle the way you're supposed to and everything went perfectly. Until it didn't.
We still don't really know what happened, but what was clear was that there was a squabble, someone lashed out, Templeton ended up getting slashed across his balls. Rushed him to the vet, who said that pretty much all they could do was castrate him. So we did that, picked him up the following day and put him in a small carrier on his own to recuperate while we went out to get a small cage for him to live in while he healed.
While we were out, he had apparently been jumping about, trying to figure out how to get out, and he burst his stitches. By the time we got back and realised what had happened it was too late. Things that should have been in were out and we had another rush to the vet. All they could was put him out pain, and my last memory of him was him looking kinda scared at me as he was taken away.
That was almost two years ago, and it still hurts like hell, because it feels like there was so much we could have/should have done differently. The poor little guy was only 6 months old, and was the absolute sweetest boy. He'd run up my arm when I opened the cage, and happily sit on my shoulder eating cheerios. None of the others did that of their own accord.
I still miss that little fella.
Only a few days later, our remaining cat got hit by a car. That week was complete shit.
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I don't have them currently, but people really need to experience owning ferrets for a couple of weeks before deciding to purchase them (and I do mean THEM - don't just purchase one). They are like playful and adventurous kittens 24/7 between naps, which seems awesome, but they need vet check-ups, diligent cage cleaning, and tons of play time.
They are playful and adventurous kittens that smell bad all the time (and will smell even worse if you try to bathe them too often), will actively try to kill themselves eating things they shouldn't and getting into places they can't get out of, and will shit in corners of your house rather than anything else you might set up for them to you. Unlike kittens, they bite hard when they're playing. They'll also pass out and sleep so hard that you'll think they're dead.
My wife has had a lot of ferrets, more than 20 for sure. Our home can absolutely not be made ferret-proof, which is probably the biggest reason that she hasn't been pushing to get more.
That's a lot of ferrets. Wow.
She worked in animal rescue. And they weren't all at the same time. But a lot of them were.
An ex had ferrets. They were fantastic. I don't think I'll ever have any of my own though.
...and that's why I suggested spending time with ferrets before owning them. They are so much fun and full of energy, but they take as much energy as they give.
Huh. This comment and the other below just made me realise I won't have a ferret. I love cats, but kittens wear me out, not so much because of their energy but because they don't understand they are being annoying (I guess that's why one can't be mad at them ha). I love the smart, energetic cat breeds though. I've heard a lot of praise for ferrets from ferret owners, but nobody mentioned their smell or that they would be like kittens.
kittens wear me out
100% this. They're cute as fuck, but there's a reason why my wife and I just adopted a pair of 6yo cats. Might get a few years less with them, but as least they won't drive me insane for a year.
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My dad had a ferret bite through his fingernail
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Chinchillas require more care and attention than many people realize, making them unsuitable as presents for children.
Their unique needs include dust baths to keep their fur clean, sensitivity to temperature changes, and the importance of avoiding exposure to excessive heat or water.
Additionally, be prepared for their escape-prone nature and the inevitable abundance of waste they produce..
So. Much. Poop.
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Giant African snails can hibernate. Do not simply throw them in the trash, because their shell is dried shut. They can quickly infest the entire neighbourhood
Some dude thinking his pet snail is dead, only to throw it in the trash and forget about it, and then wake up to a snailpocalypse a week later is pretty funny to think about
African Pigmy Hedgehogs are incredibly cute and have a lot of personality but are incredibly sensitive to it to their environment and will die unless properly taken care of.
For instance!
- They need to exercise or else they will gain weight and die from obesity.
- But don't get the kind of rodent wheels with supporting bars because they'll turn their head while running and potentially break their neck.
- Also, don't get the wheels with mesh/holes on their running surface as their toes or paws can get stuck and lead to injury.
- They will poop and pee constantly in their area, which means daily cleaning.
- Their nails/claws grow fast and must be clipped or they will start to grow back up into the bottom of their paws.
- They need 8 hours of "day light" in the form of a lamp or their body will think it's hibernation time.
- They must be kept around 65Β°F-90Β°F or they'll either think it is winter and try hibernating, or they will overheat and die.
- They can be tumor machines. Our one hedgehog Prickles had a hysterectomy after developing tumors in her uterus. She also developed multiple mouth tumors.
Picture for reference: https://imgur.com/a/nBkbHpA
Aww they are so cute!
