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Sending good vibes to all of my trans comrades cat-trans

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[โ€“] [email protected] 7 points 4 months ago (1 children)

spoilerOkay thanks bocchi-cry

Realising that being on hormones a really long time actually does make a notable difference is kinda rad. I know the babytrans hate waiting, but Hey, just pop some pills for a while, it's gonna slap!! I was gonna say though yeah, as discussed in the SMALL SHIRT BIG PANTS/BIG SHIRT SMALL PANTS comment thread, sometimes "androgynous" clothes can contribute positively toward your figure. I seem small :> I thought men wore tanks too, and mine are pretty loose, but aight I guess I'll take the W โœจ

Hm okay, so it's less literally that clothes are 90% on their own, but more how they interact with the rest of your presentation and form, and also putting some intentionality into the way you present (orange book) helps a lot.

High waisted stuff fucks bocchi-party I had no idea you could de-emphasise your shoulders though, that is good to know. Look at all this stuff I kind of understand!!!

Okay this tracks, I think I get it now. There's a lot more going on than in the initial statement, very cool. I'm learning the stuff!!!!

Shouts to having long femme hair also โœจ

[โ€“] [email protected] 6 points 4 months ago (1 children)

::: spoiler spoiler Yeah basically I'm saying if you're fashion-pilled passing becomes easier and even if you're not it helps a lot to incorporate some basic ideas.

Yeah the shoulders thing can be done! I'm gonna take an example of a dress I actually own to show what I mean since it incorporates several of the tricks into it:

Here there are two things going on, the first is that the white chest draws your eyes toward it away from your shoulders. The second is that the princess sleeves emphasise the forearms and thereby also draw attention away. I love the princess sleeves btw they're so fun and flowy.

There's other ways you can deemphasise them too, angled sleeves on a short sleeve for instance can do it by angling it so your eyes don't rest on them. Or you can wear capelets! I love capelets.

Love long femme hair, simple as.

[โ€“] [email protected] 6 points 4 months ago (1 children)

spoilerI am un-fashion-pilled, I dunno what stuff is, got the wrong kinda autism sadly :/

Yo that's cool, seeing an example as you describe it is super handy. De-emphasised shoulders, how about that shit!! niko-wonderous

SIMPLE AS

[โ€“] [email protected] 6 points 4 months ago (1 children)

spoilerYeah I always like to have an example when explaining fashion concepts. That fashion effort post I keep wanting to finish was going to have one but I'm too busy and eepy all the time to work on it.

Also thanks for being a contrarian. ๐Ÿ’œ Talking about this fashion stuff improved my mood somewhat

[โ€“] [email protected] 6 points 4 months ago

spoilerI'm still looking forward to whenever you can work on it!!! Cool post idea!!!!!

Lmao you're welcome cat-trans Glad it did!! It is fun tbh.