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[โ€“] [email protected] 17 points 5 months ago (2 children)

So like idk if I'm gonna come out with work soon but one of my immediate concerns is - what am I gonna fucking wear?

I do have some sweaters I look cute in but a lot of my clothes are basically showing too much skin for work. Nothing crazy, but they're crops and tank tops and stuff and usually I just accessorize them. I feel like if I wear too many clothes, I just look like a guy and obviously that's no good.

Does anyone have any advice? The environment is professional but I can wear casual clothes - that's what I'm doing right now.

My voice also isn't trained at all so there's that too.

[โ€“] [email protected] 9 points 5 months ago

You can get way more femme button ups where the buttons go the other way (which for some reason was decided that's the femme side ๐Ÿ™„). Floral patterns, little hearts etc. Earrings and necklaces are a good way to femme up professionally. You can wear a skirt in business casual too.

[โ€“] [email protected] 7 points 5 months ago

Shirts with drapey or balloon-y sleeves feel pretty femme, imo.