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[–] [email protected] 6 points 4 months ago (1 children)

If you want to adopt my idiosyncratic fashion: go to thrift stores, get flannels, get short shorts, get cargo pants, get band shirts, get lots of colors, get some skirts, get some dresses.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 4 months ago (1 children)

Everything here is so expensive, even a single item of clothing, so that's why I was mainly looking on Temu and such. I'm not into fast fashion so I usually avoided things like Shein but at this point any other retailer is unaffordable. I was looking to get cargo shorts and long cargo pants, as I haven't had any until now. I was going for black, cause it fits with everything, but idk

I don't really like (t-)shirts as I perceive them as "manly" so perhaps I can get some oversized ones, and idk I can't get band shirts if I don't listen to music, or that band, seems weird.

Dresses and skirts I would really like to try, but I sadly can't in my current environment.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 4 months ago (1 children)

You don’t listen to music dean-neutral

Good luck, anyway!

[–] [email protected] 4 points 4 months ago (1 children)

I never could find music I like, I can't focus on the lyrics. I've always listened to it to ignore the world around me mostly, as easy-to-filter background noise. I wish I could find something I vibe with, but so far not really. Might be how my brain works, I have no idea, never had a relationship with music.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 4 months ago (1 children)

Interesting, you are my polar opposite in that respect.

I can't focus on the lyrics

Nearly all my waking life I’ve had lyrics and melodies playing in my head constantly. It’s an extra layer of brain activity in addition to cognition and metacognition that protects me from understimulation I suppose.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 4 months ago

Mine's just the beats, usually, no lyrics. I can't visualize anything lyric-related