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Stormé DeLarverie, born on December 24th in 1920, was a biracial queer icon whose reported scuffle with police was the spark that ignited the Stonewall Riots in 1969. She is sometimes referred to as the "Rosa Parks of the gay community" or "Rosa Parks of Stonewall".

DeLarverie was born in New Orleans to a black mother and a white father, and spent the 50s and 60s as a "male impersonator" in the Jewel Box Revue, the period's only racially integrated drag troupe. Her gender-bending style of zoot suits and black ties was groundbreaking for the era.

On June 28th, 1969, at the Stonewall Inn in Greenwich Village, New York City, a scuffle broke out when a woman, believed to be Stormé, was roughly escorted from the door of the bar to the waiting police wagon. The woman fought with at least four of the police, swearing and shouting, for about ten minutes. When she shouted to the bystanders "Why don't you guys do something?", the crowd began rioting and clashed with police.

"It was a rebellion, it was an uprising, it was a civil rights disobedience - it wasn’t no damn riot."

  • Stormé DeLarverie

A Brief History of Stormé DeLarverie, Stonewall’s Suiting Icon

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[–] [email protected] 31 points 8 months ago* (last edited 8 months ago) (14 children)

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No current struggle session discussion here on the new general megathread, i will ban you from the comm and remove your comment, have a good day/night :meow-coffee:

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[–] [email protected] 23 points 8 months ago

Shout out to all the single people cleaning the dishes and the sex toys at the same time

[–] [email protected] 23 points 8 months ago (5 children)

My eternal war to defend California against the nerds on r/vexillology continues

[–] [email protected] 24 points 8 months ago* (last edited 8 months ago)

vexillology nerds will lie to you and claim this flag is bad. they don't know shit

[–] [email protected] 19 points 8 months ago (1 children)

They hated him because he told the truth.

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[–] [email protected] 16 points 8 months ago (1 children)

Iirc a lot of vexillological nerds will make exceptions for existing well known flags. Like the venetian flag

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[–] [email protected] 23 points 8 months ago (3 children)

I'm officially a married man now. This whole thing was a long work in progress and a pain in the ass to plan. It feels so much better and easier to relax now that the ceremony is over. There's another indigenous ceremony we'll be having in Guatemala but I don't have to stress out as much for that one.

This is one of those things that feels just right. Finally being married feels like I just put the last piece in the puzzle and can stop fretting over it looking incomplete. My family has been over here (big thanks to my sister for pulling that off) for a few days and I'll be celebrating Christmas with them over here because my wife's (It still feels surreal calling her that now) family doesn't celebrate.

We leave for our honeymoon in Cuba soon but for now we can just enjoy our time here with both families present.

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[–] [email protected] 23 points 8 months ago (3 children)

My cat when I pet her acting like I invented static electricity meow-tableflip

It's dry and you're fuzzy, I'm not in charge of this

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[–] [email protected] 22 points 8 months ago (1 children)

Reddit cares is such an awful idea. Its exclusivly used as a kys button.

[–] [email protected] 16 points 8 months ago

Word. Just the most dumbshit idea.

[–] [email protected] 20 points 8 months ago (6 children)

the nice thing about chapo dot chat is that i am constantly reminded that it's actually normal for this fucked up, evil world to make you mentally ill

[–] [email protected] 16 points 8 months ago

the downside of this is there are a lot of comrades that make me worry for them with their posts, despite also making me feel less alone

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[–] [email protected] 20 points 8 months ago (1 children)

Big things are happening on Hexbear

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[–] [email protected] 19 points 8 months ago

Scrooge: Guys, I'm just going to walk down the street, okay? I'm just minding my own business here.

Muppets: THERE GOES MISTER SHITBAG THERE GOES MISTER FUCK

Scrooge: Come on guys

Muppets: I WISH I COULD SEDUCE HIS GIRL WHILE HE WATCHES LIKE A CUCK

Scrooge: What the fuck dude

[–] [email protected] 19 points 8 months ago

Windows 10 telling me there's going to be pollen tomorrow, my brother in operating systems it's Christmas Eve.

[–] [email protected] 19 points 8 months ago (1 children)
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[–] [email protected] 19 points 8 months ago (3 children)

merry christmas lovely communists in my computer

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[–] [email protected] 18 points 8 months ago

The game Ready or Not is like a tactical SWAT simulator and they've gotten a lot of flak for having a school shooting amerikkka-clap mission. It's pretty cool though, I did a realism playthrough where me and my fully geared up tactical SWAT team just sat outside the whole time.

