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On the 24th of october in 1975, approximately 90% of Icelandic women struck for equality, not attending jobs or doing any domestic work. Iceland passed an equal pay law the following year, but the strike has been repeated on its anniversary several times since, such as in the years 2005, 2010, and 2016.

The strike was planned by "The Women's Congress", which had met on June 20th and 21st earlier that year. Among the reasons given for going on strike were pay inequality, lack of women in union leadership, and a general lack of recognition for the value and skill of domestic labor.

During the work stoppage, also known as "Women's Day Off", 25,000 people gathered in Reykjavik, Iceland's capital city, for a rally. There, women listened to speakers, sang, and talked to each other about what could be done to achieve gender equality in Iceland.

Women from many different backgrounds spoke, including a housewife, two members of parliament, and a worker. The last speech of the day was by Aðalheiður Bjarnfreðsdóttir, who "represented Sókn, the trade union for the lowest paid women in Iceland", according to The Guardian.

In 1976, the Icelandic government passed an equal pay law, and the country elected its first female President, Vigdís Finnbogadóttir, five years later in 1980.

The 1975 Women's Strike also helped inspire the 2016 "Black Monday" anti-abortion ban protests in Poland, as well as the "International Women's Strike", single day work stoppages on March 8th, 2017 and 2018.

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[–] [email protected] 26 points 3 days ago (2 children)

racist old woman gave me shit about my Palestinian flag and I told her that her grandkids hate her and the reason they never call is because she is a racist

[–] [email protected] 10 points 3 days ago

Critical Hit

[–] [email protected] 15 points 3 days ago (2 children)

superliked a 5'10" woman on hinge while being barely 5'6" xigma-male

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[–] [email protected] 15 points 3 days ago

folks i dont know how many more near death high speed t-bone close calls at a 3 way stop intersection i can take. fuck henry ford and his hitler machines

[–] [email protected] 16 points 3 days ago (1 children)

Let's face it

Leeeeeet's face it

Let's face it

Leeet's face it

Let's come to terms, and embrace it

Concurrently concede and face it.

I'm cute hyperflush

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[–] [email protected] 16 points 3 days ago (2 children)

Lol I just remembered the "humanitarian aid pier" fiasco

[–] [email protected] 11 points 3 days ago (1 children)

remember when everyone tried to argue about who blew up Al Shifa hospital

and then Israel bombed ~35 more hospitals in Gaza

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[–] [email protected] 12 points 3 days ago (4 children)

Facebook leftist page is encouraging people to commit perjury if they get jury duty so they can be on a jury and do a nullification. This is a fantastic way to be held in contempt of court in the most consequential way possible, that's gonna cause a mistrial, they'll get a new jury and you'll be in a stupid amount of trouble, you personally pissed off and lied to the judge who now controls your fate. If by some weird chance you end out on a jury, nullify, but don't lie in the selection process to do so. It won't do anything but delay and you'll go down fucking hard for it.

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[–] [email protected] 11 points 3 days ago (2 children)

I guess a dude trying to rob the liquor store called one of the clerks a fascist, he also works at the grocery store and was telling me after work. We had a good laugh and all and then I said "well, you are a government contracted employee there, so professionally speaking, he's kinda right.". Silence. "Have a great night!"

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[–] [email protected] 10 points 3 days ago

i-voted for Claudia De la Cruz

[–] [email protected] 14 points 3 days ago (7 children)

anyone else down in the dumps about the ephemeral nature of human connection, communion, and intimacy? doomer

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[–] [email protected] 12 points 3 days ago (3 children)

Saw someone online complain about a food spot and they said that the fries were "dry af," which is such a weird complaint to me. Wouldn't you want your fries to be crispy and not soggy? Also the dryness of the fries is entirely up to you, you can just dip them in ketchup or something.

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[–] [email protected] 13 points 3 days ago (1 children)

Man I just really don't want to sit alone in my room these days. Shit sucks and all the stuff that I usually do for fun have just given me basically zero enjoyment these last two weeks. Shit sucks.

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[–] [email protected] 16 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago) (5 children)

picking up on the aura of latent misogyny emanating from naruto (manga, not necessarily the character), like, it's weirdly omnipresent

[–] [email protected] 12 points 3 days ago

Misogyny is pretty much everywhere in shonen and it fucking sucks. Even when there isn't explicit bigotry, the roles and characters of women are often more shallow and sexualized than men. Fujimoto is the only male mangaka I can think of who writes women as well, if not better than, men.

