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My friends don’t tell me not to talk about my feelings but I find it difficult to open up (to anyone honestly) and just want to hang out with someone like almost every day (I hate texting). My friends just don’t have the mental energy to see me every day for no particular reason (they also live like 30 minutes away from me which doesn’t help).
Yeah my mom sucks in that way but her family sucks even more so she didn’t have a great example in growing up. Imo she just needs therapy but she probably has so much trauma that idk if she can still work through that at her age. I can literally see her dissociate if certain topics come up and she doesn’t notice it at all and acts like nothing happened.
Oh I see. My little sister has a similar thing, she was apprehended from my dad a while back (for good reason, my dad sucked) and she dealt with her trauma by basically never being alone. Uh, she still hasn't really changed and literally can't have a night alone without company so I guess she never really dealt with her trauma lol. Hope it's not the same story for you
Ah that sounds rough. I am working on my traumas and talking to a therapist about it so I don’t think that really applies to me. I just like to be around people but I do prefer to sleep alone (to the point of letting my exes sleep in my living room when staying over lol). Thank you though and I hope your sister gets better too at some point!