[–] [email protected] 18 points 8 months ago (1 children)

I was just walking behind a dog owner. The dog kept trying to sit down to poop and she was just ignoring him and walking forward. Most infuriating thing I've seen today. LET MY MAN POOP

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[–] [email protected] 18 points 8 months ago (3 children)

3 years and the Corvid finally got me

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[–] [email protected] 18 points 8 months ago (1 children)

guess who's (probably) got covid the day before christmas (we celebrate on the 24th)

pika-cousin-suffering

really cool how every holiday/social gathering results in some new infection now. love living in a "post" covid world

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[–] [email protected] 17 points 8 months ago (2 children)

wtf it shouldn't be raining right now where I live

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[–] [email protected] 17 points 8 months ago* (last edited 8 months ago) (1 children)

interrupting christmas eve dinner to shout "REPUBLICANS ARE HITLERITES! REPUBLICANS ARE HITLERITES!" cuz i'm well adjusted like that

Death to America

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[–] [email protected] 17 points 8 months ago (2 children)

so i procrastinated getting a new prescription for my ADD meds and my psychiatrist has now closed for the year and I have 3 Vyvanse left ohnoes

I am unmedicated now and good lord I forgot how much it sucks. I don't even have the drive to play video games. I can't believe I existed like this for the first 20 years of my life.

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[–] [email protected] 17 points 8 months ago (4 children)

Well just canceled my plans due to 102 degree fever. Now I get to file a travel insurance claim on Christmas Eve :)

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[–] [email protected] 16 points 8 months ago

it is december 23 and stalin saved the world from fascism

[–] [email protected] 16 points 8 months ago

People are so out of touch it’s almost sickening

Like they’ll do that one Fox News bit about poor people “having it better than anyone could possibly imagine 50 years ago” because they have a smartphone. Because apparently all you need to survive is a smart phone and not, ya know, shelter

[–] [email protected] 16 points 8 months ago

fuck landlords
fuck cars

[–] [email protected] 16 points 8 months ago (3 children)

Instagram will randomly show me posts from “threads” and the first bullshit thing it shows me is straight up transphobia shit, what the fuck

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[–] [email protected] 16 points 8 months ago (6 children)

I've.neber seen Elf but because it came out when I was 12 and other kids around me yelling lines from it, I know I hate it. I was also strictly anti Will Ferrell movie and still am

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[–] [email protected] 16 points 8 months ago (9 children)
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[–] [email protected] 16 points 8 months ago (5 children)

Is it cringe for me to repost things I post here to my underused Mastodon lol

[–] [email protected] 18 points 8 months ago (1 children)

Dude I frequently post the dumbest shit and no one has complained yet

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[–] [email protected] 15 points 8 months ago (2 children)
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[–] [email protected] 16 points 8 months ago

hey, don't cry. I found a YouTube link in your comment. Here are links to the same video on alternative frontends that protect your privacy:

[–] [email protected] 16 points 8 months ago (1 children)
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[–] [email protected] 16 points 8 months ago (5 children)

why are comments yellow now

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[–] [email protected] 16 points 8 months ago (1 children)

I'm beside myself right now. I got banned from Archive of Our Own for writing a Harry Hogwarts fanfic where a wizard transforms me into a videogame controller and uses me to play Hairy Hogwarts Legacy much to my chagrin. They said it was "blatant and bizarre fetish material". 😿

[–] [email protected] 18 points 8 months ago (1 children)

isn't blatant and bizarre fetish material the whole point of ao3?

[–] [email protected] 15 points 8 months ago

Yeah, kick me while I'm down why don't ya.

[–] [email protected] 15 points 8 months ago* (last edited 8 months ago) (2 children)

LPT: if you see someone stealing food, distract security by faking a medical emergency

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[–] [email protected] 15 points 8 months ago

Wife, baby and me all got covid for Christmas

angery

[–] [email protected] 15 points 8 months ago (5 children)

spending Christmas Eve alone, kind of by choice since my immediate family are going out of town and I simply did not want to join them. s'alright, i suppose. might watch some cozy shit. and there's live music at my local bar that night so may go hang with some other lonely souls over there

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[–] [email protected] 15 points 8 months ago

remember when all those french phil*s*ph*rs signed that pedo petition
yikes-1yikes-2yikes-3

[–] [email protected] 15 points 8 months ago (2 children)

keep trying to listen to old wobbly music and youtube keeps putting weird fash shit in my reccomendeds

yeah sure youtube, i'd love to listen to the southern battle cry of freedom. i'm 100% a southern reactionary, how did you guess???

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[–] [email protected] 15 points 8 months ago
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fuck i hate this time of year
might just spend the next few days drunk lol

[–] [email protected] 15 points 8 months ago (3 children)

shen yun ads everywhere I go

I throw away stacks of 100s of paper ads, I cringe at the 50 billboards on my way to work, I skip them on youtube (my adblock stopped working)

stop trying to make me support the falun gong

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[–] [email protected] 15 points 8 months ago (1 children)

meditation is going very well right now: major breakthroughs in meditative stability since the solstice. it's like turning on the holodeck for the first time

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