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This is how I was at 18 and it’s how I’m gonna be at 30 and 40 and 50 and….
hrt has made me a lot less scared, even excited about 30 tbh. i'm gonna be smoking hot and 30s can't be any worse than my 20s lol. 40 is still scary though.
I'm in my 40s and looking better and doing better than I was in my 20s, still get carded lmao
that rules tbf even 40 is less scary now it just seems like more of a Big Deal than 30, probably something i'll get over as the years go on. i know im just gonna be getting hotter and more comfortable in myself every year now so that's one reason the future in that way feels so much more real than
oblique sui talk
when i was younger and never thought i'd make it that far.
Once I hit 25 I stopped caring and have had chronic pain since around 19 and I've managed that to this day, but today I am fitter, look better than I did in my 20s which is extremely funny to me. Plus not going into the sun in years hasn't aged me either lol
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I didn't think I'd get to where I am now eitherthat rules, so happy for you chronic pain gang hangin out
I'm not even worried about my 40s tbh, my body is already coming apart at the seams so lfg, here's to me becoming older and better.
same! and definitely a great attitude to have. at least i know my rate of inflicting damage on this vessel has slowed down in more recent years (did most of my worst disordered drinking from the age of 16-22 or so...) so things are looking up!
I plan to work out even more as I age, hopefully I won't slow down much. I will say it seems grim when there's an inverse correlation between how well I treat myself (I eat way better and exercise way more) and how healthy I am (chronic pain is killing me 100× more than it was even seven years ago) but y'know!
I feel that very hard, I get resentful a lot of the time because I've done so much work to abuse substances less, don't do hard drugs and drink 3x/week anymore, even working on quitting weed recently... but I'm more or less still miserable a lot of the time. i have chronic MDD, I'm used to it for better or worse. like, I'm sure it will pay dividends physiologically in the long term but sometimes I get in a really bad mood and I'm like what was the point of all that yknow
too relatable... Me I just try to think that there's no sense treating myself worse Idk.
it's the right mindset and I'm thankfully able to channel it most of the time these days! it just comes under pressure when I'm in a real doomer mood which unfortunately isn't so infrequent. still doing better than ever with all that self destructive stuff though
real, every birthday is