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[–] [email protected] 14 points 4 months ago (3 children)

What does it take to be comfortable around people while in a crop top? It’s crazy to me that people can like just wear sports bras. I don’t mind how my belly looks, but I don’t want other people looking at it. Augh.

[–] [email protected] 12 points 4 months ago (1 children)

after you wear revealing clothing enough times (holy fuck it took me so long to show off my cleavage on date nights) you kinda just get used to it and stop freaking out. its definitely a new sensation for a while. i recommend doing it around friends a lot first

[–] [email protected] 9 points 4 months ago (1 children)

Yeah, I’ve tried and it’s gone ok. Why am I so embarrassed around my family tho? Like, they’ve seen me shirtless it’s fine.

[–] [email protected] 11 points 4 months ago

a lot also probably saw you pissing and shitting yourself at some point too. i get it though, i've had bad hangups with family before in terms of presentation. sometimes it feels higher stakes

[–] [email protected] 10 points 4 months ago (1 children)

it took me a few years into transition to be comfortable with crops and they definitely get you more attention. when I was testing the waters a bit, I found having higher waisted shorts/pants helped it not feel as daunting

[–] [email protected] 8 points 4 months ago

I do love the high waists. Low still looks pretty good when I’m alone.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago) (1 children)

Do you love your tummy? Might make it easier to show off, Idk.