Actually Attack on Titan isn't really misogynistic. It is fascist though so it gets 0 points

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[–] [email protected] 9 points 3 days ago (1 children)

Its the spooky season. Click the spoiler arrow for a fright

spoiler

sans-doot really bad trunpet playing


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[–] [email protected] 16 points 3 days ago (1 children)

Finding out Asmongold lives in the same city as me ruined my day. Now I gotta know what neighborhood he lives in and if it is mine because I've been getting ants and roaches a lot.

[–] [email protected] 11 points 3 days ago (2 children)

Asmongold is so disturbing to me. How did that person become wealthy and famous on the basis of charisma?

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[–] [email protected] 14 points 3 days ago (10 children)

chronic pain yapping idkWhen ur corpse doesnt hold together well anymore!!!!! When standing is an actual effort!!!!! When nobody has presented you a better alternative than just chugging more opioids lol

At this point cbd oil better be a fuckin wonderdrug

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[–] [email protected] 11 points 3 days ago (1 children)
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[–] [email protected] 10 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago)

Hi, this is Patriots for American Values. You've been selected for a short, interactive political survey where you'll have a conversation with an AI! Please donate a few minutes of your time. It's engaging and could shape future discussions.

lol @ being pitched the "opportunity" to talk to "A" "I"

[–] [email protected] 14 points 3 days ago (1 children)

Using a toothpick, wiping it off in a napkin, and sheathing it like a katana

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[–] [email protected] 15 points 3 days ago (2 children)

Just a shitpost but this represents the real silent majority

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[–] [email protected] 13 points 3 days ago (2 children)

Housemate is sitting in the kitchen showing me bad memes. When will she leave

[–] [email protected] 11 points 3 days ago

Keep saying "sorry I don't get it"

[–] [email protected] 11 points 3 days ago

show her worse memes until she leaves

[–] [email protected] 8 points 3 days ago (2 children)

So at some point the earth is gonna be fucked enough thar nuclear exchange over what's left would be of so little consequence that mutually assured destruction is kinda already assured so may as well nuke. Probably within 50 years.

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[–] [email protected] 9 points 3 days ago

Oof, another eviction

[–] [email protected] 11 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago)

Never mind. Friends chickened out of voting third party. Not like I can force them to

[–] [email protected] 8 points 3 days ago

Biden having another Morrowind moment and clipping out of bounds

[–] [email protected] 13 points 3 days ago (4 children)

My girlfriend invited me to her steam family with her other girlfriends but I'm already in a steam family with MY other girlfriend and HER other girlfriends and you cant be in more than one. My massive library is in demand! But it sucks this is polyphobic!!!!!!!!!!!!

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[–] [email protected] 11 points 3 days ago (6 children)

Dungeons and Dragons vent postEvery now and then I am reminded that D&D exists and become irrationally angry.

Ok actually it's more like rationally angry. My partner and I are absolutely 100% the target demographic in every way and should LOVE this game, but every time we've tried to play has just been SO GARBAGE. Enough so that every reminder of the game (+my own anxiety) sends me down the "if everyone you meet is an asshole, you're the asshole" spiral.

But I'm pretty sure I'm NOT the asshole, just someone who has had absolute garbage luck with D&D groups.

We haven't played since COVID started (our active campaigns went online and wrapped quickly, and we were both like "whew, glad I can be done with that forever"). But it SUCKS because WE SHOULD LOVE IT. So many people get so much out of it, but it always felt like complete torture. We played with friends, we played with strangers, and every time there was just this one asshole player at the table completely ruining it for everyone else.

EVERY campaign I've joined has had a different THAT GUY that was just UNBEARABLE to play with. Stealing from other PCs, consistently rolling completely improbably high, unassailable via PVP because of some bullshit or min-max build when other characters do call out their character on their bullshit, killing friendly NPCs, stealing from friendly NPCs, intentionally holding the idiot ball for who knows what fucking reason, rolling "the characters's twin brother" when somehow they actually do face the consequences of their actions.

Like, I read posts about it, and there's always a "you'll eventually meet THAT GUY if you play long enough", but how the fuck can I actually manage NOT encountering THAT GUY for once?

