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Trans Megathread for the Week of 7/22 - 7/28 (hexbear.net)

submitted 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago) by [email protected] to c/[email protected]

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[–] [email protected] 15 points 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago) (2 children)

saying I have some specific issues

spoiler eating issues, no specifics though I don't want sympathy or people trying to talk me out of it right now. I just want to let you all know that I kinda have an ed and if you see me post about my weight or how well my diet is going, you should be cautious before giving me your full support. I will try not to put any of you in that position and avoid saying something like that, but yea

you know how people with eds can be. This post is part of making me not do that. ::: Just to not completely ruin the vibe I am actually girl chilling right now, very comfy comfy

[–] [email protected] 10 points 4 months ago (1 children)

meow-hug

Is there anything else we can do to be supportive? Like, would it be helpful to gently remind you of these patterns if we see red flags? Or ask about other stress that maybe triggering it?

[–] [email protected] 7 points 4 months ago (1 children)

:meow-hug: yes, it would be very helpful and thoughtful if you checked in on me if you saw red flags. Especially if you see self hate, that's a big one for me. Thank you, that is very nice of you.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 3 months ago

Care-Comrade

[–] [email protected] 9 points 4 months ago

spoiler

Hopefully you can lose weight in a healthy way and keep it off.

I usually tend to be all-or-nothing with everything, so I probably play around the line of whether my eating habits could be considered an ED or not at times followed by periods of gaining tons of weight (usually triggered by some other factor like significant injury or new job; I think I've gotten better at avoiding that though).