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Currently on this goofy webzone trying to see if I can become even more en bee (or more likely if it'd be useful to link to others)
There is a lil ring of websites like this, kinda cute.
Okay listen, webzone:
For one why is this framed around agab. What happens if I transed to something else and then am gonna become none biney? Also what happens if I equally want to wear dorky oversized men's clothes and also like, skirts? What then?????
Look, website, being nb is not innately about just being in the fucking middle of the binary gender spectrum! Also no! What happens if I like my body now huh??? Do NBs have to medically transition????????
No, lmao. Don't mind it but I fuck with she/her cause I'm a dork. NBs use all kinds of pronouns.
I suspect that these issues stem from it being a hasty rewrite of turn-me-into-a-girl.com, but this misses the mark for me sooooo hard. Doesn't even try to address the absolute spectrum of nonbinary presentation or identity, it's like whoever wrote it never read Gender Outlaw. I'm sorry, chat...
Yeah... don't really love how they're centering one rather narrow type of nonbinary gender experience.
Right, being none biney is so much broader than that!! All kinds of cool possibilities this doesn't explore. You hate to see it.
It's funny, I actually started enjoying wearing dresses and skirts for the first time in my life after I came out. I'm not really a fan of what's generally considered "androgynous" style for people that have been coercively assigned "female" at birth. It's overwhelmingly just... masculine clothing? Why is masculine clothing always viewed as the default for androgyny, and not feminine clothing??? Hmm... could it be misogyny...
Anyways I like being able to wear whatever I want and not feeling gendered by it.
Yeah clothes really should be degendered across the board, sillyass concept.
I like that clothes can be an awesome source of gender euphoria, and I think that what I've realized is that for me, all kinds of clothes can give me gender euphoria. Which is fun because I get to build my beautiful and weird wardrobe (mostly) worry-free (there are a few articles of clothing that do give me dysphoria, but hey, they're easy enough to avoid.)
You are simply already too powerful for this webzone
It's just not that good, it wouldn't have convinced me. I'm not interested in being halfway between masc and fem; I'm more interested in not fucking around with binary gender, the weird expectations, the things people assume if they think "woman". I am also slightly deranged and kind of against the gender binary in its current capitalist form so there's that too. This site is just like "oooooo u can be androgynous!" Not me soz!
Yeah I got that impression, I just also thought it would be funny to say
Thank u
You should send your critiques to the author!
Thanks for checking it out so I don't have to realise it is kinda bad. I was just about to check it out before reading this comment
I guess I could, that seems fun but they'd also have to rewrite the entire thing? No prob though happy to help β¨
Yes? The idea I got from your comment was that it should be rewritten. It doesn't do nb justice/doesn't capture the full spectrum of enby. Someone that doesn't have anything else might read it and leave with the idea that nb=androgynous. Maybe even that they aren't nb.
Yeah but I'm just a smol bean
Uh I might I suppose...
Just a smol bean? Not in my head. In my head you're a "motherland calls"
Should be like: βwould you like to do things not traditionally associated with your agab, but you donβt necessarily want to associate with the βoppositeβ one?
Ah my favourite, analysis of non binary framed exclusively through the gender binary