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[โ€“] [email protected] 19 points 4 months ago (1 children)

I really need a haircut, haven't had one in about a decade. There's nothing actually stopping me from getting a haircut, and there are tons of trans-friendly places here to get a haircut within walking distance, and I would probably look pretty adorable with bangs, and it would make it easier for me to wear my cute cosplay wigs without squeezing my brain...

BDD rantingBut I have such bad haircut anxiety. My dysmorphia goes so fucking nuts about my hair that I don't even like my bf touching it. There's nothing wrong with it, I have long pretty hair, but I still get worries that one day I'm just going to magically wake up looking like my dad even though I'm taking basically every medical measure to prevent that.

Anyways I think I'm gonna try and schedule something this weekend and then get really fucking stoned and hope the fun house clown mirror disease doesn't ruin my day.

[โ€“] [email protected] 14 points 4 months ago

good luck!! it's so scary messing with hair, but I think saying fuck it and just scheduling is the best way to break a multi-year build up of anxiety and stress about it