I didn't realize they are so prone to getting themselves killed though :( Poor little dummies.
I breed various species of roaches (Emerald roaches, Madagascar hissing roaches, glowspot roaches and Simandoa conserfariam). They are very social creatures with favourite sitting spots and fights when someone challenges that. There are also only very few species that infest homes (about 20-30 out of 4600) the rest live in forests and caves and donβt want to have anything to do with humans. They also clean themselves a lot.
I have a massive dislike for roaches, but I must admit the wild species don't upset me as
much . It's only the fast-moving, large American roaches that freak me out.
Having said that, I've been in places infested with roaches and have observed some peculiar things about their behaviour. Am I crazy to think they enjoy playing? I remember they used to just love running at full speed inside a container full of shredded papers, making a lot of noise. I didn't think this could be fighting, though, perhaps it was. It felt more like watching dogs or kids running into a pile of leaves than a fight.
Most likely courtship behaviour, I have observed that as well for some Periplaneta roaches Iβve noticed on streets during the night. Itβs often surprising how many they are.
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I like how hissers will stack on top of each other, sometimes 3 deep and upside down! Their remarkable ability to climb walls means a secure enclosure is key. They can be quick for their size...but only a foot or two before they stop to catch their breath.
Hedgehogs shit while they run. Sonic doesn't eat chili dogs, he lays them.
I'm not sure if leopard geckos really count as exotic, given they're about as close to domesticated as lizards get currently, but they're more exotic than cats and dogs. In any case, I with people in general would understand that pet stores, especially large chain ones, but the smaller ones are often included too, cannot be trusted to give accurate advice on how to set up and care for an animal, and as such, asking the employee for what to get to go with the animal while buying it does not constitute adequate research into that animal's care.
I've seen way too many posts on the leopard gecko subreddit, before I left reddit, from people with wildly insufficient or actively harmful setups, based on advice from a pet shop, or "starter kits" marketed as being for the species. Many were well meaning people who simply assumed that the pet store employees were professional and therefore must know what they were talking about, and while most ultimately seemed to listen when everyone warned them that they were doing something wrong, some stubbornly would insist on trusting what they had been told to buy.
As a veterinary student, I'd say you really can't trust anything from pet store employees regardless of species. As part of our nutrition rotation we go to pet stores and pretend to be new first time dog owners and ask for recommendations on food. The "advice" I've heard has been horrifying at times.
- Despite being desert-dwelling animals in the wild, bearded dragons should not be kept in enclosures with sand (or other particulates) as a substrate. They'll ingest it with their food, and it can get stuck in their digestive system and can kill them.
- They enter a hibernation-like state (called brumation) typically once a year, and it can last up to 3 months or so. They stop eating and spend most / all of their time asleep in their hide, and if you're not expecting it, can look like they've died. It's normal, healthy, and they'll wake up and go back to normal again.
- Bearded dragons are frequently carriers of salmonella, which they can pass on to humans. Always wash your hands thoroughly after handling one.
Hey point 2 and 3 are the same for my little turltes that I forgot to mention!
Yay little salmonella carrying monsters!
The best pets have all the worst methods for fucking humans up!
I'm usually a snake owner (although not at the moment), the amount of people who have horrible misconceptions about snakes genuinely frighten me
People see snakes and assume they're bitey monsters that just want to hurt you, this could not be further from the case, snakes have relatively fragile teeth, and their venom is precious, furthermore they cannot tear chunks out of their prey, they must swallow them whole. These few things combined means that biting humans is not really high on their list of things to do. Some snakes can be rather defensive, but there's no snake that will chase a human, and you can tame almost any snake down from defensiveness relatively easily (much easier than you could if a giant grabbed you)
There's no such thing as a snake that chases humans, they aren't slimy, they aren't all venomous, and the venomous ones know they will still lose a fight with a human, so, they will run away, furthermore it is no consolation prize to the snake that they kill you TOMORROW if you've been bit, when their head has been stomped today.
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I kept turtles back in the 90s. I had a fantastic setup: a blocked off room, with a kiddie pool in it, with ramps leading in & out of the pool.
Oh man that would be sick!...
I do have a spare tiled room in my basement... maybe one day as that would be awesome! No more escaping for them (unless they escape the room some how, which I know they will try.)
Not an exotic pet owner but wanted to say this post was thoroughly enjoyable. I'd like to own an iguana one day, possibly birds again, and it's cool learning about others exotic oet experiences!
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