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Trans Megathread for the Week of 7/29 - 8/4 (hexbear.net)

submitted 3 months ago by [email protected] to c/[email protected]

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Sending good vibes to all of my trans comrades cat-trans

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[–] [email protected] 13 points 3 months ago (2 children)

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Like even in another part of this thread, I have no desire and even repulsion at being called a “good girl” but I love that this affirms folks too. makima-think

Slip ups are okay! We’re only human and gender is a fuck. Going to start asking folks in my circle to stop using it with me though.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 3 months ago

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even as someone that would melt at the right person saying good girl, I couldn't imagine just using it to someone and assuming the default is that's fine. I hope the people around you will chill with that as soon as you ask

[–] [email protected] 9 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago) (1 children)

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I have the repulsion too, like nails down a chalkboard but I know it's different for others. I've also been infantilised by people even recently, all of this raises my hackles, I feel like a rottweiler lol seriously.. nothing more insulting..

Hopefully they'll understand, I know some get defensive unfortunately

goodluck <3

[–] [email protected] 7 points 3 months ago (1 children)

Thanks for being rad. comrade-raccoon

[–] [email protected] 7 points 3 months ago

Proud to be of service comrade-raccoon