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[โ€“] [email protected] 12 points 3 months ago (3 children)

Thank you, but I'm not concerned about validity as I agree that there's nothing wrong with shifting self-perception of gender. I'm specifically concerned with it manifesting as a complete disconnect rather than a transition.

I just want to know if it's a genderfluid thing or something more complicated.

[โ€“] [email protected] 12 points 3 months ago (1 children)

I don't think this something someone else is gonna be able to tell you. Talking about it is gonna help you figure it out for yourself though

[โ€“] [email protected] 6 points 3 months ago

Okay I'll think about it more

[โ€“] [email protected] 7 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago) (1 children)

It could be you tried it for awhile and just didn't like it.

Identity is generally very fluid at that age. Gender or otherwise. People try new things and some stuff works and some stuff doesn't. That really goes for any age but especially when we are younger.

If you have a history of splitting or black and white thinking, it's possible that's what is happening. But when I split I tend to do it on a lot of things, not just one aspect of my life.

[โ€“] [email protected] 4 points 3 months ago

Black and white thinking, sure probably. Idk what splitting is.