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In October 1776, the Public Universal Friend contracted an epidemic disease and was bedridden and near death with a high fever. Their family summoned a doctor from Attleboro, six miles away, and neighbors kept up a death-watch at night. The fever broke after several days. The Friend later reported that [deadname redacted] had died, receiving revelations from God through two archangels who proclaimed there was "Room, Room, Room, in the many Mansions of eternal glory for Thee and for everyone". The Friend further said that [deadname redacted]'s soul had ascended to heaven and the body had been reanimated with a new spirit charged by God with preaching his word, that of the "Publick Universal Friend", describing that name in the words of Isaiah 62:2 as "a new name which the mouth of the Lord hath named".

From that time on, the Friend refused to answer to their deadname, ignoring or chastising those who insisted on using it. When visitors asked if it was the name of the person they were addressing, the Friend simply quoted Luke 23:3 ("thou sayest it").β€Š Identifying as neither male nor female, the Friend asked not to be referred to with gendered pronouns. Followers respected these wishes; they referred only to "the Public Universal Friend" or short forms such as "the Friend" or "P.U.F.", and many avoided gender-specific pronouns even in private diaries. When someone asked if the Friend was male or female, the preacher replied "I am that I am", saying the same thing to a man who criticized the Friend's manner of dress (adding, in the latter case, "there is nothing indecent or improper in my dress or appearance; I am not accountable to mortals").

editorial note: I think this is a very cool story and I really love hearing it. We've been around forever and we've been doing variations of this forever. It's really beautiful


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[–] [email protected] 16 points 2 months ago (2 children)

i sat up for too long today and i’m paying for it doggirl-gloom

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[–] [email protected] 16 points 2 months ago (5 children)

i am in sight of 99 agility in runescape madeline-stare

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[–] [email protected] 16 points 2 months ago (1 children)

sadposting

yes-honey-left

I'm so fucking tired

I need a fucking break

I need like a week in a nice cabin in the woods to myself miles away from other people with a big warm comfortable bed to hibernate in and try to make up for months of a sleep deficit but that's completely unrealistic

I have a whole thing about gender shit and family shit to vent but now I'm gonna attempt to sleep and kick my own brain's ass if it's uncooperative in doing that because I'm so fucking exhausted that I'm seeing shit in the corner of my vision that isn't there

Goodnight/morning

sleepi

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[–] [email protected] 16 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (3 children)

you know how like sometimes you know a thing is true, but you're kinda annoyed it's true and would rather it wasn't? I feel this about giraffes and horses. like ok you look at a giraffe and you're like oh, it's a tall horse, I get what's going on here, it's related to horses. but no! horses are odd toed ungulates and giraffes are even toed ungulates, and their last common ancestor was like 60 million years ago in the early eocene!!

and like I know this, it is a factual truth, but I don't want it to be! my brain sees a giraffe and is like na mate, that's a big horse. the bastards are more closly related to fucking dolphins than they are horses!

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[–] [email protected] 16 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (4 children)

transphobia, introspection, bit depressing I'd say

it's funny that I used to worry so much that I'd never be a real woman. I know very well that I am, but now I also know that I threw away what was actually my ideal body and will never truly he happy with it again

this is a funny thing, because otherwise it would be harrowing

spoiler involves nsfw, suicidal ideation took a picture in similar thigh highs and underwear to pictures I have saved before surgery. I'm so flat down there now.

it makes me want to kill myself :::

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[–] [email protected] 16 points 2 months ago

at least marvel writers can be safe in the knowledge they'll never write anything as embarassing as the elon musk scene in iron man 2

[–] [email protected] 16 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Therapy in 7 mins 😍

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[–] [email protected] 16 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Got my flu and covid shot and now my arms are mad at me about it bleh

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[–] [email protected] 16 points 2 months ago (15 children)

So like... How safe is DIY, really?

Pretty sure I can get my hands on the goods, but I see people here going to get blood work done to check their levels and change dosages, and I just don't see how that would be possible for me.

Like, going in to get blood work, and they're like, "your E levels are super high, we gotta get to the root of this" and I'm like "erm... Yeah"

Just saying I don't think I can have medical support.

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[–] [email protected] 16 points 2 months ago (3 children)

how does one get over a crush?

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[–] [email protected] 16 points 2 months ago (2 children)

got power and internet back! the water damage to the electrical system was limited to the plug sockets. can finally chill

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[–] [email protected] 16 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (2 children)

Thomas Blounts dictionary of 1656 lists the word tranfeminate. Though apparently it meant then what we'd call transmasc. Or transgender in general Wild.

