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Any image post that gets 200 upvotes with "banner" or "rule 6" in the title becomes the new banner.
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Posts about dysphoria/trauma/transphobia should be NSFW tagged for community health purposes.
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I am not going to do your post justice, I thought it was beautiful, tbh. lots of relateable things for me in there... I only have a few things I really can respond to...;_; but ... I do want to say, it looks to me like you just did, a little bit?
this reminded me of my people pleasing issues. I tend to try to assimilate IRL around people like a lot ... lately I've been trying to slowly let go of the mask, but it's taking a long time... I prefer talking online, where I can think and speak at my own pace, and I don't have the pressure of someone staring at me waiting for me to say something, I can take my time.
I feel this. I hold back a lot with my opinions when I'm around more than one person, or when I don't trust someone, and also in general. I'm working on it, just pushing against those "people will hate me if I share my opinion on Y" feelings a little each day...