It just pisses me off so fucking badly. I wanted to like the game. I wanted to roll dice and move miniatures and make food for friends and somehow it's always COMPLETE TORTURE from one fucking prick.

agony-4horsemen

It sucks. I hate D&D. I don't want to. But I hate it SO FUCKING MUCH because it put me in contact with pricks for WAY TOO LONG.

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[–] [email protected] 8 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago)

Luckily my resume is already up to date because I don't like my job a lot, but my manager was getting a lot of backhanded comments from another manager in a meeting today. Some of them were essentially questioning our department's existence, and the manager making them definitely has the power to make our department not exist.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 3 days ago (3 children)

tarp is short for tarpaulin who says that shit

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[–] [email protected] 7 points 3 days ago (2 children)

Second episode of the new season of lower decks has the crew beaming down to partake in celebrating a successful socialist revolution and it's like...really clear about it

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[–] [email protected] 12 points 3 days ago (5 children)

Someone was telling me about some military analysis streamer called Perun. I've never heard of the guy before, but, wait... what was the name again?

And I'm like

"Wait. Perun? Spell it for me? Oh he's a fascist"

"No he's not, I've never got any fascist vibes from him"

"Is he eastern european?"

"His parents are."

"He's a fascist."

Belden Rule 9: don't hang out with people who are in to Runes.

If someone knows the names of old Slavonic thunder gods and they don't have a full chest tattoo of sexy Stalin they're like 89% likely to be fash.

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[–] [email protected] 10 points 3 days ago (2 children)
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[–] [email protected] 12 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago) (7 children)

been weeping a lot more during the evenings this past week. this shit is getting old, someone dose me w/ a wee pinch of toxic masc so i repress this urge out of shame plz and thank u

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[–] [email protected] 27 points 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago) (5 children)

Redditors should be sterilized

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[–] [email protected] 10 points 3 days ago

sometimes I realize the backlog from lacking critical thought for decades and it really fucks me up

[–] [email protected] 6 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago) (3 children)

cw: anxiety, ADHD medsPower of anxiety is wild

Went from feeling like I was about to have a stroke or something to feeling okay. Some physical symptoms still there like tingling but its much better than earlier (at least I think it's the anxiety causing it, have been through this before)

New ADHD meds maybe aren't working out idk :(

Most days seem to be okay but if I didn't sleep well or something side effects are so much worse, also worrying a lot about what this stuff doing to my heart rate and blood pressure :( . Have been too afraid to check the last one but I probably should so I can stop worrying or see if I should get off of this stuff (it's Vyvance btw, lisdexamphetamine)

This really sucks, for first time in a long time I'm not zoning out all the time and I can get daily tasks done easier yet still idk if this gonna work out :(

Doctor didn't respond to my last call but maybe I try again tomorrow :/

Idk why I'm posting this even, maybe reassurance ugh

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[–] [email protected] 8 points 3 days ago (4 children)

Me with a time machine getting napoleon hooked on old style 4 loko

[–] [email protected] 7 points 3 days ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 7 points 3 days ago (1 children)

I legit didn't know this was a meme and now I'd like to take my entire joke back and don't think it's funny anymore.

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[–] [email protected] 7 points 3 days ago

im a chef, do you know what that means? it means I can STUMBLE INTO MY KITCHEN, DRUNK and THROW TOGETHER SOME BULLSHIT at a PROFESSIONAL LEVEL

[–] [email protected] 6 points 3 days ago

I passed all of my exams let's fucking goooool floppy-owl

[–] [email protected] 6 points 3 days ago

calling ultra fine spaghetti "angel hair" pasta is subtle white supremacy implying angels are blonde

[–] [email protected] 6 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago)

I know I keep bringing it up every now and then but it's Marvel comic book canon that Hitler summoned Thor in WW2 and tricked him into trying to kill Stalin (Invaders 33 1978), who was saved by Captain American and the Invaders. And it's funny imagining it coming up. Just sitting around the table at an Avenger's party

Thor: One time I almost accidentally killed that Russian Man of Steel!

Hawkeye: Colossus?

Thor: No the other with a mustache? Joseph Man of Steel I think.

Black Widow: (spits her drink in surprise)

[–] [email protected] 13 points 3 days ago

I should get an apron for my kitchen that says "do not tell me how to cook"

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