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[–] [email protected] 23 points 5 months ago (2 children)

Going back to a family gathering in august. Going between cancelling, boymoding, or saying fuck it and wearing what I want. Only thing is that it's gonna be extremely uncomfortable no matter what.

[–] [email protected] 13 points 5 months ago

How many family members will be there? What are they like?

[–] [email protected] 5 points 4 months ago (1 children)

I've been having a really hard time with this also. I'm out to my parents and they are thankfully really good about it these days, but I basically went with the "cancel" plan and no i don't have much of a relationship with the rest of the family. Idk we weren't super close before, maybe it doesn't matter. The hard thing is going to be next time there is a funeral...

I hope you go with whatever makes you most comfortable and safest.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 4 months ago

Definitely. I am very close with my extended family, which is almost worse lol because I have to do something about it and I don't really want to go the nuclear option and just ghost them :/ at some point I'll just have to face it. I feel like I need to be further along though. I guess I really just really really do not want to be perceived as a "man in a dress"