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[–] [email protected] 11 points 4 months ago (5 children)

Trauma Megathread for the Week of 7/22 - 7/28

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[–] [email protected] 10 points 4 months ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 10 points 4 months ago (1 children)

yea I think being able to trauma process in here is really good tbh. I love trans mega.

[–] [email protected] 10 points 4 months ago (1 children)

I still do most of it in my head or with my partner, generally hard to externalize in any case. I just can't get to the root of a thing or explain it well, also SDAM.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 4 months ago (1 children)

Same, I tend to journal here afterword to sort of solidify it in my brain.

Also is it still SDAM if my memory only gets foggy before age 17? Cause if so yea

[–] [email protected] 9 points 4 months ago (1 children)

I find SDAM's symptoms best explained here (libreddit link)

You can check the faq here (libreddit link)

[–] [email protected] 5 points 4 months ago (2 children)

I tick a lot of those, not really surprising

[–] [email protected] 3 points 4 months ago (1 children)

When I first found it I was really happy cause there exists a term for that, lack of time perspective and not being able to hold grudges, coupled with aphantasia, sucks lol

[–] [email protected] 3 points 4 months ago (1 children)

I have out of sight out of mind, aphantasia, the time perspective, I have memory holes like large amounts missing. I also can recollect things that happened but not really my feelings. I struggle to tell emotions, also I don't dream

[–] [email protected] 3 points 4 months ago

Same on all of them, but I'm the opposite on recollection, I can like 50% remember them as facts only 50% as emotions only

[–] [email protected] 3 points 4 months ago (2 children)

First time ever hearing about this, and I tick a lot of those boxes. damn

[–] [email protected] 3 points 4 months ago (1 children)

Do you have aphantasia or hypoaphantasia?

[–] [email protected] 3 points 4 months ago
[–] [email protected] 9 points 4 months ago

I love all my traumatized comrades meow-hug

[–] [email protected] 4 points 4 months ago

Lately been realized that the fact that there’s certain parts of my past that I can’t think about without crying may not be entirely un-trauma-related