Wedding guest attire - finding a balance. (hexbear.net)

submitted 4 weeks ago by [email protected] to c/[email protected]

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So, I'm not publicly out, and I can pass either way (except voice of friggin course), and I am attending a wedding as a guest soon. The families are white, bougie, mid western and maybe conservative-ish. The other side is some shade of middle eastern, conservative, Muslim and Arab influences (I don't know the families at all). I have no desire to draw attention so I'm going to go in boy-mode, but I also don't want to feel like shit the whole time. Anyone ever find a good way to balance things without firing up the dysphoria into overdrive? I would love to be in a nice sun dress of course, but it ain't happening. I have some mens suits and plenty of menswear formal-ish attire that I can work with. Anyway, anyone got any thoughts?

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[-] [email protected] 17 points 4 weeks ago

Maybe you could do something a little more femme with your hair? I’ve boy-moded a wedding with a bun and some face framing tendrils (why the fuck are they called that?) and that was pretty cute. It got me by.

[-] [email protected] 13 points 4 weeks ago

Ooo, I like that idea, maybe I could have my stylist do something.

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