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[–] [email protected] 16 points 2 months ago (8 children)

My prolactin was high :(

It can get high from HRT (some of em), but it can also go up from stress. And baby, I am stressed

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[–] [email protected] 16 points 2 months ago (2 children)

health ventingugh there's so many things i could vent about with my health and the stressful situation it's put me in, but one thing is that it has once again pushed hrt down the road for me. i'm too busy dealing with my chronic fatigue crash and its ensuing consequences to pursue hrt rn and i'm just thinking about it rn and i'm so, so frustrated.

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[–] [email protected] 16 points 2 months ago (4 children)
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[–] [email protected] 16 points 2 months ago (5 children)

Ahhhhhhhhh, I have a couple days off~ I got violin lessons today, trashy TV to watch with my mom, and a union meeting, but tomorrow... tomorrow is gonna be a total chillax day~

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[–] [email protected] 16 points 2 months ago (1 children)

The negotiating committee says: "this is probably the best deal we're going to get, it's up to membership to decide if this deal is acceptable but we recommend ratification"

The general membership seems to be saying: "we can get better."

And I can sympathize, I do think we can get better. But I don't really have faith that my fellow union members are actually willing to go to the mat to get better, or if they're financially able to. Cause I don't think this government is going to give and I think if we strike, strike pay is SHIT in the first place, they'll legislate back to work - and I don't know about the wherewithal in membership to put up an illegal strike. Cause they will fine us as a unikn, some members (mostly in leadership) will be threatened with fines and even jail time, but it's definitely a struggle we can win to get better pay which is one of the big disappointments from membership. So many of us are living paycheck to paycheck and are single parents and can't afford strike pay for months.

I hope, should we ratify, they keep that anger for the length of the contract, they build up their coffers and solidarity funds and communal stuff, so that the NEXT contract if we don't get a better raise again - then we can go to the mat and wildcat if we need to. But just shouting "fuck you" in general isn't gonna win us much better than the current offer and it could end up worse...

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[–] [email protected] 16 points 2 months ago (3 children)

It’s pretty wild looking back at older pop culture to see Mae West and Raquel Welchβ€”two sex symbols of their timeβ€”being the subject of heavy transvestigstions. Raquel Welch even transvestigsted Mae West in her later years.

Just goes to show that you can even have the ideal woman’s figure and people will still somehow accuse you of not being cis.

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[–] [email protected] 16 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (3 children)

It is done (catgirl emojis)

I got rate-limited for this, the bear won't let me upload photos right now

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[–] [email protected] 16 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Part of me thinks that Hexbear should take a more active role in brigading and bullying transphobes

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[–] [email protected] 16 points 2 months ago (1 children)
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[–] [email protected] 15 points 2 months ago (9 children)

Kinda wish there were catgirl equivalents to the puppygirl line emotes...

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[–] [email protected] 15 points 2 months ago (3 children)

I feel so wide all the time, but I think everyone might just be wider than I think and I have BDD doggirl-gloom

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[–] [email protected] 15 points 2 months ago (9 children)

Day whatever of being a moody irritable asshole. I dislike this because I'm not really able to talk to people like this, I have been ignoring matrix (hello) all day as a result. Just being a shitty asshole on websites instead :)

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[–] [email protected] 15 points 2 months ago (9 children)

idk what I am gonna do with my surplus of estrogen pills when I leave.doggirl-sweat

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[–] [email protected] 15 points 2 months ago (4 children)

I wrote all of my emotions out in a clear and concise way over multiple paragraphs following the narrative I intended to explain

that deserves an energy drink imo

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[–] [email protected] 15 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

Ugh, pushed myself too hard too soon yesterday postop and paying for it today. omori-miserable

A lot of my people are going thru shit rn, and I want to be there for them when they reach out, but I really feel like I can’t at the moment. blob-on-fire

Ugh, gonna try and go back to sleep.

[–] [email protected] 15 points 2 months ago (2 children)

it was really foggy this morning, and my wife sent me a bunch of pictures of the thick fog from her commute making London look like fucking Silent Hill. fog is cool

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[–] [email protected] 15 points 2 months ago (5 children)
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[–] [email protected] 15 points 2 months ago (2 children)

mental health, it's fine now but aaaaaaAlmost had a little meltdown because this

lil' stinker found a cardboard box in my closet to hide in and then fell asleep and couldn't hear me looking for him everywhere thinking that he got out somehow and ran awayboohoo

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πŸ“¦meow-bug

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