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[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 week ago

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She's cookin in minecraft.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 week ago

spoilerReading through your story, I've seen it dozens of times before. That's not to say that you're not a unique or special person, but you're not alone. All the things you're feeling we all do at one point or another. I have too.

I'm all stoic and shit now but that comes with hindsight. Early in my transition I was a total mess.

It's possible to come out of it if you have a plan and a support network. The plan won't come to you immediately, and neither will the support. They take time to build. But you CAN build them.

You haven't failed at life. For transpeople this nadir is society testing your resolve, trying to claw you back to cis-normativity. Most people who detrans do so because of this pressure. But once you pass through it, you'll find your way of existing that works.

You can fight the cis by being your best self and finding a way of living that best suits you. I can't tell you what that is, because I'm not you, but I know you can do it. You're not alone.

[–] [email protected] 10 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (2 children)

mhIt's okay if you're not feeling your best right now. People who actually care will want you to know your sorrow is just as important as your joy. We're not expecting to be entertained here and you're not our entertainer.

Is it your family that's increasing the stress or something else?

[–] [email protected] 15 points 1 week ago (3 children)

If you want something done right, you gotta do it yourself. Hexbear jihad time.Probably would go worse than when reddit sent a bunch of unprepared dorks to Ukraine.
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[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 week ago (1 children)

doggy-beg I love bread.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 week ago (2 children)

When rinsing between washes, just use water or also use conditioner and/or curl cream stuff?

It kinda goes by feel. You can use water if you're just trying to do a surface level clean or use conditioner if it's hard to run your fingers through it. Use shampoo when you're oily/greasy or dusty. If your hair breaks easily when wet, you can use dry shampoo to extend the time between washes so you can maintain length.

Also, how do you find what products work for your hair? Like, just trial and error? Or is there some kind of methodology i could follow?

Companies try to convince you that it's pure science that makes their stuff universally good, but really you just have to go by feel and appearance. A lot of companies, especially catering to white buyers, use silicones to create the impression of shiny healthy hair when really it's just a coating of plastic.

It really is a trial and error thing. Everyone is slightly different and so what works for you might not work for someone else. If you find something that works really well, do research on the ingredients list, as you might be able to find a cheaper off brand or just bottles/jars of the ingredients doing the heavy lifting.

For a general guide:

https://www.realsimple.com/beauty-fashion/hair/hair-care/curl-types

[–] [email protected] 20 points 1 week ago

These guys won't even buy Apple products and cheer when some nerd hacks John Deere software and yet they want to own a device where voiding the warranty will likely financially break them worse than the divorce.

[–] [email protected] 78 points 1 week ago

Cuba warns against sustained US-UK aggression on Yemen

The US and the UK have been launching airstrikes on Yemen to protect the interests of the Israeli occupation.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (4 children)

tipsResults may vary based on your curl type. It helps to look up your curl type and youtube videos related to your curl type because they'll have different requirements.

But generally:

  • Stick with wide toothed combs or brushes. Fine combs fluff up your hair and erase any definition the curls have.
  • You don't need to wash your hair super frequently, especially if you're not sweating a lot. You can rinse without shampoo between washes and focus on using conditioner to maintain a healthier feel.
  • Leave-in conditioners, hair masks, oils, and other related products can be used to keep your hair protected throughout the day and help it maintain its shape. Washing will strip some of the product out but not all of it, so repeated use will protect your hair from drying out. It sounds like you already do this, so I'd guess that what you're using isn't working great with your specific hair type. Hair strands have different shapes, densities, permeability, and scaliness depending on genetic factors and health, so you're not going to have a catch-all product that works for everyone.
[–] [email protected] 75 points 1 week ago (2 children)

NASA Investigation Finds Boeing Hindering Americans’ Return to Moon

A report from the space agency’s office of the inspector general pins the blame on the aerospace giant’s mismanagement and inexperienced workforce.

Gee, it's almost like it wouldn't be mismanaged and inexperienced if they didn't sell out the space industry when the USSR fell.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Hello comrades. Have you ever heard of the hit track Fuck the Cistem by SOAD? curious-sickle

 

Guys, why does my back hurt?

 

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  1. Is this a real thing?
  2. Despite the "no racism" modpost a lot of comments are basically insinuating that Russians are inherently dangerous.
  3. https://daily.jstor.org/how-prisoners-contributed-during-wwii/
 

Mexican students vandalized this Thursday the 35th Military Zone in Chilpancingo, capital of Guerrero, during a protest against the Mexican Army before the upcoming ninth anniversary of the disappearance of the 43 students of Ayotzinapa, on September 26.

The youth, accompanied by social organizations, demonstrated outside the barracks of the Armed Forces considering that they are implicated in the disappearance that occurred in the municipality of Iguala in 2014.

The protesters painted the stone walls of the barracks with phrases such as "It was the Army" and "Ayotzi lives" among others.

In addition, they removed one of the barricades from the main gate in order to [ram it with] a van belonging to a potato chip company.

The students blamed the military for having participated in the disappearance and for hiding key information to find the whereabouts of their comrades.

At the end of their speeches, the demonstrators threw explosives and rocks into the barracks and at the truck.

However, from inside, the [military police responded] with tear gas bombs.

The wind caused the gas to disperse to a nearby neighborhood [and intoxicated some 30] pre-school children.

https://t.ly/c06li

 

A fun little tutorial I saw that converts touchscreen controls for drawing tablets back to physical keys. meow-floppy

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So I was reading through @[email protected] 's comment about Estonian demographic history and felt intrigued by some of the claims, so I did a teeny tiny bit of digging to see what I could find. So here goes:

  1. The Estonian population expanded rapidly during the industrial revolution right up to the 1910s.

  2. World War 1 and the Great Depression manage to suppress population growth for the next decade.

  3. Nazi occupation of Estonia (marked RKO) coincides with WW2. The vast majority of ethnic Jews flee to the USSR, and those whl stayed behind were exterminated. The nazis and their Estonian collaborators built concentration camps. This coincides with a dip in the graph.

  4. After WW2, Estonia is back under the USSR. The first Estonian SSR was established in 1940-1941 when nazi occupation started. After some lag, the population begins climbing on the same curve it did before. The population of the country peaks in 1989.

  5. 20000 people were deported to Russia very early in the existence of the SSR

  6. The nazis aimed to remove 50% of the population on paper but only had 4yrs to do so. This means using concentration camps on ethnic Estonians for germans to take their homes/land as in palestine today.

  7. 20k is not the same as sunaurus's 20% claim, not even close. 20% does however match the proportion of modern estonians who are russian. The obvious conclusion one can gather from this comparison is that this is not dissimilar to Great Replacement propaganda. The assumption here is that ethnic Russians are taking up Estonian space, because the evidence points to massive population growth under the ussr rather than a contraction like the one that occurred with German occupation.

Immigration was highest during that huge growth period, so I'm curious where all those excess deaths and gulags occurred to have not slowed or stopped said growth. It sounds to me like this person is just intimidated by people they consider foreign.

 
 

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Whenever people are like oh we need to empathize w/ incels, care about their feelings blah blah, I just think about what Lundy Bancroft said about abusers.

They need to learn empathy, and this excessive focus on their feelings is a barrier to them learning empathy.

🐦🔗: https://twitter.com/iHateCogsci/status/1610409758120361984

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But this is step 1 of "offering an alternative": recognizing that it takes different skillsets/social conditions to get them well-adjusted, because for whatever reason they're starting from a different psychological basis.

I agree that to some extent the whole idea of focusing on these guys is counterproductive. But focusing on them is not the same as making sure that our movement is equipped to deal with them effectively, without having to relive this generational moment over and over again.

They feel alienated from society because it feels unlivably complex, and they happen to fit enough heuristics of the power group that they feel entitled to deal with that complexity by violently maximizing their adherence to power.

The right takes advantage of this by a) being in power already, b) being the same kind of people, and c) happy to use these guys to further their own interests. So they offer the easy, accessible, lowest-common-denominator solution of just catering to that entitlement.

Of course "Be a good person" doesn't effectively compete. But that doesn't have to be the only narrative the left offers. We need the next step, a narrative that starts with "Be a good person" and builds it into a competitively epic cognitive reward mechanism.

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